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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

He is the victim today and you're trying to make him the villain all because he made a mistake in not calling ahead to let everyone know what was going on. How was he to know there were going to be consequences in going to save his friend. He was the victim, he didnt deserve this, neither did Zoya. Nothing can change that.

he is a victim of rape definitely...but he is at fault for not informing Zoya...Dilshad ...or the police. He is at fault in disregarding Zoya's reasoning and not doubting his friend ever? This was their wedding and not an ordinary day...how did he forget that she would be waiting for him at the alter ? There wasn't any problem in running to save Tanu but Zoya deserved to be informed and not humiliated. Nothing can change the fact that he yet again chose Tanveer over Zoya yet again ( it doesn't matter how important the reason is)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi_arvi

The precap made me cry. My poor Zozo!!

Please don't cry...Zoya is extremely strong...yes, she will be shattered but it's just a small setback in her life. She will bounce back in no time. She just needs to be straight with Asad this time and give him an ultimatum...it's either her or his friend...desperate times...desperate measures...or else he can play house with his friend for life.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

QH is all about evil winning over good...no wonder Billo is ruling. I think Gul has made it very clear about that...as Amrapali mentioned in her interview that she is here to stay...I am really happy for Asad and his bestie...now they can give each other company for life. ...I just want Zoya out of this mess.


I like Amrapali as an actress, but honestly it was a bit ridiculous to see her on that interview where she said the trps are because of her. Lets see if the TRPs go down...next week. I am afraid with the much publicized ajmer track, the romance hungry audience will still watch the show, and the TRPs wont be affected...

I am also curious to see what the creatives do to redeem Asad. Like, what is enough action or punishment for Asad to be redeemend...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey folks Zoya knows all about Tanveers evil plans so she cannot be absolved totally- if you or I had to go through what she has gone through - she could have told Ayaan or Aapi so that no one would been this state!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

as I mentioned the problem is not that he went to save his friend but the fact that he completely forgot about the consequences after that...it was his wedding ...why couldn't he call or even text Zoya...what about informing Dilshad...the cops? didn't he react the same way in Mangalpur ? So doesn't it clearly certifies that Zoya isn't anyone special as he proclaims?


How demeaning is it for a female to see that a woman will repeatedly forgive this man who doesn't feel the decency to call and inform her that he is out there saving his friend.


but what asad did for zoya at mangalpur or what he wanted to do for tanveer today isnt something you do for something special in your life. its really what you do as a human for another human esp if that person is someone you know. i wish they had shown asad trying to call zoya to let her know what was happening and i blame him for that as a bad judgement call. and not calling the cops was just plain stupid. but i dont think it was demeaning, i think it was a circumstance where his best friend was getting kidnapped from asad's point of view and the key word here isnt best friend, its kidnapped. that too by someone who asad still thinks is her evil husband who set her on fire last time lol. again a very extraordinary circumstance. we always excuse zoya's mistakes and bad judgement calls saying that her intentions are noble and pure...well asad's were just as noble and pure today from my point of view. asad's mistake today was not calling zoya while going to save tanveer...this is a mistake yet but considering the circumstance i don't think it's an unpardonable sin.

anyway i think we have different points of view when it comes to asad and this can go on forever. i love your posts, there are great discussion topics. I just cant hold asad responsible for anything that happened today esp after his rape.

also i totally agree that this show seems to love to glorify evil and the villains. i have no problems with twists and evil characters. but their purpose should be so that the positive characters can overcome evil, fight back and achieve some kind of greatness. Till now, every evil deed has triumphed on this show whether its razia blackmailing rashid, her blackmailing ayaan, the death of zoya's mother, or tanveers crimes against asya. it's sad bc these characters have so much potential to be great
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: monaco


I like Amrapali as an actress, but honestly it was a bit ridiculous to see her on that interview where she said the trps are because of her. Lets see if the TRPs go down...next week. I am afraid with the much publicized ajmer track, the romance hungry audience will still watch the show, and the TRPs wont be affected...

I am also curious to see what the creatives do to redeem Asad. Like, what is enough action or punishment for Asad to be redeemend...

Amrapali is really pretty and a good actress...but sometimes she over does Tanu though...but, I don't necessarily blame her for saying stuff about the trps...I think that is what she is been made to believe...I am sure Gul might have extended her contract and hence she said that she is here to stay...do you remember she is the one who first said that on the nikaah day she would be successful in breaking up Asya...she was bashed for that but she was right all the way...she did break them apart.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes, Rupunzale :(.

Okay tell me one thing. I am just curious.I know more than half of the forum members will not agree with me..But if you had to chose one of the two what would you chose?

1. No Nikaah for any reason other that what happened today... Meaning Billi successful in breaking the Nikaah, but not like the way they showed today with the SR track...
2. SR track like they showed today but then Nikaah happens (For whatever reasons, like doing it for family etc.,)

I am in the minority if I say that I choose sanctity and trust over romance.The Nikaah is important for me, but I feel that the wounds of what happened today (to both Asad and Zoya, given they have emotional issues from their past) are too deep to heal... I rather would have had a cancelled Nikaah than this SR track... I wonder, if I can ever convince myself that the Nikaah happening for any miraculous reason tomorrow, is a positive sign. My theory is What will you do with the shoe lace if the shoe is not yours? Tanveer openly claimed that she will use Asad and throw it away for Zoya... So, what does Zoya get by getting the tag of Mrs. Khan? She lost the battle... atleast today :(
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Asads priority lies with that wh**e still. I mean I get that he went to help her but why couldn't he call for police or inform his family members about this?
He acted crazy seeing that Bitch in danger like a maniac. Who says he acts crazy only when Zoya is in danger. Nothing like that. He still prioritized Billi over Zoya.
He abandoned Zoya hence committed a sin.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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This is a heads I won tails you lose chal from tanveer.

If Zoya calls off the Nikaah she wins in a way and if she doesn't call it off then also her Uttaran thing comes true

I am really curious how they clear this mess

Starting from when she entered he has done many many mistakes or sins...wonder if all will be ever exposed
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: RandomSquared


but what asad did for zoya at mangalpur or what he wanted to do for tanveer today isnt something you do for something special in your life. its really what you do as a human for another human esp if that person is someone you know. i wish they had shown asad trying to call zoya to let her know what was happening and i blame him for that as a bad judgement call. and not calling the cops was just plain stupid. but i dont think it was demeaning, i think it was a circumstance where his best friend was getting kidnapped from asad's point of view and the key word here isnt best friend, its kidnapped. that too by someone who asad still thinks is her evil husband who set her on fire last time lol. again a very extraordinary circumstance. we always excuse zoya's mistakes and bad judgement calls saying that her intentions are noble and pure...well asad's were just as noble and pure today from my point of view. asad's mistake today was not calling zoya while going to save tanveer...this is a mistake yet but considering the circumstance i don't think it's an unpardonable sin.

anyway i think we have different points of view when it comes to asad and this can go on forever. i love your posts, there are great discussion topics. I just cant hold asad responsible for anything that happened today esp after his rape.

also i totally agree that this show seems to love to glorify evil and the villains. i have no problems with twists and evil characters. but their purpose should be so that the positive characters can overcome evil, fight back and achieve some kind of greatness. Till now, every evil deed has triumphed on this show whether its razia blackmailing rashid, her blackmailing ayaan, the death of zoya's mother, or tanveers crimes against asya. it's sad bc these characters have so much potential to be great

don't worry about different views and the fact that we might argue ...its just a part of healthy discussion as long as we are not disrespectful ... I actually love discussing pov's in the forum...and thanks for liking my posts. If you have read my posts...you might realize that I am always writing opposite the tide...that's my forte😉...but on a serious note I work in a women's shelter and I get a little carried away because I see real women going through such issues of betrayal, abandonment and mostly abuse...it's very bad out there...but that doesn't mean that I support criminals like Tanveer or Razia who are women too.

Now coming to Asad...I will be very honest with you I don't like men like Asad...in my dictionary he is abusive and in real life men like him doesn't change in love etc...it's dilutional to think that way. It's a wrong message altogether for teenagers. I said abandoning Zoya is not pardonable ...not going to save his friend...it's important that a person knows how to handle a crisis...he should have called Zoya or even Dilshad...he failed right there.

I mentioned Mangalpur because every now and then there is a growing demand that there should be a Mangalpur 2...well, today he acted just like he did it Mangalpur...I want to emphasize on the fact that ...he would do it for anyone...whether its Dilshad...Tanu or Zoya...he hasn't done anything special for Zoya.

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