Get the right message across or the complete one atleast! - Page 7

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Delena,

I don't mind at all.😊

Is that the real story? I guess you got your info from F32 that Zee asked them to show something like this...even then, I don't see where you feel they went wrong.

We all agree that Zoya was stupid...and the message is that YOUR STUPIDITY CAN COST YOU YOUR LIFE...as was shown by a scared Zoya standing under the street light...and her confessing to Asad hat she had been scared.

It is not an isolated event...when I said about me going for a movie amidst a strike..I meant it.

IT IS IMPORTANT YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT KIND OF A STIKE IT WAS...ONLY CABS AND AUTOS...Private cars and buses were running...so it was not a bandh...JUST A PEACEFUL DEMONSTRATION of non- co- operation ONLY BY CABS AND AUTOS.

That Mr. Khan offered to take her, had it not been for his 'meeting', itself shows the lightness of the strike situation. I think many of us are MISTAKING it for a HARTAAL...which would be like 'better to stay at home' situation.

If you don't mind me asking you, Do you live in India?😊

I come from a place where we have a record number of hartaals and strikes and what not😆...I don't attribute any significance to a cab strike.😳

I think the message is that, a girl can get into a difficult situation, thanks to her stupidity...but no matter what her situation is, NO GUY HAS THE RIGHT TO JUDGE HER OR TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HER.😳

Originally posted by: shanry

Thanks, Shanry.

I guess we can only take it as, the festivities got delayed and by the time Zoya came to the bus stop and realised there was no bus...her battery was dead..and it was late. She got carried away...it would have been an evening thing since that is the usual clebration time, I guess.

What was Asad doing? Or rather, what did the CVs do to him? Why DID HE NOT SET OUT IMMEDIATELY FOR THE GROUND HIMSELF, KNOWING BUSES MAY NOT BE AVAILABLE...It was foolishness on the Cvs' part to show him waiting at HOME DOING NOTHING. HE WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER OFF AT A MEETING, if he was not rushing to the ground and trying to cantact her there...

He supposedly knows Bhopal better, yet EVEN HE THOUGHT SHE'D GET BACK HOME SOMEHOW...and he stayed home TILL SHE GOT BACK...means- the situation was not as dangerously perceived by him as was by most of us. He simply thought she'd walk back home at that hour???

If he did, I wouldn't crucify him...it is probably not an unheard of thing for him, though he keeps strict rules...

Asad nitpicking...Zoya had apologised...the apology was done...now what is the point in again going on about the why and how of it???

She made a mistake- she apologised...now is he going to dissect that mistake and get more apologies out of her? What is the point in telling someone who already knows she was wrong, that SHE WAS WRONG???

Originally posted by: delena90

And again - who the hell is curbing her freedom??? It's about being smart and responsible to ensure that you can do what you want and sill be safe.

Originally posted by: Oldestfan

Word ...
I have travelled around the world alone, been stranded at airports because of missed connections, and have had to make some expensive choices a little more than i could afford as a grad studentbecause as an independent person i am obligated to keep myself safe and my loved ones worry free. Communication and updating on whereabouts is non negotiable. It is truly a travesty that zoya is the one chosen to preach to the choir! Hell, men too should be scared of getting stranded like that! Rape is not the only crime that can be committed ... Hate crimes, armed robbery, kidnapping you name it.
Zoyas dialogue in the show showed her guilt and acknowledgement pf her foolhardiness. She was not given the virtue of separating her ego frpm the truth. Her subsequent obnoxiousness in the last few episodes including the incredibly stupid face making have lowered her conduct levels to razias crassness.
Its very sad rhat after all the agony and ordeals that she has been through, she emerges as childish, instead of child like.

Originally posted by: studentofdayear

again she is not doing anything wrong..so there is no question of being 'smart'

Originally posted by: delena90

She is absolutely wrong! And if you can't see or understand that there is no point debating with you.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

😔

Why do we want Zoya to be like us in every possible way?

Do you throw chips packets on the floor and burn CDs in cakes? There are people who do that...Zoya is just that- an imperfect person...that does NOT MEAN ONLY PERFECT PEOPLE CAN PREACH ...

I think that is again a valid point.

No point saying...she was careful, yet it happened...the point is, she made a mistake- invited danger...are you going to judge and say that she deserved it?

I know your answer would be 'NO'.😊

Originally posted by: studentofdayear

she is absolutely right! if u cannot see that then there is no point debating with u!