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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: hsvs


LOL, Sujata... right, people who are saying that Zoya should leave Asad or Asad should leave Zoya all because of this, arent married or havent been in any relationship.

@Sangeeta, regarding Zoya: She has been as irritating and interfering as this from day 1. I used to be bugged with her then. Now again the writing is highlighting this aspect cos her character will grow and mature hopefully in the upcoming tracks.

yesterday, I was bugged again - I get it she is just looking out for Najma and wants her happiness but please, time dekhke munh khola karo! They have just come back from a volatile drama filled evening and bas, she immediately starts rushing the topic of marriage! That to me was very insensitive. I dont expect her to feel anything for Nikhat for that matter - but considering the other people are involved in that family - it simply wasnt in her place to start rushing the marriage.

She should have let it pass over the night and then the next day - during lunch or dinner or breakfast she could have raised this. As for her comment about moving on, shows her practical nature - again - statement was okay - timing very very very off! Just made her come across as insensitive and very selfish.
Indicative of her very pampered upbringing in the US, i guess...
What I would like to see is Asad ticking her off the next time she does something like this and them having a discussion on their respective povs and sorting it out - like all real life couples! Too much to ask for? 😆




very valid point Harini...she could have waited till next morning to discuss this but this is how Zoya is. As I said above, earlier Asad's temper would get us all riled up and Zoya's irritating behavior was lesser of the two evils. Now hat asad has calmed down, Zoya's behavior is in the limelight. we all know she has to grow up courtesy Gaffur track

yes, asad needs to have a clear discussion with her and not follow her blindly...why can't he balance things? He is all or nothing

after mariage, it was my hubby who clarified the dynamics in our family...no woman knows how to handle it unless their husband or saas clarifies it
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52
Beautiful and much needed post Sangeeta.👏.

Yes, I was totally irritated with her dialogues today. I was also irritated about the fact that she seemed to be oblivious of Asad's pain and concern for Nikhat.

But that is our Zoya. She was very much in character today.

Right now her focus is on Nazma and to get her, her Prince charming..Everything else is not a Priority for her now. This does not mean she does not care for others..This is how she deals with situations.
When her loved ones are unhappy, she just puts all her energy to fix that issue. She saw Nazma was very unhappy.As she herself said, she cannot watch Nazma being upset and crying. She loves her.
How can she make Nazma happy? Get her married to Immi.. That is why the hurry, push and brushing aside all other issues.

Remember, when Asad and Ayaan were not allowed to meet each other, she went out of her way, against Dilshad's wishes and Asad's promise to organise a meeting with the brothers.. Because she could not watch Asad being unhappy..

Again, when Rashid court case was going on, for Dilshad's happiness, she did everything possible to stop Asad appear in the court.. Here her main concern was Dilshad. She just brushed aside Asad's feelings.


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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: RandomSquared


im from ny and im 22 and dont know any girl here who doesn't care about how their in laws treat them. all girls from every culture 99% of the time are worried about how their mother in laws treat them lol.


they do want to have a good relationship with their MIL but MIL doesn't decide your choice of spouse. If they love their partner, they are willing to overlook their MIL's flaws
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54

I am so glad I am not the only one who understands what they are trying to show by Asad's actions! This is no reason for people to claim that Zoya does not deserve Asad. Also, i feel we need to give her some time.

Finally, if anything we should be mad at Najma. Nikhat is her own sister. If Najma could be happily smiling and was so insensitive why is everyone bashing Zoya?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Y said it all dear! Bang on post
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post Bheegi Di...
I guess its problem with mentality that leads have to be perfect...the same had been said for Asad many times when the Tanveer fiasco happened...

Zoya had always been like this ...the reason it is getting very highlighted now is that we as audience have seen Haseena/Imran s actual character based on how they treated Tanveer (old one) when she had gone to their home.. that is one reason I could never like Imran ...since Zoya is speaking for people who we know are evil we are finding her manipulating etc...but she has always been interfering

secondly i feel this track has come up suddenly like being forced to audience...we have seen Nikhat and Imran's interactions earlier and Najma Imran came up suddenly with no effective back story..

However i think best part of QH is people are real..both Asad and Zoya ...being the leads ..they are flawed and have accepted each other with their flaws...
Zoya certainly needs to mature but that would happened gradually...let the story unfold..
we r nowhere to decide who deserves who in reel /real
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Posted: 12 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: bheegi

I am sure if haseena comes up with her list of demands, Asad/Dilshaad/Zoya will set her straight


I have doubts about them setting her straight. Maybe one of more,but I have a feeling that Asad is going to give in a lot just for Najma's happiness. One word from Najma and he agreed to meet Haseena the next day (Or did not get the dining table scene correctly?)

Maybe Dilu will fight her demands. And Zoe in her support Najma mode may just give in too...which is why I am afraid that Jannu might still happen. Save Najma's heartbreak by hiding Tannu's baby daddy truth. In return get info on Zoya baby's daddy.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi


they do want to have a good relationship with their MIL but MIL doesn't decide your choice of spouse. If they love their partner, they are willing to overlook their MIL's flaws

its true..and example was nikhat ...she was ready to marry imraan even knwoing how haseena bi is...even till yesterday she was ready to get married to him...ayaan was ready for it kowing how haseena bi is...so if nazma is over looking haseena bi its not a strange thing...in her case even there is plus point that imraan loves her and raise his voice in her support...people take criticism from in laws because they want to live with their love..its normal in india..
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Posted: 12 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: bheegi



I guess my definition of bashing is different. I would say it's ok to be frustrated by Zoya's behavior but bashing a character because she is advocating for her SIL? I agree, she should try to take the back seat but she did let asad make the decision of calling nikhat and talking to her first.

After the HB home incident, she needed to put forward Najma's POV and highlight the fact that Imran openly declared his love for Najma. Of course we all know what the truth is...zoya doesn't

My gripe was with people who feel Zoya is not fit for asad anymore. These people should realize that these kinds of issues happen in marriages ll the time



The people who think zoya is not good enough for asad i guess are letting their bias against zoya color their view - however my opinion asad himself is not a catch...AT ALL. In the real world asad would be behind bars for being an abusive idiot. However, they are all characters and they are flawed. Asad has always irritated me and continues to do so, zoyas interfering behavior irritates me too and Ayaan and shireen need to boil in a cauldron of hot water.

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