Random ramblings - Page 4

Originally posted by: rivya

Ranji...awesome post.

I am with Ne...I could not like a lot of these characters based on what I read about them. But they have grown on me.

Dilshaad is still my favorite, but yesterday she totally made me unhappy.

Badi Bi - the less said the better. Honestly, she is just a waste of time and space. Despite knowing everything, she has not nothing, zilch, nada...😡

About men in hindi serials - would u believe that they get paid more than their female counterparts? This is to compensate them for their almost prop like usage. And it is partly coz of the viewership, most serial watchers are women, it must make them feel good to see the women glorified and the men moping around.😆 An alternative reality you see.

Handsome, powerful, rich men making mistakes and crying about them. and still loving their mahan female leads with all their hearts. This is what dreams and fantasies are made of for the abla naris of the 21st centuries.

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

You know what my problem is? I totally understand why Asad succumbed to Ayaan's blackmail..Thats just Asad being himself cos he is emotionally vulnerable..But he had no right to force Zoya into this when he himself was not sure about the situation😆 If he had requested Zoya, explained his point of view and tried to understand her side of the story, that would have atleast helped in not ruining his character..But dragging her to SM, not bothering to consult her, just dumping her in that house when he himself is totally confused about the situation is totally not done😆

About Zoya, i don get why she shut up then and is ranting now😆

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Yeah, I had expected that in garden scene , he would request Zoya for this.. No man, I can't justify him totally, he is wrong but I would not use harsh words for him like trading, trafficking, master, seller and all.. It was one helpless situation where he behaved irrationally..

You know, Zoya is just being a typical women who do mistakes, bolna hota tab nai bolte and then show anger to their husbands only at night ans take out others frustration on them.. I have seen many girls like this who never speak anything and only show nakhre to their bfs..hahaha...

Maybe she did not think about staying in SM for weeks..she thought she had come for only one day

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Ah i respect your POV and i agree about every show just revolving around the female lead😆

Trust me, Gul intends to redeem both these characters and dump all the blame on bechari Razia😆

Originally posted by: rivya

About men in hindi serials - would u believe that they get paid more than their female counterparts? This is to compensate them for their almost prop like usage. And it is partly coz of the viewership, most serial watchers are women, it must make them feel good to see the women glorified and the men moping around.😆 An alternative reality you see.

Wow! People are paid money to stay jobless. Why wasn't I born as a guy with good looks?😆

Handsome, powerful, rich men making mistakes and crying about them. and still loving their mahan female leads with all their hearts. This is what dreams and fantasies are made of for the abla naris of the 21st centuries.

I don't get this fantasy. You want a guy who treats you like shit and later falls in love with you and its okay coz he looks good and is probably loaded?

And talk of being a modern woman but after marriage all one cares about is dal sabzi.

It feels like they are enforcing the same old rules under a modern garb.

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

So Zoya shut up before devar Asad and took out all her frustration on hubby Ayaan?😲😆

Originally posted by: GredandForge

Originally posted by: Gazala1

@Bold, you put it perfectly👏
Whatever is shown, the female audience feels that however bad their own reality is, it's still not as bad as the leads😆
A mother watching this show is likely to feel that her poor daughter may not be intellectually gifted but atleast she isn't as dumb as Zoya to run out on the eve of her own marriage and a young wife is likely to say to herself that her hubby may be an ass at times but atleast he hasn't tried to loan her out to his bro😆
It's all relative😆

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

I think for viewers that just watch the show daily and do not discuss, the characters seem to be doing just fine 😆 I only can't begin to understand how Gaffur cannot be blamed. Ok Rashid ko toh phir bhi you can let off after a while but how with Gaffur :\ he is a murderer.

Originally posted by: GredandForge

But what kind of an alternative reality is it where women are still commodified, expected to make sacrifices.

Isn't that what our mothers and grandmothers been doing for so long?

The only difference is that you identify the person as a lead and there will be some random praise showered upon the person.