Asad, is it really about the chicken's blood?

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MoronsKiMallika

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: BlahBytes
Once again, nice to see that you are so neutral where characters on the show are concerned. It never was the issue of chicken blood between them anyway. And I just posted a similar opinion on another thread 😊.

However, I do not think Tanveer can wreck any havoc between these two anyway. Remember Razia saying "In dono ko alag karna ab tumhare bas ki baat nahin hai"? Razia has to strike back and in a big way. Tanveer can only try.

Thank you. :-)... I have no attachment to characters usually and so i kind of step back and look who is coming from where. I tend to be cold and clinical in my commentary but i think its important to be detached to see the real picture so that sentiments do not cloud your judgment. 😆

I hope Razia and you prove true about Tanveer,😳

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Monica

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika

Thanks . See! That is the whole problem. Our love for one character makes us treat the other with less empathy. If we see everyone in objective light , we will know exactly why they behave as they behave.

Asad is accusing Zoe with the 'naqlee Nikaah; playing at the back of his head. Last time, it was because she went to Siddiqui mansion and Dilshad got insulted. In short, Zoe needs to get her horoscope checked , just like Asad needs a shrink.😆

yes but don't you think that's a little hypocritical of him? He's the one who kept insisting that the Sagaai was nakli BOTH times. And Zoya just kept quiet and went along with it. But now she says Nakli nikaah and suddenly all her lies are being put on trial again? I don't think that's entirely fair. And I know that usually our love for one character does cloud out judgement. But honestly, I love Asad more than Zoya. It's odd but I do, because I identify with him more. Especially with the temper issue. But even today, despite it being about her lies and her lack of seriousness, I don't condone his behaviour. At least not the part where he doesn't even give her the benefit of the doubt. For the umpteenth time. It's getting exhausting.

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fabbz18

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Great post - sort of calmed me down to an extent lol

But one thing I want to pick up here - doesn't it seem like Asad took advantage

of the situation today due to his perceived perception that Zoya doesn't take relationships

seriously? - so he thought he'd put her down a notch out of pure frustration.

If that's the case I dont really think that's fair on Zoya and no one deserves that

sort of treatment. And in term's of where this relationship is going Ive got to disagree

and say that it hasn't gone further at all as the first step in a relationship is trust

which Asad clearly doesn't have when it concern's Zoya.

But anyways I'm still optimistic after your post and things can only get better 👍🏼

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Andrea

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Yep you could see when it went from being about Tanveer and chickens blood to "Me and You"
But i was still sooo angry at him because really. You think Zoya is that much of a joker that she would exchange real blood for animals blood? I think its just common sense. He uses it everyday what was the problem in today's episode.
Great post today Vicky I agree with everything. 👍🏼

And that "Asad doesn't deserve Zoya" phrase is playeddd out!! People get a new song please. 🤔

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MoronsKiMallika

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: -DavneetKaur-
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Hey first of all😆...sorry for not commenting yesterday...i did read your post but kal i was lost in aashiqui 2 ,songs and story as a whole...and i was literally crying😭😭😭...aur aj to tumne post banaya mujhe fir aashiqui 2 yaad aa gayi...LOL...okay coming back to your post...yes you are right its not about chicken's blood or whatever crap asad said...its about the war asad is having in his mind and heart...about ZOYA...he is extremely extremely extremely in love with zoya but he is just not sure what life would he provide her after marriage...and if all this is actually a joke for her...he is stupified with a fact that zoya has come to this extent of nakli marriage(though for zoya it is not)...but apparently asad does not know this or even if he can sense this through her eyes he doesnt want to acknowledge it😆...complicated people on inside seriously...you know there was a line in aashiqui 2 where arohi asks rahul itna pyaar kab hua mujhse...😳...and i seriously want to ask asad and zoya same questions seriously dude and dudette kab hua itna pyaar ek doosre se...why does one fault of zoya maddens asad,,,why does asad's questioning zoya hurt her so much...that she is not cared about fact someone is screaming on her,calling her emtionless or heartless person almost telling her she has no value for relationship...and still she instead of replying back just stares at him painfully...and thinks of way to clear out to him she isnt like that...she is infact just doing good for them...aww my heart goes out to both of them...and i know everytime tommy does something against them we always get more romantic scenes between them😆😆😆...and your definition about love its so true...i had actually made a status now on fb saying isnt in reality also most guys are like asad...maybe not in characteristics...but in u know their anger mode...they all sunaofy girls...and we girl listen also😆😆😆...because we at the end of day know that they are the ones who care about us most and if even 1 needle pierces us they feel our pain too...and also i believe mostly girls never even think like ki usko maafi mangni chahiye and all...at the end of day what happens is forget it and agey bado...and its from my personal experience(not my bf but friend's 😆😆😆)...and yeah love is alll about giving yaar...yahan koi revenge koi give and take nahi hota...and thats according to me what true love is...

and today i would like to dedicate one song for zoya

manzilein ruswa hain khoya hai rasta

aye le jaye itni si iltija

ye meri zamanat hai

tu meri amanat hai

mujhko iraade de

kasme de vaade de

...sunn raha hai na tu,ro rahi hun main😳

P.S... YIPPPEEE AM FIRST TO COMMENT😆

Thanks Davneet and its great to see you again.😃... The mess that Asad is in regrading Zoe has turned him into a lose cannon with a multiple personality disorder. Kabhi pyaar , kabhi gubbaar. Issues like Tannu are on the periphery, to be honest. Problem apne andar hai usske. 😆

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MoronsKiMallika

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: mochhug
I have to say I was fuming at the end of this episode, but your analysis has given me a new perspective. I agree on everything except one thing. Him immediately blasting her. His anger may have been right (from where it came from) but even when she hadn't give him the court papers, he had given a her a chance to say that they had come. Here he didn't even do that. He just went off as if he blew a fuse. I understand that Zoya reacts with her heart, and thinks with it most of the time as well. But wouldn't someone who was hurt like that react a little more? I mean where is the spunky Zoya, the go getter, the one who was strong when it came these things. I agree she had every right to cry, I would've. But to just stand there and listen to him go on about her.. I would've expected her to say something. Then again she hasn't really in the last few times either, so I guess it's no different this time. She'll only be cold towards him when he actually realizes that, once again he was wrong.

Thanks:-)...Please feel free to disagree on anything as i am not autocratic.😆... There is no normal justification for Asad howling at Zoe with the word 'go' - infact , for 90% of Asad's behaviour , there are no justifications - there are only roots and reasons. He has a tendency to react impulsively in anger and then ,brood guilt in rondu flashbacks.

As for Zoe, yes, she is brave , courageous , spunky and many things , but she has two weak spots - her father who is out there somewhere and Asad. There are a few people in our lives who sort of have their hands on our controls , without even trying. For Zoe, as of now, Asad is that man and that is why she crumbles. But hey! She bounces back.😃

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Livingfree

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Nice post Vicky! Like the way you analyse things so objectively. Your post helped me calm down a bit, I was angry and disappointed with how things shaped up in today's episode.

I can understand that Asad had no reason to blame or doubt Tanveer but he could have thought that there could be another explanation or reason for the fiasco instead of telling Zoe that for her, it is a joke. I know he has anger management issues and loses control that moment, he becomes irrational and on top of that, he is struggling with his new found feelings for Zoya but then he never gives her a chance of explaining things and just lashes out at her. Also, his taunts to her about not valuing relationship puts me off. He just doesn't trust her yet.

Edited by s120 - 12 years ago

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Nandini

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Nice post. But I'm so infuriated right now that I can see nothing but his behavior to her. Every time he indirectly hints that she has no family of her own. He doesnt trust her, he doesnt listen to her once and he loves her...like really? Sometimes I feel there is more to Asad Tannu relationship rather than a platonic 1 and that its Tannu he loves n not Zoya. Arghhh! Goddd this guy is just so damn impossible to live with and to tolerate also. ufff! Zoya sud not forgive him easily. She always gives in easily n hence he always takes her for granted. That moron.

phew! I know I'm really angry today. So saara bhadaas nikal diya. I'm so much in 'anger' with Asad that no logic on his favor is gonna work on me.

At moments like this I feel like it'll b nyc if she goes away for a short while so that this jerk will realise her value in his life.

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MoronsKiMallika

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes
I agree with you on the fact that Zoya has a history of hiding stuff from Asad...and his frustration stems from the fact that may be she views their relationship as a joke too...but tell me one thing...who started with this engagement being a drama...him or her?

She in all her innocence thought it was real...how do u deal with a man who refuses to acknowledge an engagement inspite of declaring that he doesn't disrespect these rituals...in fact Zoe has been upfront and asked him seedha seedha many times...now if he keeps saying fake fake fake...woh ladki hai yaar...till what level can she be upfront...

and whatever Zoya may have done...Asad should think she is not so dumb that she will switch a sample...and not a murderer that she will poison humeira...and if he thinks that she did all this deliberately...then i really am not sure what his definition of love is...

Thanks. Arre baby? You don't know that Asad is an emotional hypocrite by default? He believes that he cannot express what he feels but the feels he has are 10 times more intensified. That is what made him take an instant decision of getting engaged to Zoe. It was only after he came to his senses that he realized what he had done.

Zoe has voiced this so often - she has no idea what to do with Asad , and she could get up right now and walk out , but her heart doesn't let her. She is still hoping that all this will turn out to be true.

Asad? Think? Logically? Cows will start flying but that will not happen. His biggest drawback is that he uses his heart and instincts to think while the brain is limited to construction plans.😆

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ameilia

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Asad is a very complicated person.I dnt think it was all about the chicken blood today.Asad still think of Zoya as this reckless,carefree woman who doesnt think twice before doing something.He is in a confused state himself and that fact that Zoya supposedly does things that irritates him to the core dpesnt make it easier for him to admit anything.Look how quickly and easily it was for him to pin point her mistakes from Maryams to gas cylinder etc etc.

The confrontation between the chicken blood did turn into ME and YOU.Asad is an introvert.The moment he lets his feelings out he knows there is no more denying and refusing.His actions have shown how deeply and madly he is in love with Zoya but he has never said it.

The fact that he thinks she never takes anything seriously bothers him.It confuses him about what exactly she wants.He is mad because he thinks she doesnt give any importance to relationships and doesnt value them.He wants her to show him that she has mature and stop with her childish shenanigans.Even though he has told her this nikkah was nakli deep down inside he knows she is the one he wants to marry.

Him lambasting her was Mr Akhu Ahmed Khan telling Zoya you dont take Asad and his feelings seriously.

Have we ever thought why he keeps blasting Zoya?Its because she does things that hurt him.We only give certain people those rights to love and hurt us.The fact that Asad is so infuriated and disturbed by Zoya's actions show how much importance she holds in his life and maybe he can be a jerk but i guess that is his only way of expressing his frustrations.Its something he needs to work on.

I really like how you always manage to put things into perspective.Loved the post as usual😃

Edited by ameilia - 12 years ago