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Posted: 11 years ago
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believe me dear..every1 wants 2..😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Maybe look at it from a different perspective.

It's not about Imraan and Farhan. It's about how many times she's faced rejection and how many times she tried to pick up the pieces and move on again but it couldn't happen because there would always be someone reminding her that she was ugly, dark, didn't deserve anything, etc. She fell in love with Imraan and had all her dreams attached to him. And then he left her. For her own sister. But she still tried to be strong and move on.

Nikhat trying to kill herself isn't over Farhan, a guy who she really doesn't even know yet. She's never been a weak character. She's been the one who's given courage to Humeira when she wanted to kill herself too. But she's reached a point where she can't handle it now. She's tired of seeing her family go through so much for her. Haseena bi is literally looting them, her parents fight over this, her own brothers have fought over her after Imraan left her for Najma and now her brothers are giving up who they love for her. She understands the pain she's inflicted upon others and I think somewhere, she's really begun to feel that she's inauspicious and responsible for all of this. She thinks she's a burden and she wants her family to get rid of that burden. She's depressed. Severely.

Her family has suffered a lot because of her. And Nikhat is exhausted from all the humiliation now. I'm not saying that she has done the right thing but she's not weak. She's just exhausted from the emotional turmoil that she has been through. Suicide is never the answer to any problem but to a person who's depressed, it may really look like the only option.


I do have problems with this show not showing women doing anything but waiting to get married and romanticizing suicide . Even Zoya in that regard - does she have a career? A job?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..preethi..

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mar hi nahi rahi.. kalesh paya hua hai...😡

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Posted: 11 years ago
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plzz die & go to hell take
ayaan & shireen with u
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Anamika.

Maybe look at it from a different perspective.

It's not about Imraan and Farhan. It's about how many times she's faced rejection and how many times she tried to pick up the pieces and move on again but it couldn't happen because there would always be someone reminding her that she was ugly, dark, didn't deserve anything, etc. She fell in love with Imraan and had all her dreams attached to him. And then he left her. For her own sister. But she still tried to be strong and move on.

Nikhat trying to kill herself isn't over Farhan, a guy who she really doesn't even know yet. She's never been a weak character. She's been the one who's given courage to Humeira when she wanted to kill herself too. But she's reached a point where she can't handle it now. She's tired of seeing her family go through so much for her. Haseena bi is literally looting them, her parents fight over this, her own brothers have fought over her after Imraan left her for Najma and now her brothers are giving up who they love for her. She understands the pain she's inflicted upon others and I think somewhere, she's really begun to feel that she's inauspicious and responsible for all of this. She thinks she's a burden and she wants her family to get rid of that burden. She's depressed. Severely.

Her family has suffered a lot because of her. And Nikhat is exhausted from all the humiliation now. I'm not saying that she has done the right thing but she's not weak. She's just exhausted from the emotional turmoil that she has been through. Suicide is never the answer to any problem but to a person who's depressed, it may really look like the only option.


I do have problems with this show not showing women doing anything but waiting to get married and romanticizing suicide . Even Zoya in that regard - does she have a career? A job?


We aren't really disagreeing with wht u said 😊... I know she have face a lot in past...but is suicide really the solution to all tht?😕 Marriage is only d aim in her life?😕... She need to learn to stand on her own feet n stop depending too much on family... After all she faced in life..she still doesn't wanna do something in life,😕 be someone who she always wanna b... Just cause she wasn't allow to dance doesn't mean she give up on her dream... You have to struggle to achieve your dream...n wht d hell is she doing to achieve all tht? 😡Nothing just sitting at home silting her wrist ...she need to grow up...
N if u look at poor zoe... She has seen more thn wht nikhat did...but she was always strong... Every thing she ever loved was being snatch aways from her... But she did not trying to suicide, did she?...
Edited by Withmaaneet - 11 years ago
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Yes, of course, the solution is never suicide but really, telling a depressed person that is like talking to a wall.
Nikhat feels responsible for what's happened and her family has always over-protected her and sheltered. NONE of the women on this show have a career or even a job.


You can's just tell a person who is going through depression to "grow up". It isn't that simple. The issue is much more complex. She needs to be taken care of right now. Given psychological and medical treatment.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Withmaaneet


We aren't really disagreeing with wht u said 😊... I know she have face a lot in past...but is suicide really the solution to all tht?😕 Marriage is only d aim in her life?😕... She need to learn to stand on her own feet n stop depending too much on family... After all she faced in life..she still doesn't wanna do something in life,😕 be someone who she always wanna b... Just cause she wasn't allow to dance doesn't mean she give up on her dream... You have to struggle to achieve your dream...n wht d hell is she doing to achieve all tht? 😡Nothing just sitting at home silting her wrist ...she need to grow up...
N if u look at poor zoe... She has seen more thn wht nikhat did...but she was always strong... Every thing she ever loved was being snatch aways from her... But she did not trying to suicide, did she?...



Zoya would actually be the worst example here. The fact that she became depressed and isolated because she saw Tanveer with Asad even after Tanveer warned her shows how weak and dependent she is on Asad. You can't compare what Nikhat has gone through with Zoe because she hasn't faced rejection. Instead, she was the one running away from the marriage and also, Zoe depends completely on Asad for everything. Yes, she hasn't commited suicide but you have to consider that she knows very well that Asad loves her (even if he is giving her away to Ayaan). Nikhat on the other hand, has faced rejection over rejection due to her complexion and other things. It really shatters a person's self-esteem. Sadly, this issue should be handled maturely yet people are saying that she should die.
Marriage is not the essential thing about life and Imran nor Farhan are the cause of it but she feels solely responsible for the insults her family is bearing for her. As a daughter of the house, she is right in her point of view as no child would want their parents going through such situations. She is a smart intelligent woman who is following what her family and society wants = getting married.

As for the dance, I don't think she has given up...but more so she hasn't been able to think about it with all the drama around her.

The track will take long to recover as a person in depression just can't come out all happy and fine. Suicide is definitely not the answer but then this is how reality works. Teenagers kill themselves due to bullying and peer pressure, and many women suicide when they are picked on for their physical features. I am glad that Gul is showing this track...hopefully Nikhat does come out stronger and better. Suicide is a bad phase of her life which will fade, just like all the bad phases we have been through.

Edited by -3raser- - 11 years ago

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