And he drives away... - Page 5

Oishi always gives the best answers. Never have to say anything except:

"What oishi said :)"

But un still going to comment.

But before i do, i also agree with drea's points.

The problem with all this is, this isnt any 1 characters fault.
If we narrow that to asad and zoya, honestly both are equally guilty and at failt for seperate things.

The only thing we can do as an audience is watch this "FICTIONAL" show. I emphasize fictional because we need to remember that this is a story not reality and if we want to watch it for entertient purposes then we should be willing to accept the good the bad and the ugly.

Idkk i did want asad to stay put a little longer like u said repunzal but we cant really expect him to create a ruckus and barge in their as drea said. He is already guilty for hurting the girl an would he make it worse by forcing himself? Thats y he waited outside but knew that she wasnt ready to come so he left to give her that space. Its understandable i think.

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

Since Asad is "wallowing in self pity" as you say...Let me go by your logic. Zoya knew Tanveer's plans. Chose to ignore it. And this is how they're all in this situation now. Its been a month and Zoya still hasn't connected the dots. Its been a month no one knows where she is. Not Dilshad, not her appi, not Najma. Asad finds her by chance. The person he spoke to said she doesn't want to meet anyone. Did you want him to force himself inside the orphanage, make a ruckus and demand to meet her? Zoya got so happy when she heard Asad Ahmed Khan came looking for her. Why did she choose to stay hidden when the man was right outside the orphanage for sometime? Why did she run out in happiness in the first place if she didn't want to meet him?

Why does Zoya stay cooped up inside the orphanage day after day, going through the motions just like Asad? Almost robotic. Never smiling, never talking. Why hasn't Zoya gone back to being her normal bubbly, perky self by now? Why hasn't she kicked Tanveer's ass for ruining her wedding day and her life?

Do you see how ridiculous all that sounds? Its the same as saying Asad cares only about himself and that he's selfish because for you he didnt try hard enough. I dont know if you're being serious with your responses or that you're just blinded by your love for Zoya that you cant see anything else but her.

PS: I'm not an Asad fan only. I'm a fan of everyone in the show except Razia, Tanveer and sometimes Ayaan.

PPS: For all we know Asad will go back there the next morning and try to meet her again.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Andrea... No I am not blinded by my love for Zoya but I will not deny that I watch this show only for Zoya...and yes when I say that Asad is selfish I very well mean it. I have worked with many individuals in my profession to recognize certain traits of a person...Right now Asad feels guilty and above all he feels that he has proved his worst fears right that is he has become his dad...at present he is very much consumed with himself and what he has done...which is overshadowing Zoya's condition in his eyes. It's selfish of him to walk away knowing that he is the person responsible for Zoya's condition...no I don't want him to barge in but yes I expected him to wait patiently for her...I expected him to not drive away and not fearing that he would lose her again. It wasn't convincing enough for me.

I am surprised you are blaming Zoya for this condition? Well, lets remember what happened? Yes, she was threatened and warned by Billo...what was she supposed to do? Confide in everyone ...really? To whom...to the ones to have disregarded her complains including Dilshad ? Again, she saw her fiance half naked with his bestie on her wedding night..they were in a bed not in a park. She believes that Asad gave into Billo's seduction...she doesn't know that it was framed but she did trust Asad a lot.

Well, we all have our loyalties towards characters we believe in and my loyalties will always be with Zoya...I am not convinced Drea and I will always stand by my thought about Asad until I otherwise.

Actually drea- no one else is to blame but RAAZIA. Hehhe!!! If she hadnt brought tanveer in then even tanveer may not be a thorn haha!

Originally posted by: LoveRosh

Actually drea- no one else is to blame but RAAZIA. Hehhe!!! If she hadnt brought tanveer in then even tanveer may not be a thorn haha!

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I can't believe you think so.. Anyways its your opinion.. That man can feel her presence, he cursed himself badly, for one month he was living like hell, imagining her crazily everywhere and still you think he does not deserve her, strange.. He was respecting her wishes. He does not feel he deserves Zoya anymore,.. He was not there to prove his innocence beacause he thinks he is guilty, he just wants to make sure if she is fine.. You need to give space to other person.. If he comes in fron of her, she would have remembered everything and felt more pain. Do you think creating chaos, fighting with those ppl would have made Zoya happy? Every person react differently to the situation.. Some other lover may have done that but Asad's way is different that does not make him wrong.. Let me give you example, if I die or something happens to me, my mom will cry like hell but my dad will be calm quiet that does not mean my dad loves me less than mom. Both will have same pain, both love me, the way of reacting is different..

And Zoya is not flwaless, sane or godess.. She has lot of flaws too..Both have flaws.. They are imperfect still perfect for each other..And both needs to grow..

And the final thing is NOONE OTHER THAN ASAD DESERVE ZOYA..

P.S I know you watch this for only Zoya and feel her pain and understand only from her point of view but sometimes do try to understand other's point of view.. Isn't it too judgmental from your side to judge Asad for his every action..

I understand your pov and respect it...from where I come from I will not support a relationship where an individual has been hit and abused ...verbally,psychologically or physically ...it doesn't matter. It's a no tolerance zone for me and hence I have never supported Asya's relationship post the slap. Asya was done for me then...I watch it out of my loyalty for Zoya's character.

Hey Pri,

I have to disagree with you here. Asad is completely consumed by guilt and this was compunded by what the administrator at the madrasa said about Zoya's condition. He feels responsible for what she is going through. How is he supposed to face her? Until he believes that he has done nothing wrong he will not confront her. Asad despite his faults has always been righteous - Tanveer has stripped away the very essence of his being. He has no self-esteem and self-respect. He is consumed by self-loathing and depression and I don't think he can be blamed for that. He has lost everything - his identity, his self-worth, the love of his life, his mother and his good standing is society. On top of that he believes he has sexually assaulted his friend. This man is completely broken and him respecting her wishes was poignant.

There is a lot Asad has to pay for but this is not the punishment he needs or deserves and frankly the only person to blame for anything is Tanveer. I hope this woman suffers an unimaginable tragedy where she has to suffer the way she has made Asad and Zoya suffer. It would only be justice!

I'm no big Asad fan and I still think he has a long way to go in terms of redemption for the crap that he's dished out at Zoya but I completely understand his behaviour today. He believes he isn't worthy of her and he's respecting her wishes, he's consumed with guilt because he knows he's the reason for her condition .He just wanted to be assured that she was fine and I'm glad he didn't go barging in there and creating a scene and acting all possessive like he owns her. I'm loving his redemption track so far and the only thing that's been ruining my love for all the angst is the fact the Tanveer is still lurking 😡

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I understand your pov and respect it...from where I come from I will not support a relationship where an individual has been hit and abused ...verbally,psychologically or physically ...it doesn't matter. It's a no tolerance zone for me and hence I have never supported Asya's relationship post the slap. Asya was done for me then...I watch it out of my loyalty for Zoya's character.

So yes I will stick to my believe that Asad still doesn't deserve Zoya...he has a long way to go.

Originally posted by: delena90

Hey Pri,

I have to disagree with you here. Asad is completely consumed by guilt and this was compunded by what the administrator at the madrasa said about Zoya's condition. He feels responsible for what she is going through. How is he supposed to face her? Until he believes that he has done nothing wrong he will not confront her. Asad despite his faults has always been righteous - Tanveer has stripped away the very essence of his being. He has no self-esteem and self-respect. He is consumed by self-loathing and depression and I don't think he can be blamed for that. He has lost everything - his identity, his self-worth, the love of his life, his mother and his good standing is society. On top of that he believes he has sexually assaulted his friend. This man is completely broken and him respecting her wishes was poignant.

There is a lot Asad has to pay for but this is not the punishment he needs or deserves and frankly the only person to blame for anything is Tanveer. I hope this woman suffers an unimaginable tragedy where she has to suffer the way she has made Asad and Zoya suffer. It would only be justice!

I understand that Pri and you know what i feel about rape ...its an extremely sensitive issue for me and i was devastated to see it portrayed as mere seduction on the screen and I voiced against it repeatedly and i don't deny any of this...his guilt, self- loathing, depression but I still felt that there was a lack of desperation in him considering he saw her in such a condition...how could a person just walk away without fearing that he might not see her ever again ? @ bold...thanks confusing too because he accompanies his bestie to Ajmer and then runs after Zoya...it's very contradicting.