Asad, is it really about the chicken's blood? - Page 4

Originally posted by: friendsall

resres

nothing left to say!!!!! U NAILED IT!!!!...Release Liberate and Embrace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes...THATS PURE LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!! Does nt calculate or does nt see good n bad of a person n den fall in LOVE!!!!!!

The precap----- U neva wrote abt it????? Is it really d downfall of Tanu?????

But I loved Tanu for saying abt TRUST issues n not to fight for her!!!!! Kuch bhi bolo...ye burai karne nikalti hein aur anth mein kuch aur hi ho jaata hein!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE BCA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( Marro mat sab log)😆

Originally posted by: Amri174

I do agree that Asad and Zoya are acting in according to their temperaments. But what I think is frustrating for the viewers is Asad's blind spot when it comes to making certain judgement calls.

It is ironic that Asad who reposes blind faith in a childhood friend whom he hasn't been in touch with for a long time cannot do the same for Zoya. And that is heartrending and painful. Given all that they went through together and their history, I would expect the man to wait a bit before accusing her of such stupidity. Zoya is playful, but she is very sensible when it comes to the larger picture. Even Asad should have recognized that by now. I thought that he had gotten past that stage- Zoya has proved many times that she is very pragmatic and makes right decisions. Case in point- Akram, whom Asad had trusted blindly, but turned out to be the worst human being imaginable.

Asad might be the man who went on his knees for Zoya at the airport, but his on the spot listing of what Zoe supposedly messed up in the past- Maryam, the gas cylinder, Ayaan's engagement etc,. was something I couldn't identify with.

So what we see is history repeating itself. Asad might have come a long way since the Akram fiasco- with Mangalpur, his Ammi's shooting and all that. But at heart he still perceives Zoya in the mould that he had created for her earlier. The irresponsible, careless child-woman who doesn't know the importance of relationships. Which is as further from the truth as it can be.

I think Zoya has proved many a time that she is fully understanding of how relationships work, given her yearning for her Ammi and Abbu. For Asad to hit on that weak spot today, again, for the nth time just got my goat. Sorry, but all the progress that they had made through their heart-to heart conversations just went down the drain for me today.

All of us here are frustrated with this endless loop- when is this relationship going to mature to a point where there is a basic understanding and mutual trust between the partners, if not complete agreement on all issues?

Therein lies both the appeal as well as the source of frustration regarding AsYa, I guess. Par aaj mujhe Asad ki behaviour bilkul bhi qubool nahin hai. Asad miyan was just not justified today.

Originally posted by: -Fizzi-

Have you realized how always he gets down to reminding her about how immature and shameless she is but never ever accepted any action that he had done to her? Bolna halke halke, mangalpur, humera fiasco, the airport scene. He never even says or nods his head! How much can a woman take? It crosses the line sometimes.

Originally posted by: nishithasharma

wow awesum post victoria...luvd d post & loads of luv for u also for writing it so beautifully...

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika

Thanks and its okay if you have a differing opinion because it is right in its own right.👍🏼Asad's behaviour is usually not justified - it only has roots and reasons. His treatment of Zoe is bipolar - its either extreme love or else its accusations galore. What is needed is a middle ground where he is loving of her as a package deal and not judging her on her negatives.

This relationship is going to take quite sometime to mature or else you will not see the suffering. The only thing that is definite is , that no matter how much they fight or judge , one dangerous curve , and they will come rushing for each-other, from any corner of the world.