Asad, is it really about the chicken's blood? - Page 5

Vicky Ji,
You never seem to stop amazing me...just brillient 👏

This said it all ..."the real issue actually if you think about it. The chicken blood and Tannu ka menucard were a trigger to what is actually bothering him inside : That Zoe does not take anything seriously. That Zoe can go to the extent of a Naqlee Nikaah with him, without reflecting what she feels for him. "

"It was evident that what he said may have begun with Tanveer but it was not about chicken's blood after all. "

Masha Allah!!

Thank UUU 🤗

P.S. 4 lions should pay you for your marvelous write ups...I'm not kidding!

i get it- really i do!

Asad's trust issues and Zoya's negligence. These are the two reasons that's gonna cost them a lot. Asad madly loves Zoya. He does understand her too but his anger takes over him when something goes wrong and it's as if his brain sends an immediate signal and paints a picture of Zoya (In this case maybe Zoya with a syringe after a murghi 😆). Then he goes on and blasts at her...THEN he thinks and goes and apologizes. Zoya on the other hand knows what Asad's ghussa is like and knows very well that Asad always blames her but still, she goes on to do things without his knowledge only to be hurt later on.

Well Vicky was waiting for your post

I think you are right...this is not abt Tanveer, it is abt what is bothering Asad actually, BUT...is Asad any better than Zoya ??? If Asad feels that this nikaah and all is just a game for Zoya, what does he do ????
He keeps harping abt this engagement being fake, this engagement being a lie, this nikaah will never happen, he keeps throwing that in Zoya's face, then what exactly does he expect ?????
If we want Zoya to see love in Asad's eyes for her or in his actions, doesn't that apply to Asad also ???? Can't he see in Zoya's eyes what she feels, in her actions ????
Falling in love is a great feeling, but does that mean that you keep hurting the one you love, becoz you are in a mess about your own feelings and you cannot bring yourself to accept them ???? Cause that is what Asad is doing...and being in love one can accept lots of things, but everything has a limit...even loving someone !!!
Cause if you keep causing your loved ones hurt and pain, one day it might just end and that person walks away from you

What I hate abt Asad is that he keeps blaming Zoya for everything.
He, being Dilshaad's son, was the one who should have told his mom that he doesn't want this marriage at any cost, but what does he do ???? He goes along with his ammi's wishes, gets frustrated and starts putting the blame on Zoya...WHY ?????
What I hate abt Zoya is that she has become one love sick puppy, who wants this rishta no matter what, even though Asad keeps telling her it's not gonna happen, but at the same time her pride comes along. When she has to show him that she has some pride left , then she keeps crying her eyes out...
Also I am getting fed up of Zoya's ways of handling things...she keeps repeating the same mistakes over and over and doesn't seem to learn from her past mistakes...she should stop doing that ...PERIOD !!!!!!!!!
And in this case it is abt Asad's Tehzeeb ki dukaan...what else did she expect from Asad when he would know abt it ???? That he would embrace her and tell her : good job Zoya...well done ?????

What I feel is that if Asad cannot handle his feelings and doesn't want to go along with this nikaah, maybe Zoya should release him from all this. Maybe it is time that Zoya tellls Dilshaad the truth that Asad doesn't want this and maybe it's better not to force him to do something he doesn't want...maybe Zoya should do this dirty job for Asad, coz he's a coward who will never be able to do it, no matter how much it kills him...

Maybe they both need to back off from this and get themselves some space to overthink all...coz seriously the trust issues of Asad and the childish acts of Zoya are gonna cost them a whole lot very soon...Asad seems to trust his Tehzeeb ki dukaan more than the one he supposedly loves

Originally posted by: Salwa_Mehrin

Okay i havent watched the ep yet Just watched the LU All i can say is Asad still doesnt trust her to the extent. He needs more time.

Imagine if u went to a doctor and he says that you bought a chicken's blood rather than human, the guy would obviously get pissed off.

We need to understand that Asad doesnt trust anyone easily and he needs PROOFS for everything. Give the guy some time.

Lovely post^^

Originally posted by: mochhug

yes but don't you think that's a little hypocritical of him? He's the one who kept insisting that the Sagaai was nakli BOTH times. And Zoya just kept quiet and went along with it. But now she says Nakli nikaah and suddenly all her lies are being put on trial again? I don't think that's entirely fair. And I know that usually our love for one character does cloud out judgement. But honestly, I love Asad more than Zoya. It's odd but I do, because I identify with him more. Especially with the temper issue. But even today, despite it being about her lies and her lack of seriousness, I don't condone his behaviour. At least not the part where he doesn't even give her the benefit of the doubt. For the umpteenth time. It's getting exhausting.

yes, yes we know love should embrace all good, bad and ugly. It is after all the true ishq wala love. But its not love when it ALWAYS turn ugly on you. Its abuse. This is an abusive relationship

-Does he always think everything is her fault. Yes
-Does he accuse instead of question. Yes
-Does he always humiliate her. Yes
-Does he always put her down in front of others. Yes
-Does he always tell her that she is not good enough. Yes
-Does he hit her ... Ahhh! he has done that too.

No matter what "issues" you might have, If you cannot give your partner the respect she deserves, it is NOT love. This constant degradation is not love, no matter how prettily you write (and you do write very well).

Originally posted by: fabbz18

Great post - sort of calmed me down to an extent lol

But one thing I want to pick up here - doesn't it seem like Asad took advantage

of the situation today due to his perceived perception that Zoya doesn't take relationships

seriously? - so he thought he'd put her down a notch out of pure frustration.

If that's the case I dont really think that's fair on Zoya and no one deserves that

sort of treatment. And in term's of where this relationship is going Ive got to disagree

and say that it hasn't gone further at all as the first step in a relationship is trust

which Asad clearly doesn't have when it concern's Zoya.

But anyways I'm still optimistic after your post and things can only get better 👍🏼

Vicky, really nice post at time when needed most..

Beautifully written Victoria... Awesome post... You just explained Asad and Zoya's feelings towards each other and their reactions over the issue based on their history... Mind blowing... You are brilliant dear.. I just loved reading it... and I completely agree...