Get the right message across or the complete one atleast! - Page 6

Originally posted by: chicksoup

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Star,

My question is, why DO WE AS AUDIENCE LOOK FOR A SOCIAL MESSAGE IN A SHOW???

Especially one like QH! It is a rom com...fictional drama...not a social message server...and certain socia issues will be brought in- otherwise how can they run the show?

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Well written Del...

I personally don't even think any teleserial on indian tv has even a remote capability of passing a message. ..they are way too TRP centric...i never honestly understood what DABH was trying to say...and BV started losing the plot when they grew up...I think they should stop taking themselves so seriously and dish out good entertainment

Originally posted by: pk1611

Yup 😕 ... She thinks she just made a mistake in judging the person... Not that it was foolish to go there in the first place... I seriously doubt the makers r going to address that part... Mayb they will make Zoya apologize to Asad but I'm not sure it would b 4 that... At the max they will just say that asad was right abt the guy... The makers r really sending the wrong msg here esp to easily impressionable teenagers 😕

Originally posted by: chicksoup

I see your point as well Delena's.

But I think we should not take away from the fact that at least QH is sending a message about a very important and pertinent point in this day and age - the need to respect a woman for what she is i.e. a human being.

Yes, in the process they could have addressed the fact that women should be responsible for our actions too but doesn't that play right into the hands of the detractors that state that most rapes are to a certain extent the fault of the woman? For that reason I would think its best to keep it simple and stick to just 1 point/message.

As for Zoya not being from Bhopal and therefore not understanding the public transport system, that's valid but how is it not immaturity and stupidity not to call the 1 person you can rely on to protect you when you realise its GETTING late and there are no busses in sight. Why wait until its VERY late. Calling earlier would have also resolved the phone battery dying issue. Zoya is not from the village, she is an educated girl from a pretty intimidating city, NY. How is it she does not realise the folly of walking along on a deserted street and then taking a lift from a total stranger.

Yes she apologised and admitted she was afraid, but does that mean when Asad found out how she exposed herself to the very real danger of being taken advantage of by a stranger, he has no right to express his dissatisfaction. How can that be nit-picking?

Yes he could have expressed relief over her safe return before he got angry but very often when a person is reliefed that the very thing they were super worried about is ok, they take it out on the person who put them through the harrowing experience of that worry. It's very common - may not be right, but it happens.

Zoya needs to understand what she did was wrong or else she is likely to put herself in a similar compromising /dangerous situation again.

Edited by shanry - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: delena90

Yes zoya was so smart for going out on a lonely road to meet a bloody celebrity. So, mature and independent. You have sorely missed the point. It's not about going out - its about zoya being stupid enough to venture out during a strike and then stupidly trusting a stranger. Gul has only given half the message - as much as we would all love others to change that is not how life works. Nobody is stopping anyone from doing their own thing but whatever you do, do it smart.

Had zoya gone and had a car for her return or even come home with a friend this would not even be a discussion.

Originally posted by: delena90

Then they shouldn't have attempted this storyline - they should have refused zee when they said that a PSA must be shown.

I'll reply to you other comment her chicksoup, I hope you don't mind 😊

It's not about zoya apologizing but more about zoya understanding where she was wrong. Dhoni is of no importance when your city is on a strike and your safety is at risk.

If Gul was attempting to or across a message she needs to put across the complete message. Zoya lacked foresight and maturity and her tantrum to see Dhoni could have cost her her life.

Originally posted by: studentofdayear

again a woman should have the freedom to roam around freely! and that is the mesage the cvs are giving!