Hypocrisy and a downright Unethical friendship! - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Racha-

You are completely right ...Zoya deserves better at this point...I am tired of Asad's bullshit...he constantly looks down at her and I think if they told him she committed a murder he would believe it without questioning.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

honestly, I have never liked Asad's character...he is judgmental, extremely prejudicial, regressive in thoughts and hypocritical...I simply cannot tolerate such qualities In a man but above all I was shocked when he slapped her...that was when I completely started despising the character...but saying that I did start giving him the benefit of doubt and stated accepting him in Zoya's life because he showed signs of empathy. But, his recent interactions with Billo is probing me to think differently once again...Asad is being downright unethical here with his so called friendship...I am sorry, I grew up having very close friend who are boys since kindergarten ...some of whom are still my best friends but in no way do I hold their hands or hug them as Asad and Billo does...it's absolutely unethical and is an insult to our respectively partners.

I cannot completely fathom the fact that Asad allows Billo to touch him whenever she wants even if holding hands knowing very well how Zoya feels about it...he should be more thoughtful about the whole situation because this is a sensitive issue that his own mother has gone through. How can he even joke with Zoya on the basis of jealousy? It really doesn't matter whether we are from the western world or from the eastern...something unethical as this is wrong everywhere.

Friendship is a wonderful relationship but there has to be boundaries maintained and respected in it too. When that very friendship knowingly or unknowingly hurts your existing partners it's very important that the individual realizes it and doesn't cross their limits.

For the last couple of episodes Asad's behavior towards Billo is not that of friendship anymore IMO...to me Asad is at his hypocritical best and their relationship seems downright unethical.

I am sorry...if things doesn't change for the good...I don't think I will be able to support and rejoice in Asya's nikaah as a woman or as a viewer. I believe it's time for Asad to realize Zoya's worth and acknowledge her importance as her as his first priority or I would strongly want Zoya moving on with someone who really deserves her because at the end of the day Zoya deserves a better man than someone who walks away leaving her shattered and broken from a near death experience to his so called friend.

Originally posted by: merrydock

i dont know how you can call giving a friend a hug, if you believes he or she needs comfort Unethical.

and what do you mean that Asad enjoys tanveer touching him.

look at it this way, Asad has never even thought that Tanveer might fulfill his image of the ideal woman and life partner that he has always wanted. even though she fits the bill outwardly. for Asad Tanveer is like a sister. and as a man he is a bit chavinistic, he believes it his duty to protect the women in his life, be it Ammi, Najma, or Tanveer, and definitely Zoya.

Asad never even looks at tanveer, with awareness not like the way he sees Zoya.

people may concider it unhealthy friendship. but Asad does not know what realy going on in tanveer mind. she was hurt before, and she acted like someone had attacked her though she refused to say any thing about that incident. so he assumed that the jummer was ment to kill Tanveer and not Zoya.

but here i think it is the CV's fault of formating the chararacter thought procees they havent stuckt to the logic of the sceen. why would the jummer be ment ot kill tanveer, was Tanveer going to perform a solo dance number. so i feel that the CV's goofed up big time. letting Asad jump to the conclusion that the attack was ment for Tanveer and not Zoya.

and may the the CV's want to carry on this cloke and dagger game for a little while longer. i hope they dont plan to test our patients. i want Tanveer's track over.

Originally posted by: Sanaa629

Yeah I did!! I was just SO disgusted at her acts for one..and two.. I really don't know what I'm going to do.. either sit out this whole Billo Rani sequence..or write fanfictions where things go differently.

A week back.. I used to just read written updates because I was so sick of Asad's behaviour.. Then I started enjoying the whole Singham sequence and jealousy track. Now it seems like we're back to square 1 where Tanveer holds so much importance in his life.. he forgets his fiancee nearly died!!!!!

Originally posted by: crnv

I totally agree with your valid points. If the Cvs are portraying Asad's character and thinking always with Tehzeeb and Tameez, the body language of the character should be maintained too. They did this for a long time, suddenly seeing lot of short comings in Asad's behavior. So please dialogue writers or script writers and CVs work out as a team when you come up with a scene which involves these type of scenarios.