FOUR STAGES OF LOVE: ASYA - Page 9

Originally posted by: _vineeta_

What a lovely post Sangeeta, perfect for weekend...

Thanks Vineeta. Goes to show how much we all want QH on weekends also

Loved reading the four stages, never been a psychology student so it was interesting read. Beautiful precap of their our month journey..

These stages are not from any psychology text...this is just my interpretation😆

Enjoyed their attraction stage, loved how it started wth Asad who never wanted to be in love and ended with Zoya feeling the same for him, who so badly wanted to in love from begining. So amusing right??

Yeah, they tried their best to resist the attraction to the 'misfit' person but couldn't

Conflict stage was more interesting, specially how it was presented. Loved how unknowingly Zoya was connecting herself to him for everything whereas he was trying to disconnect himself knowingly. It probably started with high pitch Mangalpur drama, like in most serials but didnt end like them. I loved how they involved other characters here, like Dilshaad and Rashid to bring out these feelings. Through them they get to understand each other better(or worse😔) but still it opened new venues..

I think for asad the conflict started as soon as his car hit her in the 2nd episode. He was mesmerized by her but was shocked when he heard her talk back rudely

Realization part just started, I will let them display it for me. I loved how it started with Zoya on the bus remembering some parts of that night, then accident and sudden feeling of rejection. Tanveer and Ayaan will play the perfect catalyst to concrete the newly developed feelings. More rooted these feelings more strongly it will bind them later..

I think realization bits and pieces have happened ever since Mangalpur but probably most evident with the bhaang effect

Unconditional love stage: Hope its not exactly like Rashid and Dilshaad's. I dont want them to say I DO to others. As this has been base of their epic love story, for Zoya marriage means everything. I would be fine if there is trouble in paradise right after, or they were forced to stay apart because of circumstances. But Zoya cannot to say it to anyone but him, I will wait for it till the end for it...

Hope not...but they have to tell a story so I feel there will be 'other' people

Thanks for PM, I started reading in the morning but had to leave in middle, so got late in replying.

Originally posted by: princessjojo

Amazing and beautiful! Im all geared up for this ride! Ive always looked forward to the Ayaan and new girl quadrangle because it would make the story even more heart-wrenching and intense. Now if they can just keep the characters true to how they were originally penned, I dont have any complaints!

Originally posted by: shaz2009

Very beautifully put Sangeetha!👏Just my two cents here...if we are to go by on the physocological theories of love,then for us viewers,who are the mere spectators who are painting the bigger picture from the outside to whats going on in the inside,then this love lies on fantasy love rather than the real love,more of what we would like to witness and indulge in this pathway to Asad and Zoya's love.

Thanks Shaz. Are you a psychology student or major?

Asya have surpassed that stage of attraction with the stage of realization seeping in,not yet to at the full frontal with extreme measures,yet the inkling or the invisible force of the presence of an entity is there for both Asad and Zoya with stage two of love, conflict being the central focus for them at this present stage in their relationship.A fully developed realization will take time but before that happens the dreaded denial stage will be making way for creating more havoc, but along with it a love so passionate and intense,the trying hand at supressing this love,wrapping it under the wings and attempts at nipping it in the bud will be made all in vain which will feebly fail miserably leaving our star crossed lover's the ever more miserable,but hopefully here Asya's love wont be doomed to end in tragedy...touch wood!

wow...quite an analysis. I am with you...we don't want a tragedy here

I should think that this realization and denial stage should be the most interesting and most beautiful stage to watch and have high hopes from the Four Lions team to give us the much expected soul stirring and heart rendering epic moments in cinematic form but it would also be interesting if the attachment and commitment stage of love is also shown to an extent where we get to see Asya life after those initial first stages of love and once they have confessed and made that commitment.It would be refreshing to see for a change how they stand by one another in the most trying and testing moments and the most gloomiest of circumstances and their journey of how they walk this beautiful but difficult path of love together,hand in hand,side by side.

Yeah, I am looking forward to the realization part too. I think they have been in denial mode for a while. I think they will stand by each other but probably not as married partners (kinda like rashid-dilshaad)

Once again an amazing post by you Sangeetha and thanks ever so much for the pm!🤗

Thanks shaz...always love your comments

Originally posted by: ritukaprithvi

Bheegi

Beautifully written ...just amazing...agree with you...I firmly believe in the unconditional love, the un shake able...binding and holding on to you in sickness and in health...in this life...and next..for ever and ever...but I can not accept at least in my love stories...marrying and moving on with others...if your love was of the highest order...like" veer - zaara" than you may be apart but not with others...because there is no going back...without compromising your values and hurting your better halves...not acceptable to me ...nor in real life or in reel...I believe love can not be shared...

Originally posted by: blessed4

Just love they way you have analyzed ASYA love in different stages. It's a beautiful serial . If I have watched anything with interest after DMG than its Qubool hai.. And it was really nice to see u on this forum. It was like the minute I saw your name on here I just jumped and was hopeful than now you may even complete your AR ff it had to be you. But for now I am going tro read Teri aahetein . If you have written anything other than this than please pm me . Thanks