Blame Game: Epi May 7 - Page 2

Beautiful write-up!

See this is where I fail to understand female characters of these soaps. I am a feminist and I am proud of that. I am one of those who believe women are stronger than men mentally and that is why we can go through what we go through. But, at the same time, nobody should be blamed like Zoya has been for no mistake of hers. I am sure if she yells at him once and smacks him once and leaves, he will never ever insult her like this.
I remember him telling her to give up on searching for her dad and she had told that unless she knows her dad's point of view, she will assume he searched for her.
The same goes to Asad too. He never ever gives her a chance to explain. That is what drives me nuts. No QH tomorrow unless the written update shows something positive for Zoya. I know the precap but can't really go by that.

very well said, Asad's world has turned upside down, and Zoya it to be blamed. Asad doesnt want to accept that Zoya matters to him, she has slowly become his world, and the thought of loosing her sends him running like a mainac to either stop her for leaving or to safe her life. and now everthing is closing on him too fast, he doesnt know what to do, so blaming Zoya for something as trival putting chicken blood in a test tube doesnt even strike him is completely odd. even as a joke.

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

😊...awesome sangeetha... i can say only one thing... asad must learn to control ohis tongue and zoya should think before she leaps and bounds...

but in this case i think even asad knows about zoya taking the blood samples...that is the good development in their relationship from zoy's side...but still asad should trust her as u said...

Originally posted by: ..vidhi..

beautiful analysis di nd loved the sarcasm n the first half!!!!

i agree they really need separation to realize each other's value in their life...mainly asad yes!!!

hope we get it in the ajmer track!!!

Originally posted by: kaussar

nicely written explained.. Agree with you completely .. Asad should first learn to trust himself and his feelings.. then they both have to acknowledge what they feel for each other and what each other means to them.. trust is going to come only after that.. characters are developing and we have to be patient till they reach that stage.. its still baby steps... we the audience should not run and expect too much while they are just taking the first tiny steps together and have not even started walking together.😃

Originally posted by: bheegi

Thanks kaussar. That's why getting them married in a rush is not a good idea either. I know serials like to do that but I'd rather see them get married when they are completely ready. Let them stay engaged and try to understand each other first, come to term with their own feelings.

Yea even i would like to see them get married after they are completely ready.. but then Dilshad's challenge means that may be Cvs are going to let it happen before that.. even then i am ok with it as long as the show that proper development of their feelings even after marriage.. It should not happen suddenly.😃

YESSS Sangeeta.

Very nice post as usual and I certainly agree with you on the separation part...I think it is highly necessary, otherwise this will keep going into circles: Asad blame game crap, lame apologies, Zoya forgives and forgets and the next day the same crap again...over and over again
Does this nonsense have a limit or not ???

At the moment I feel Asad is such a coward and a hypocrite and Zoya has a hell lot of patience that my patience with them is running out
And you are right, this wasn't abt Tanveer at all, this was all abt Asad's frustrations with the happening around him and his own feelings he cannot and is not ready to accept and he just took the blood sample as an excuse to blast Zoya...what a coward he is 😡
If he is frustrated with himself and his feelings and the happenings around him, why the hell blame Zoya ??? Why can't he be man enough to tell his ammi the truth...but no he also wants Zoya to do that dirty work for him, so he can blame her afterwards too if something goes wrong

Right now I am so fed up with Asad and Zoya both...that I cannot even imagine the dream sequence...thinking abt it now, it just pisses me off
I feel that no matter how much Zoya loves Asad and how much desperate she has become for this rishta and all, she should release Asad from this , by telling Dilshaad the truth, coz we know that Asad will chicken out if it comes to telling his ammi the truth as always 😡

Dilshaad should also realize it is not right to force Asad to do something he is not ready for only becoz she threw a challenge at someone...

And Asad the coward should stop blaming Zoya for every damn thing that goes wrong into his life only becoz he's a frustrated soul...who asked him to fall in love with Zoya ???
Why didn't he tell his ammi that Zoya is a misfit for him and he wants someone who has Tehzeeb-Tameez, who values relations, who shares his same OCD, who says yes to every damn thing he says, someone who just acts like a robot just like him 😡... and it is still not too late, he can always avoid this nikaah, that is if he is man enough , which apparently he isn't...

And Zoya...well she should stop being so desperate for this relation, for this nikaah only becoz she wants to stay in this family and becoz she fell in love...even though the man she supposedly loves keeps rubbing in her face that all is a farce and she has no respect for relations...It is about time Zoya stops running after Asad for attention, she should stop explaining and justifying herself over and over to Asad.
Zoya should stop being so forgiving all the time...this makes Asad take her for granted, coz whenever he does his crap, he knows Zoya will forgive him , no matter what shit he utters
And maybe...just maybe she should be the one stopping this wedding...not by running away, but by telling Dilshaad the truth and nothing but the truth