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Posted: 12 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: Niharika17

Awesome post Bheegi Di...
I guess its problem with mentality that leads have to be perfect...the same had been said for Asad many times when the Tanveer fiasco happened...

Zoya had always been like this ...the reason it is getting very highlighted now is that we as audience have seen Haseena/Imran s actual character based on how they treated Tanveer (old one) when she had gone to their home.. that is one reason I could never like Imran ...since Zoya is speaking for people who we know are evil we are finding her manipulating etc...but she has always been interfering

secondly i feel this track has come up suddenly like being forced to audience...we have seen Nikhat and Imran's interactions earlier and Najma Imran came up suddenly with no effective back story..

However i think best part of QH is people are real..both Asad and Zoya ...being the leads ..they are flawed and have accepted each other with their flaws...
Zoya certainly needs to mature but that would happened gradually...let the story unfold..
we r nowhere to decide who deserves who in reel /real


thanks Niharika...yes, Zoya has always been like this and as RK said above, Dilshaad did give that responsibility to Zoya. She asked her to find a guy for Najma...and she is just delivering her task with full enthusiasm here😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@sangi-so farhaan can come for nikhat..and nikhat can get married to same haseena family...height of stupidity...😆
imraan nazma break up😆
then what i mean where story will go...??? shireen will have gala time and nazma shedding tears and dilshaad again seeing nazma suffering from heartbreak😆

is there possibility that both sisters might get married into same family????..i doubt marriage can not happen in QH so easily😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#93

Originally posted by: rivya


I have doubts about them setting her straight. Maybe one of more,but I have a feeling that Asad is going to give in a lot just for Najma's happiness. One word from Najma and he agreed to meet Haseena the next day (Or did not get the dining table scene correctly?)

Maybe Dilu will fight her demands. And Zoe in her support Najma mode may just give in too...which is why I am afraid that Jannu might still happen. Save Najma's heartbreak by hiding Tannu's baby daddy truth. In return get info on Zoya baby's daddy.
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Rivs



i think like Zoya pushed Imran to speak up at HB's house, if HB has a list of demands, Zoya will push Imran to speak up against his ammi. If he doesn't, then that will ring bells in her mind

No JANNU yaar...she tried to kill Zoya so many times. Asad will never go back there now
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Posted: 12 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: delena90



The people who think zoya is not good enough for asad i guess are letting their bias against zoya color their view - however my opinion asad himself is not a catch...AT ALL. In the real world asad would be behind bars for being an abusive idiot. However, they are all characters and they are flawed. Asad has always irritated me and continues to do so, zoyas interfering behavior irritates me too and Ayaan and shireen need to boil in a cauldron of hot water.


all these characters are flawed...just like all of us😊 As long as they are good human beings- honest, truthful with good intentions that's what counts. Tanveer and Razia are the scum as their intentions are evil
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: poorvab

yes ur right to an extent, but i dont get whats the hurry in getting nama married. they all can wait, in that time, even nikhat would move on and they can get to know imran better!!! out of everyone, its zoya who is moving things forward the most, i know her intentions arnt wrong but she should act more maturely thats just what i feel!


i think if Dilshaad had not coupled the two nikaahs together, there would be no hurry
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rivya

Bang on Sangi...I lived in US for 13 years and recently came back...And trust me, my views are so different from folks who have been in India all their lives (about various things). So totally agree with you, Zoya is just ignorant. And fotunately for her, her own MIL is more like a mother so she does not know what it is to live with a Monster-in-law from hell. She probably thinks NajRan will just be blissful in their own worlds with Bhaiseena occasionally dropping by. And If Imran can stand up for her now, he will do so in the future too.

Rivs


exactly Rivs...Zoya has not seen Lalita Pawar movies either😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: notagain



Which is why I think I enjoy your posts. I haven't seen on forum anything saying Zoe is not deserving of Asad or should leave KM.


i think I saw a number of posts on FB...some die hard fans

We are all flawed in some ways, no one is perfect anyway. However I do feel that writers are setting up Zoe, to probably justify some future tracks...maybe. Alright she does not know Nikhat, and is not intuitive about it, but the whole bhaseena fiasco is not normal. It should be ringing off alarm bells in the whole Khan family.

yeah, the writers are building up to the next big dhamaal...we just have to sit and watch

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Posted: 12 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan


I know what you mean coz I myself grew up in the west most of my life. Over here hardly anyone would live with in laws. I am married and so is my sister and we don't live with in laws.

However, as an intelligent girl Zoya can see that in India, in laws (especially ones like Haseena who are trouble makers) cannot be ignored! Zoya herself will be living with her in laws, so she knows Najma will most likely do the same. So she cannot be so dismissive of Haseena's character, coz what she does WILL effect Najma! Not everyone is as lucky as Zoya is when it comes in in laws. But that doesn't mean she can chose to ignore the behaviour of a women like Haseena and state that it is "not important"!

Loving ones partner is all fine and good. But the people you have to spend time with other to your spouse can take a toll on your marriage! To date, I have not seen that Imraan is reliable. Yes he did the "grand gesture" this time, but what about every other time? Personally I think he is a loser of the highest order!


I agree...specially because Zoya is very protective of Najma. To be fair, we all know HB better than Zoya. Zoya has had brief interactions with her before but i guess she is assuming HB will be a good MIL as Imran loves Najma...once she sees her true colors, Zoya is not going to stay silent
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Posted: 12 years ago
#99

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

Definitely Zoya does not deserve to be bashed, like everyone else she has her own opinion and her own beliefs, and no one should claim she is not fit for Mr Khan and family for that. She might not be entirely right in the bigger POV but from her own characters POV she is justified. BUT I feel like she needs to realize that she is part of a family now, and their ties with others matter to her as well, if her family has just had to face humiliation due to a misunderstanding and has strained relations with closed ones (read:Ayan) and come back hurt and shaken then it is not the right situation to push Najma's wedding right away, she could have thoughtfully given this scenario some time and I am glad that Asad stopped her rant, it was much needed. Nikhat is not related to her, and her first priority is Najma considering that Imran loves Najma too, but even if we justify that she cannot think about Nikhat here, she should think about her own family. Their relations with the children of the other house have been strong, and none of them would want to cause them any pain for their own needs. As such this situation needed some maturity from her side BUT she is human and a pretty impulsive one at that, she needs some growth which shall come with time, but none of this deserves any harsh bashing as such..


QH always has enough explanation and justification for every character, there is always a flip side to every character which makes them all humans. Sab log sab kuch acha karenge, it'll become too perfect to watch, and that is not how life is 😆

Brilliant Post Di 😳


thanks Ankita. A lot of women who grow up in nuclear families do have to adjust and learn the dynamics of their husband's family (esp if it's a large family)...it all takes time and experience. Zoya will mature with time. Right now she has no idea what it means to be a part of such an extended family.
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Posted: 12 years ago
I don't agree with u completely 😊 but I certainly want Zoya in Khan mansion n in khandaan 😊 ..
The thing is she knows a broken relationship is hurtful, she herself told that.. N she need not know Nikhat personally but she knows Najma n Nikhat r sisters.. In such a situation her comments were insensitive n tactless.. Even if her ultimate aim was to bring happiness to Najma... N I was more irritated with the fact that she was oblivious to Asad's pain..

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