Rape. - Page 6

Originally posted by: GodHelpUs

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Guess enough has been said ( mostly me yapping away)...

If Gul will not, I will respect the topic. And observe silence in this regard.

(Literally I mean.. bahut bol liya maine aaj ke liye...😆 chup rehne mein bhalai hai varna billi se pehle, forum wale mera qatal kar denge)

Gul's surprise has shocked me already😆 neither can I think or speak.

Originally posted by: GodHelpUs

Originally posted by: vrohee

Rape it is. Maybe we should be thankful to them for bringing this track. Women are always victimized but few people realise that men could be in a similar situation too. You can just look at the many posts here to know that. Most want Zoya to return to New York.

I am really waiting to see how Zoya is gonna react. If she doesn't trust him. Doesn't fight Tanveer then I will know that the character has finally been ruined. its all downhill from there.

mutual feelings... This tanu SR scenario is to bring awareness I think... Though it might be given othet names but still .Practically , technically , logically what tanu did would be called as RAPE...

whoever is angry at asad... just calm down and close ur eyes and think what if a girl was put in the situation of asad??? the feelings u will have for that poor girl who has been raped...and now u all should have the same feelings for asad as well...then do u still think that asad and zoya should not get married , should not romance , should not love each other...THINK girls...
Now I want zoya to support him and love him more and help to get rid of the guilty feeling he has... Neither he is guilty nor may be just feels guilty...
P.s: Gul aim might be to make public aware that there are male rape victims who does exit but still in the dark...

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

mutual feelings... This tanu SR scenario is to bring awareness I think... Though it might be given othet names but still .Practically , technically , logically what tanu did would be called as RAPE...

whoever is angry at asad... just calm down and close ur eyes and think what if a girl was put in the situation of asad??? the feelings u will have for that poor girl who has been raped...and now u all should have the same feelings for asad as well...then do u still think that asad and zoya should not get married , should not romance , should not love each other...THINK girls...
Now I want zoya to support him and love him more and help to get rid of the guilty feeling he has... Neither he is guilty nor may be just feels guilty...
P.s: Gul aim might be to make public aware that there are male rape victims who does exit but still in the dark...

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

😆Nah I'm not affected. IPK made me strong as well.

No I just mean that this isn't a small issue. is it even censor approved to show a rape scene on TV yet? or did Indian TV evolve over night?

Or are they wrongly portraying that it's not that serious issue to rape men?

Anything in the name of entertainment will be produced by PH
channel will sell it for profit and money
do they ever understand the meaning of the term
SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Yeah the IPC only talks about a man having sexual intercourse with a woman and thus rape of transgenders, sexual assault of men and issues of lesbians and gays fall outside its purview..Its so archaic and regressive😆

Originally posted by: DMGFan-2b-not2b

Am reproducing something I had written elsewhere:

I am zapped at the lightness with which a TV show deals with a mind numbing, soul destroying act like non-consensual sex.

It doesn't matter whether it happens to a man or woman, its as debilitating to either sex. It destroys you emotionally and mentally, makes you vulnerable, makes you despair and doubt your own self.

Its not that it doesn't happen, of course it does and I,m not about to go ballistic cos Gul used it,though I feel there were other ways of showing a separation between the leads but I think Gul had been leading upto this all this while, so it shouldn't have come as a surprise.

No, I have an issue with the way this will be dealt with. There would be a lot of crying and screaming, accusations will fly, and maybe Asad will be an ass and continue to defend Tanu and apologise for his behaviour and then pooof! It will all be dusted off and forgotten!

Asad will run after Zoya, beg her forgiveness, Zoya will forgive after much natak and they'll be happy lovey dovey scenes that Gul knows the audiences will moon over and a very stark, despicable, shameful and critical thing would have been treated like another thing to be forgotten and flicked away.

To 4Lions, Zoya snooping around and Asad ostensibly getting forced into sex when drugged are pretty much the same - they both will get the same light hearted flippant treatment!

What never ceases to surprise me is our cinema and television's cavalier attitude and willingness to use it to sensationalise their content and gain viewership and never bother to really handle it with the care and sensitivity it deserves.

Its this flippancy and ready resort status of non-consensual sex that bothers me.

And before any one says, yes reel life does have a huge impact on real life!

You had the strength to watch it!

Guys
this will not be shown as rape or CON between these two
tanu wanted to separate them and stop this marriage so gul has
set up this drama
She should not have taken up this sensitive issue but she did take up domestic violence and this is no surprize