Hypocrisy and a downright Unethical friendship! - Page 3

Originally posted by: -Racha-

You are completely right ...Zoya deserves better at this point...I am tired of Asad's bullshit...he constantly looks down at her and I think if they told him she committed a murder he would believe it without questioning.

Originally posted by: Jayne

Careful!

Mr.Khan phangurlz would have you believe he would do so because in truth he is running from himself and his feelings, grasping at any excuse to deny his love for M.sFarouqui.

Nuh Uh.

He is simply not a person of integrity or good character.

I do wonder how come 4 Lions' two consecutive shows can have such d*bag male leads?
We were promised something really appealing in terms of the male lead, and while eye-candy will take the show so far, its the depth of the character that really counts in the long run.

Somehow the leads seem to take U-Turn within 4 months of the show airing, in terms of admirable character!
And dark and brooding *cough* Ms. Gul Khan *cough* does not mean a**hole and a d*bag.
Please don't believe the trashy M&B novels. Those sell by the penny for a pound coz there really are no takers with real women.

Man, we got sold a bill of goods!

But as can be seen from TRPs, they are high and the show is leading because of all the lovey-dovey, song-and-dance routines in the preceding weeks.
How much patience is left for this story that, frankly, has not moved an inch from the point of announcing engagement to the immigration officer?
The society-recognized engagement itself has yet to take place.😕
There really is no story any more.

Jayne

Originally posted by: eastmeetswest

very well said 👏

Originally posted by: bheegi

Hi Pri

I understand a lot of people are angry with this Tanu-Jammy friendship track.

Yes, as a woman who is about to get married to a man, even I would be offended if an old friend acts so touchy feely with my fianc. It's a natural reaction even if there is no fire between the two friends.

We are talking about Asad Ahmed Khan though. This man has never dated a woman, never thought about another woman in romantic terms and has just recently realized that he has fallen for a woman who doesn't fit his image of the perfect woman. He is never been too sensitive towards Zoya's feelings. He either tries to ignore her feelings or just walks away because he gets too overwhelmed. He might be a very intelligent man, but lacks understanding of women. His mother and sister don't count because they just fed into his protective and chauvinistic tendencies during his early years. It's only now that Najma has become more comfortable with her brother. She is no longer terrified of him like used to be. Dilshaad has always had an open relationship with him but that's because out of respect, he does listen to her.

When he first started feeling attracted to Zoya, what did he do? He manhandled her. Is that how a man expresses his attraction for a woman? No. But with time he has learnt that Zoya doesn't appreciate that kind of treatment by him.He has stopped doing that now.

Tanveer has been like a family member or a sister for him. We know he has no romantic inclination towards her. When she initiates contact in the form of hand holding or hugging, he just goes with the flow as he doesn't see any malice on Tanveer's side and as far as he goes, he has no man-woman type of feelings for Tanveer. It's only lately, when he has seen Zoya get jealous, that he has become more self conscious.

This man needs to be taught everything. Somethings just don't come naturally to him. I am sure, when Zoya gives him the cold shoulder and gets upset about his undying faith in Tanveer, he will gradually back off.

Yes, he is being insensitive but I won't call him a hypocrite. He would be, if he was two timing or had such intentions about Tanveer. Ethical behavior is a relative term. If Asad did that willingly, he would be unethical, but he is just oblivious to the sensitivities of a woman's heart.

Zoya is there in his life to teach him many lessons- and one of them shall be 'how to be sensitive to a woman's needs.'

This man hasn't been able to confess yet! Imagine how clueless he is about women.

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Hugging your friend is ok, but leaving the woman you supposedly love standing after a near death experience just to console your childhood friend is bullshit 😡 and on top of that stating that the attack was supposed to be for her is ridiculous
But I feel the fault also lies with Zoya...Asad has been insulting and hurting Zoya from the start , but she keeps accepting it...my question is WHY ?????
Becoz she is bitten by the love bug ???? Everything in life has a limit, but with Zoya there seems to be no limit at all...she answers him back allright, but that is all it is

Frankly I started despising Asad after the slap fiasco, coz that incident proved to me how hypocritical Asad can be...during that time so many ppl defended him, saying that he was not himself after seeing hi ammi in that condition, but what about all the times thereafter that he insulted and hurt Zoya ????
During that period Mariyam was supposed to be the danger to his family, he slapped Zoya thinking she invited danger to his family, but Mariyam was roaming freely with the family in the hospital...from that time only I saw the double standard mentalities in Asad's character and with the entry of Tanveer, it has become more certain than ever...
Still I wanted to give Asad another chance, thinking he will change for the better, he did change a bit, but the insults he's passing to Zoya have not changed one bit 😡
He keeps throwing in her face that they are opposites, keeps telling her what a misfit she is, always distrust her, always hurt her, only to come with some lame apology afterwards that doesn't make any sense at all...

I think it is about time that Zoya takes a stand and decides whether she is willing to accept this nonsense further or not...As long as she keeps accepting this behaviour of Asad, this guy will never change. He will never learn to appreciate Zoya for who she truly is...

If only Asad could give a little of the trust he showers on Tanveer to the woman he supposedly loves , maybe things would be different...
And with the latest moneky act of Tanveer and the Tanveer jaap by Asad, I think I am done with this show, at least for this week, coz after the MS fiasco of today, I am really fed 😡

Originally posted by: sujataraje

its not friendship at all...they were not even in contact with each other for 17 years...its just obsession for her..😡

Originally posted by: bheegi

Hi Pri

I understand a lot of people are angry with this Tanu-Jammy friendship track.

Yes, as a woman who is about to get married to a man, even I would be offended if an old friend acts so touchy feely with my fianc. It's a natural reaction even if there is no fire between the two friends.

We are talking about Asad Ahmed Khan though. This man has never dated a woman, never thought about another woman in romantic terms and has just recently realized that he has fallen for a woman who doesn't fit his image of the perfect woman. He is never been too sensitive towards Zoya's feelings. He either tries to ignore her feelings or just walks away because he gets too overwhelmed. He might be a very intelligent man, but lacks understanding of women. His mother and sister don't count because they just fed into his protective and chauvinistic tendencies during his early years. It's only now that Najma has become more comfortable with her brother. She is no longer terrified of him like used to be. Dilshaad has always had an open relationship with him but that's because out of respect, he does listen to her.

When he first started feeling attracted to Zoya, what did he do? He manhandled her. Is that how a man expresses his attraction for a woman? No. But with time he has learnt that Zoya doesn't appreciate that kind of treatment by him.He has stopped doing that now.

Tanveer has been like a family member or a sister for him. We know he has no romantic inclination towards her. When she initiates contact in the form of hand holding or hugging, he just goes with the flow as he doesn't see any malice on Tanveer's side and as far as he goes, he has no man-woman type of feelings for Tanveer. It's only lately, when he has seen Zoya get jealous, that he has become more self conscious.

This man needs to be taught everything. Somethings just don't come naturally to him. I am sure, when Zoya gives him the cold shoulder and gets upset about his undying faith in Tanveer, he will gradually back off.

Yes, he is being insensitive but I won't call him a hypocrite. He would be, if he was two timing or had such intentions about Tanveer. Ethical behavior is a relative term. If Asad did that willingly, he would be unethical, but he is just oblivious to the sensitivities of a woman's heart.

Zoya is there in his life to teach him many lessons- and one of them shall be 'how to be sensitive to a woman's needs.'

This man hasn't been able to confess yet! Imagine how clueless he is about women.

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

Fast Forward ki jai seriously.

I can't even remember the last time I watched a full QH episode.😆 I read the WU and fill in the bits I skipped 😆

Anyway I've begun to look at QH in an isolated manner. Oh that AsYa scene was good, let me swoon for a bit. Does it make any sense in context? Who cares I have time to kill, let me watch some mindless Hindi soap. Pretty much my disposition with any hindi soap these days. Huh.

These days I watch QH because Karan and Surbhi look good. This I think is the biggest insult I can give to the CVs. Even more than turning of my TV.

I was actually beginning to warm up to him, certainly don't hate him as much I hated Gul's previous male lead but if this disregard for Zoya's feelings continues, he'll probably catch up in no time.

But then Zoya is a weak character herself. She puts up with bulls* and I don't like women who think they are not good enough. I loved her in the beginning with the feminism dialogues and sass but now I can't even find that girl in this love sick puppy of a girl.

There I've been meaning to vent out for such a long while. 😆