Blame Game: Epi May 7 - Page 4

Originally posted by: trina2010

YESSS Sangeeta.

A physical separation is very much needed to Asad to value what he had and lost because of his pigheadedness.

Yes Zoya will be hurt too but her being too forgiving towards Asad is actually making him take advantage if her z( literally)

Asad needs to learn Zoyas value the HARD WAY.

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Very nice post as usual and I certainly agree with you on the separation part...I think it is highly necessary, otherwise this will keep going into circles: Asad blame game crap, lame apologies, Zoya forgives and forgets and the next day the same crap again...over and over again
Does this nonsense have a limit or not ???

Thanks Esha...since Zoya has move dinto their house, they really haven't even been apart for more than a few hours. That's why even a few days of separation might help them realize what they mean to each other

At the moment I feel Asad is such a coward and a hypocrite and Zoya has a hell lot of patience that my patience with them is running out
And you are right, this wasn't abt Tanveer at all, this was all abt Asad's frustrations with the happening around him and his own feelings he cannot and is not ready to accept and he just took the blood sample as an excuse to blast Zoya...what a coward he is 😡

Asad is afraid of his own growing feelings for Zoya...that's what gets transferred whenever there is any problem around him. Once he accepts his feelings, he will accept Zoya the way she is and start trusting her too
If he is frustrated with himself and his feelings and the happenings around him, why the hell blame Zoya ??? Why can't he be man enough to tell his ammi the truth...but no he also wants Zoya to do that dirty work for him, so he can blame her afterwards too if something goes wrong

Right now I am so fed up with Asad and Zoya both...that I cannot even imagine the dream sequence...thinking abt it now, it just pisses me off

Yeah, i will be disappointed if Zoya dreams about them after he apologizes with a saugat...she is too innocent and hopelessly in love with this man. You and I would never dance but Zoya might

I feel that no matter how much Zoya loves Asad and how much desperate she has become for this rishta and all, she should release Asad from this , by telling Dilshaad the truth, coz we know that Asad will chicken out if it comes to telling his ammi the truth as always 😡

The thing they don't realize is that they are hurting Dilshaad more by trying to fake all of these ceremonies

Dilshaad should also realize it is not right to force Asad to do something he is not ready for only becoz she threw a challenge at someone...

I think Dilshaad knows her son well and she knows he will never agree to marry a girl like Zoya (even tough he loves her) unless she twists his arm this way

And Asad the coward should stop blaming Zoya for every damn thing that goes wrong into his life only becoz he's a frustrated soul...who asked him to fall in love with Zoya ???
Why didn't he tell his ammi that Zoya is a misfit for him and he wants someone who has Tehzeeb-Tameez, who values relations, who shares his same OCD, who says yes to every damn thing he says, someone who just acts like a robot just like him 😡... and it is still not too late, he can always avoid this nikaah, that is if he is man enough , which apparently he isn't...

Because in his heart he really wants Zoya...remember how frightened he was when Ammi was trying to make the decision on the girl (she had mentioned Tanveer's name first) Basically he is a complicated character and needs to learn the hard way because he refuses to learn it the easy way

And Zoya...well she should stop being so desperate for this relation, for this nikaah only becoz she wants to stay in this family and becoz she fell in love...even though the man she supposedly loves keeps rubbing in her face that all is a farce and she has no respect for relations...It is about time Zoya stops running after Asad for attention, she should stop explaining and justifying herself over and over to Asad.

I think if this cycle persists, she will snap one day. Right now because of her insecurities and her desire to belong to a family, she can't leave
Zoya should stop being so forgiving all the time...this makes Asad take her for granted, coz whenever he does his crap, he knows Zoya will forgive him , no matter what shit he utters
And maybe...just maybe she should be the one stopping this wedding...not by running away, but by telling Dilshaad the truth and nothing but the truth

I think Zoya might say NO at teh nikaah especially if her abbu's truth is revealed at the same time...let's wait and see

Originally posted by: bheegi

@ Delena

Great Post! Thanks Pri

God I really wanted to hit Asad today! I agree he has taking out dormant anger that has nothing to do with a chicken or cat on her, but I am sick of it! These are definitely filler episodes with repetitive drama to marginally push the story backwards so that they can build it up again with Ayaan's entry.

Yeah, Asad's uneasiness because of all the lies and ceremonies and ammi etc etc made him blow up at a very trivial issue. Of course, his fav punching bag was readily available right after he had spent tender mitwa moments with her

Tomorrow when Zoe proves herself I want her to throw that gift and possibly that ring in his face and walk out. Enough is enough. She needs to leave...even if it will hurt her. You are right, Asad needs to lose Zoya to realize her worth.

You and I would def do that but will Zoya? I doubt it. This family and relationship means a lot to her and she will do anything to get to the bottom of the truth rather than walk away

Btw, what do you think is on that ipad? It can't be anything that implicates BR...can it? We aren't that lucky unfortunately!

I hope there are photos from the party where Billo is seen tempering with the ice box..or it might just be a random person near the ice box. That way BR will also escape and Asad will cool down

Edit!

Dilshaad was great today. She will definitely be the thread that binds AsYa together. I really appreciated that she took Zoe's side over her son's . She clearly has understood Zoe better than anyone!

Yeah, Dilshaad has always understood Zoya since the beginning and like she fixed her dupatta yesterday, she will help fix things in her life

Were you shocked to know that Asad was in on the blood drawing plan? Like wth! Asad has lost vital grey matter...that's the only explanation for why he would think Zoe would purposely switch the blood to chicken's! Can he not think about who is to gain with the non-release of this report?

Yeah, i was surprised that Asad knew about the plan...that's progress lolz I bet at the hospital the clerks might have mad fun of the chicken blood sample. That must have angered him and he came home and just transferred it to her

Now i hope that dance is Asad's dream and not Zoya's

Originally posted by: _vineeta_

Hi Sangeeta, again very beautiful analysis, loved it to core..

Thanks Vineeta😊

Vicky also wrote to justify Asad's anger but what you added in later part just makes it again the most perfect post of the day..

Oh...i haven't had time to read her post..will check it out now

Most of us I think understood where his anger came from and probably justifies it somehow. He is in fragile state of mind, with kabhi haan and kabhi na. But does he just look for reason to say naa to his heart? Every time his heart is winning over mind, he snaps with something like this..

That's why he should keep his brain and mouth in the deep freezer when he is with Zoya...just take his heart to her😳

I really felt bad for Zoya, specially seeing her smile so innocently when Dilshaad assured he will be back and give her his saugat. I swear the girl's smile melted me so badly that I couldn;t make myself to watch what was coming next on YT(will watch live later). She started believing Dilshaad's word that whatever happens meant to be.

Zoya is a darling but I am sure one day she will snap if Asad keeps playing his bipolar games. Thank God for Najma and Dilshaad

What is her fault in all this? Agree for a girl, family and their love matters in marriage but what matters the most is his love. He indeed is very lucky she is so forgiving, given her past and readiness to accept anything and anyone with smile. But he cannot keep doing it, after all she is human only and have some limits for tolerance, forget self respect here.

I can't imagine how she will react when she finds out that her abbu is alive,,,Asad will really have to redeem him self for believing that story from the frame guy

I agree they need physical separation badly, maybe they are doing to justify whats coming next But by now whatever comes their way they will never love anyone else, they are meant to be together. Like Karan said, Zoya is meant for Asad only. Now that was definite answer, with change of synopsis..

I agree...i don't think they will break their engagement but a little jhatka will do wonders for them

My only grudge with today is why they spoil all special moments with Tanveer, why cant they just leave it on beautiful feelings just once. I loved their engagement sequence and song, I watch it often but have to keep remote in hand to stop just before Billi meows:(. It was such beautiful scene today, they both looked so mesmerizing and Dilshaad comments were icing on the cake, with both stealing glances. How beautiful eye talk these guys can do really and their eyes MA, just complimenting each other...

Yeah, the whole mitwa session was a washout after the chicken blood fiasco

I think its the camera she installed during Ayaan's engagement that will help her in getting proof. And we have been saying but after today, firmly believe this is the last week we will see Tanveer, atleast in Asad's house. I am sure the look he gave Tanveer in precap was misleading, she might survive till Friday. Cant believe I am asking this, but please get Ayaan now. She overstayed already...

How will the cameras installed in Ayaan's house help? I wonder if there are pictures from the function where they spot someone messing with the ice box? Maybe someone picked up the ice box so Tanu won't be blamed but neither will zoya...tanu will probably be here for another 2 weeks or so

Originally posted by: niki_12

Hey Bheegi!! I agree with you that the killing of the chicken was probably symbolism of what tanveer may try to do to zoya!!

yeah...that'w what i think esp the way she was wringing the poor chicken's head

But for now, I am really looking forward for a convincing apology from Asad! Tomorrow is wednesday and wednesday is usually the dhamaka episode...so let's hope for the best!

It has to be a good apology...just not the saree but some genuine heartfelt words

I think Dilshad will play a major role in getting Asad to accept/convey his feelings for zoya...especially after she said..."qubool karva ke rahungi"

Yes she is a major force in their relationship

Also I was thinking and Zoya is a independent girl who stands up for herself...yes she get's hurt by what Asad says but she knows how to defend herself too...if the upcoming dance sequence is indeed zoya's dream than asad must have done something very sweet that melted zoya's anger...i am sure zoya would be angry after asad misunderstood her again...what do you think?

Zoya had once said that she can't stay angry with anyone for too long. I hope Asad really gives a heartfelt and genuine apology to the sweet girl

One more thing comes to mind...if acceptance of love (especially for asad) is coming soon, i think this is the last time asad will hurt zoya...once he accepts he loves her...which will be major character development...i don't think we should see too much of this akdu asad...he is fighting with his feelings now...i mean asad is the lead...and gul definitely doesnt want the audience to hate the leave so something good has to be coming up...being optimistic here 😳

P.S.-sorry for commenting again...couldn't resist lol

loved it Niki...no need to apologize. I think if they get married, the whole Ghafoor thing will be a point of contention between the two also