Zoya & Self Respect - Page 3

Originally posted by: -Shayari-

Anu its up to the person whether they want to fall for emotional blackmail or not.

And i agree yes zoya may have been under a wrong impression but what did she really expect hersf being a married woman to someone else living with her first love? Especially considering her stance on marriage. Thats foolish of her.

yes it is so just as asad is a gullibale to fall for ayaan's emotional blackmail zoya is too and just as ayaan is wrong to emotionally blackmail asad so is asad for emotionally blackmailig zoya..

zoya didn't consider that a marriage and did say that to asad ki ye shaadi nahi galti thi and also asad didn't consider that a marriage either he only left zoya in SM for nikhat's sake ...had he left zoya in SM coz he thought zoya was married to ayaan i wouldn't have been this pissed though still that should have been zoya's decision

And asad went to zoya and tried to make ammends.. that step was the biggest thing he can do as well as apologize and try to assure. Whay else can he do? He did assured her and knows he is sorry and he is hurting to. What else can he do?

I am only pissed with asad but zoya too infact more with zoya...she should understand how she was treated but she doesn't...my complain is not them getting together but how they got back together...both zoya nd asad are sorry but asad is sorry only for hurting zoya he isn't sorry or ashamed how he forced zoya nd same with zoya she was pissed coz asad left her and made the decision for her but she should be pissed that it wasn't any decision but to fake a marriage and CVs will never make them realize this nd that is disappointing

and believe me only if a hug could make everything right there wouldn't so much hatred in this world😆

Originally posted by: VashH

I totally agree . they both cannot live without each other and have confessed this several times . I am a believer of romance and just love to see couples happy in love . this is something money can't buy . Asad and Zoya pine for each other and you see it in each episode . I always put my take on the messages of each meeting or even thoughts of each other in my music .I feel safe sharing them with u ..knowing its safe . take a look at my thoughts on this episode .to me this was the message sent out

http://youtu.be/z9k8p5hM3-A

Originally posted by: -KSGsmitten-

Nice post! 👍🏼 I second you completely.

She won't leave him because her love and longing for him would always take precedence. In fact her walking away would be out of character as she has always been really selfless. Also, this does not make her any less strong or modern. Loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY makes you strong even if that love is your weakness. It gives you the power to fight for it and she'd do just that. Modernity does not mean that you put yourself before anything and everything else. But again it depends on how one perceives modernity and progressiveness.

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

Originally posted by: me2you

This self respect issue is quite a delicate issue, if I may say so.

See, Zoya is deeply and madly in love with Asad. She can go to any extent for him and will bear any sort of pain for him as well.

Like you mentioned, she even went back to him after the slap.

Does this make her a weak woman? Uhm not exactly.

Some of us may think so, but it really depends on what kind of person you are. I agree that the slap was not acceptable but her love for Asad is so much bigger and deeper than the pain and humiliation from the slap was not felt by her. Is she blinded by love?

Perhaps yes, perhaps not. She just had full faith and trust in her love and was willing to fight for it.

Most of us would have probably left the man we love because our self respect is our biggest pride.

Eventually, it totally depends on what kind of woman you are.

Some won't take a sh*t, some can take a lot...

Originally posted by: -Shayari-

Bheegs going off of what u said.. yes gravity of situations are much worse

But the concept is the same

And in real life .. its not about making a deal about an issue and divorcing or quitting .. its about tryings to resolve the situations not giving up. If u truly love someone a slap shouldnt be the thing that makes you leave that person. The context matters the occurance matters ..

Conflict resolution is what makes relationships strong.

asad learnt from thaf slap that he shouldnt raise his hands on someone like that. He learnt from the times he junped to conclusions that he shouldnt do that.. every situation is a learning experience is what im tryibg to say.

Packing bags and leaving is a sign of cowardice.