Abandonment is an unpardonable sin! - Page 2

Originally posted by: monaco

Some additional thoughts from another post...

Well my biggest problem is that how will Asad forgive himself for not trusting Zoya? Didn't he become a Rashid today (not in the sense of cheating his love, but in the sense of messing up his priorities to some extent...) I dont blame him. He is a great, noble soul and just did what a good friend would do (today) but this does not go to say that he has paid no heed to Zoya's warnings or her displeasure on their physical proximity. How could tanveer do that puky thing in the car... As if she is losing a lover... He should not encourage such behavior. Now, we all know he can be *drugged* but Tanveer wasn't drugged, was she? She knew it was Asad's nikaah, didn't she? She will cook up a story that Asad forced himself on her.. but come on... did she really have to sleep with him and stay there? Asad should question all this... Its true that Zoya could not prove anything against Tanveer, but he should have respected her fears... When Zoya asked him during the skirt incident, what is that you would not do just because I dont like it... I had thought it will atleast result in him discouraging physical contact with Tanu...

I am a litle mad at Zoya also for ignoring Tanveer's threats. I know she trusts Asad, so she knew that Asad would never willingly sleep with Tanu or hurt her, but when Tanu had openly declared her intentions and the level she can stoop too (she tried to kill Zoya several times, hurt her own eye, etc., ) she should have been cautious and atleast confided in someone - Ayaan, Dilshaad someone! By underestimating Tanu... I feel she did a mistake. Again, I am not saying that she would have for once thought that Asad can do something... but you dont beat a criminal, disgusting mind like Tanveer by just making her jealous that today is your nikaah, etc., etc. Those gave us awesome Mitwa moments, but it was childish to do...Think of it, would you for once, tolerate such a woman? I would have slapped Tanveer then and there. By enduring the acid Mehndi... she did win accolades for her patience... but she should have told Dilshaad in private that it was Tanu who did it, and that she openly admitted to it too. I am sure Dilshaad would believe her.

I think I should stop thinking... Its not healthy for me...

Originally posted by: RandomSquared

Honestly, if I saw my best friend getting shoved into a car and I knew she was being harassed I would go after them. I would also call the cops and call my home and inform everyone but even if it was my wedding day, I think I would go after them.

I agree Asad could have handled things better but today and Zoya should be mad about that. But this is an extraordinary circumstance and so I would not blame him completely. Most things on this show are extraordinary circumstances that don't occur in real life and so they are hard to judge.

I disagree that Zoya was the real victim today. Asad tried to be a true friend and good person by risking a lot to save Tanveer and in return he got raped and now will have to live with guilt of something he did not do. Zoya was left and at the alter and had to see Billi win. Today Asya were both equal victims.

Originally posted by: beekay1

Rupanzale, well written...

Zoya is not to blame... If we have to put ourselves in her situation, I think we would have done the same... We don't think like a villain, so its difficult to be able to guage and I'm sure that Zoya would have been prepared after the nikaah not before...

Why do I have the snakiest feeling that Rashid has hired a private investigator to tag Tanveer and her activities and the private investigator has taken pictures of the stage? Rashid fears for Zoya's life.

Originally posted by: beekay1

Rupanzale, well written...

Zoya is not to blame... If we have to put ourselves in her situation, I think we would have done the same... We don't think like a villain, so its difficult to be able to guage and I'm sure that Zoya would have been prepared after the nikaah not before...

Why do I have the snakiest feeling that Rashid has hired a private investigator to tag Tanveer and her activities and the private investigator has taken pictures of the stage? Rashid fears for Zoya's life.

Originally posted by: monaco

Like always i is the goodness of the good that has caused them a setback. In the end, evil will suffer (in real life atleast!)

Originally posted by: beekay1

Rupanzale, well written...

</div><div>Zoya is not to blame... If we have to put ourselves in her situation, I think we would have done the same... We don't think like a villain, so its difficult to be able to guage and I'm sure that Zoya would have been prepared after the nikaah not before...

Why do I have the snakiest feeling that Rashid has hired a private investigator to tag Tanveer and her activities and the private investigator has taken pictures of the stage?Rashidfears for Zoya's life.

Originally posted by: RuchaMulay

Well, Zoya should have confiede in someone! But like typical TV heroine she decided to keep mum. 2 reasons: She's not sure they will believe her. She does not want to cause worry for everyone.

When are these women going to learn that eventually secrecy leads to greater causes of worry... well, to her credit, she tried thrice but no one believed her...

Anyway. Let me talk about Asad.

Helping a friend / or being supposedly raped by her is not his fault, never will I think so. And I am hoping Zoya too will not think so. But Asad should have called Zoya to inform about the emergency, at least that was her right. This is where he went wrong.

And in context of the story, this would be good, if Zoya knew about this, she would go back in Bond mdoe and think, OK so this is Tanveer's plan. She would have acted fast. She could have taken help from Rashid and Ayan.

Anyways, that was not to be.

So best is what the great saint Tukaram said about 400 years back - in Marathi, my mothertounge,

Tuka mhane Ugi rahave, je je hoil te te pahave

(Tukaram says - Keep Mum and see what happens) In other words, Keep calm and keep watching Qubool hai!

(I know this line is patented, full credit to them. But I agree with it, so I used it.)