In Defense Of Zoya - Page 12

Originally posted by: sujataraje

@sangi-oishi did not post this..neither she has any tumblr account😆i just asked her😆

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

Hey Di

The surgery did not happen - fever is back went to the admission and IV and all for nothing 🤢 It will hopefully happen next week now 🤢

oh no- sorry to hear that. It's better to get done with this rather than stay in suspension. Hope u will be over this ailment soon.I am sure QH is a great distraction

I personally did not see anything wrong with what Zoya said yesterday (maybe i have been white washed😉) at KV for she was Najma's voice as Najma was too timid to speak up.

Hassina bi issue from Zoya POV

Lets not forget Zoya is from US where joint families are not a norm nor is the MIL given so much importance as it is in India. Zoya has been fortunate that her future MIL is more of a mother to her than a MIL to her so she does not realise the significance of a bitchy MIL - and even if the MIL is a witch it does not matter for in her opinion Imran will take a stand as he proved himself. After all wasn't even Nikhat ready to put up with her?

For all those saying her comment of Nikhat will move on was not okay and comparing zoya during the ASYA separation phase IMO there is a huge difference -

After the SR incident Zoya ended up at the Madrasa because it was not love but it was her trust that was broken - Zoya is someone who has always trusted and followed her instincts - never in her wildest dreams did she think Asad would be a cheater and when that happened she had lost faith in her own capability to trust humans therefore had isolated herself. At that time she had thought he loved her but SR had proved her instinct to be incorrect - she knew she loved him - not that he loved her so when he found her at the madrasa she distant her and left for Ajmer without informing him - she moved on!!!

Before the baby issue had come out but Asad had said no to second Nikka she had stayed back at KV and tried to fight for Asad as he had confessed he loved her - but Nikhats case is not the same for the love is not reciprocated Therefore from Zoya's POV Nikhat who was strong and level headed at Hassina bi's place would have an even bigger reason to move - that being that Imran declared in front of everyone that he did not love her and was always in love Najma!

However when the baby issue came she decided to move on again and was going to move out of KV and then go away knowing fully well that they both loved each other. Therefore Zoya saying Nikhat is yes upset so Ayaan is legit in is outburst but eventually she will move on as Nikhat herself said - u cant forcefully marry someone!!!

Zoya disregarding Nikhat feeling and being insensitive

Najma is Zoya's bbf and some who she has always protected whether it was from bullies at collage and therefore getting arrested and getting scolded by Asad or if it was protecting Najma from her own brother cause she had cut her hair. Now Najma is even more dear to her than those initial days for she is a sister to Zoya - remember her line to Tanveer- she only took Najma's name - so she wants her happiness and what is best for her. She understands the other 2 sisters are also important to Asad but she has never had any contact with them - not on SR night nor at the Eid function.

Additionally Nikhat herself pretended to be okay so well that her own family was shocked and she herself gave Najma's hand in Imrans. So from Zoya's POV they have Nikhats blessing to go ahead with the rishta which had been the one condition Asad had put.

Zoya rushing the Nikka at dinner scene

Am i the only one who see the relation between her Ta Umr line and why she is rushing for Najma's nikka? For Zoya being in a committed relationship has no meaning - her parents were in a committed relation but still her father left abandoning her and her mom. So in her opinion until one is not married the relationship is not permanent - For most of us (including Nikhat) being engaged is practically that u are married - at least mentally but that is no so for Zoya - and that is also the reason she is so insecure with Asad and request him to marry her fast.

Sorry mostly the points have been already discussed in past 16 pages but my QH fix is not complete until i post a reply to ur amazing posts😳

absolutely agree Sara! Zoya is def very insecure (and rightly so)- how many times does she have to become a bride before she says QH? Plus Dilshaad's desire of having the two nikaahs together is adding to the urgency. Dilshaad should go ahead with AsYa nikaah and perhaps just do an engagement for Najma till everything settles down.Wonder how Farhan's entry will change the equation. I feel Farhan will get hitched with Nikhat

Originally posted by: webuser7

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

Hey Di

The surgery did not happen - fever is back went to the admission and IV and all for nothing 🤢 It will hopefully happen next week now 🤢

i wish you get well soon😃

I personally did not see anything wrong with what Zoya said yesterday (maybe i have been white washed😉) at KV for she was Najma's voice as Najma was too timid to speak up.

yes zoya has been nazma's voice because nazma has never raised her voice in font of her family even when it comes to her wishes..zoya was the first one to get to know about imraan ...and zoya is making sure she keeps her trust.

Hassina bi issue from Zoya POV

Lets not forget Zoya is from US where joint families are not a norm nor is the MIL given so much importance as it is in India. Zoya has been fortunate that her future MIL is more of a mother to her than a MIL to her so she does not realise the significance of a bitchy MIL - and even if the MIL is a witch it does not matter for in her opinion Imran will take a stand as he proved himself. After all wasn't even Nikhat ready to put up with her?

see we all know how haseena bi has been...but it happens most of marriages specially love marriages.. i am not talking about extreme characters like haseena ...but people put up with their in laws just because they love their partner ...nikhat was ready to put up with her even till yesterday even her whole family was ready to get nikhat married to imraan even after so much happened...so nazma is also thinking everything will be fine and in her case imraan is supporting her in front of all...thats a big reason to trust imraan at this point of time ...

people don't leave their love just because how their in laws are...love is not about rationality and practicality every time...

For all those saying her comment of Nikhat will move on was not okay and comparing zoya during the ASYA separation phase IMO there is a huge difference -

After the SR incident Zoya ended up at the Madrasa because it was not love but it was her trust that was broken - Zoya is someone who has always trusted and followed her instincts - never in her wildest dreams did she think Asad would be a cheater and when that happened she had lost faith in her own capability to trust humans therefore had isolated herself. At that time she had thought he loved her but SR had proved her instinct to be incorrect - she knew she loved him - not that he loved her so when he found her at the madrasa she distant her and left for Ajmer without informing him - she moved on!!!

i dont think she said anything wrong about nikhat moving on...timing might be off but her intentions were not insensitive as people are thinking...

and does nikhat have any option rather than moving on???no...because her love is one sided ..and now she knows imraan loves someone else...even in her family people are talking about other alliances..so obviously they are also thinking about her moving on...

when people can expect nazma to move on...it can be expected from nikhat too...

see its very common in arrange matches where engagements breaks ..it does not mean people do not get engaged and married again..

zoya moved on...moving on does not mean you start smiling and enjoying life from the very next moment of breaking up...it means you move on with your life leaving our expectations from past...

you can take your time to come over break up terms bit you dont want to go back to your past or dont try to follow it..

zoya tried to move on ...she made herself busy in other things...when asad announced his marriage to tanveer..she was ready to o back to NY and decided to find about his father...

Before the baby issue had come out but Asad had said no to second Nikka she had stayed back at KV and tried to fight for Asad as he had confessed he loved her - but Nikhats case is not the same for the love is not reciprocated Therefore from Zoya's POV Nikhat who was strong and level headed at Hassina bi's place would have an even bigger reason to move - that being that Imran declared in front of everyone that he did not love her and was always in love Najma!

However when the baby issue came she decided to move on again and was going to move out of KV and then go away knowing fully well that they both loved each other. Therefore Zoya saying Nikhat is yes upset so Ayaan is legit in is outburst but eventually she will move on as Nikhat herself said - u cant forcefully marry someone!!!

Zoya disregarding Nikhat feeling and being insensitive

Najma is Zoya's bbf and some who she has always protected whether it was from bullies at collage and therefore getting arrested and getting scolded by Asad or if it was protecting Najma from her own brother cause she had cut her hair. Now Najma is even more dear to her than those initial days for she is a sister to Zoya - remember her line to Tanveer- she only took Najma's name - so she wants her happiness and what is best for her. She understands the other 2 sisters are also important to Asad but she has never had any contact with them - not on SR night nor at the Eid function.

nikhat and zoya ahve no bond..and here nazma and zoya are like sisters...we can not expect same bond between zoya and nikhat...what nikhat shares with humeira ..she does not share with zoya..and its so natural..because they are not connected at any level...as a girl zoya understood her feelings and she appreciated her ..she takes nikhat at her face value..which is totally ok in that case...because i dont recall any scene where nikhat was worried for zoya..when razia slapped her,or nikhaa got broken..

Additionally Nikhat herself pretended to be okay so well that her own family was shocked and she herself gave Najma's hand in Imrans. So from Zoya's POV they have Nikhats blessing to go ahead with the rishta which had been the one condition Asad had put.

Zoya rushing the Nikka at dinner scene

Am i the only one who see the relation between her Ta Umr line and why she is rushing for Najma's nikka? For Zoya being in a committed relationship has no meaning - her parents were in a committed relation but still her father left abandoning her and her mom. So in her opinion until one is not married the relationship is not permanent - For most of us (including Nikhat) being engaged is practically that u are married - at least mentally but that is no so for Zoya - and that is also the reason she is so insecure with Asad and request him to marry her fast.

first dilshaad wanted nazma nikaah along with asad and she gave nazma 's responsibilty to zoya..there nazma is also eager for wedding...and ypu made a very good point that zoya subconsciously feels that wedding is important to seal two lover's destiny together.

Sorry mostly the points have been already discussed in past 16 pages but my QH fix is not complete until i post a reply to ur amazing posts😳