FOUR STAGES OF LOVE: ASYA - Page 8

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Beautiful post. Loved how analyzed each stage of love. This realization stage will be a treat to watch with jealousy and realization from both sides. But last stage will be a hard one to watch. It's hard to see them going through so much pain but in long term this will make their bond stronger and I'm all in for this ride.

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Honestly I don't like epic love stories, coz most of the time they turn tragic. I just hope that in the case of Asad and Zoya we don't have to wait till the end of the show to see them finally uniting

Originally posted by: AWriterAtHeart

This is really well thought out. Actually, now that I think about it, the stages that you have laid out seem to fit the story perfectly.
Attraction --> Definitely Asad felt it first from the first second he laid his eyes on her at the dargah.
Conflict --> There is definitely conflict between the two from the beginning. Even though the quarreling at the beginning was more out of annoyance, the later quarreling I felt came from the two looking out for each other. Mainly Asad looking out for Zoya.
Realization --> We had a beautiful Bol Na Halke Halke moment recently between the two, albeit their brains were "bhaang" infused, they did end up admitting their attraction to each other. Bit of a shocker for Zoya as she sees Asad embracing another woman. Just want to add that it was a painful yet beautiful scene.
Unconditional Acceptance --> That, I have to agree with you, will be the most difficult part for us viewers. I for one hope that they do say their "Qubool Hai"s soon, but let's see what happens.
All in all, I can see how you interpreted these four stages.
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Originally posted by: neenabinu

hey bheegi...Awesome post...loved it.

like Nishi said you sure have a PhD in loveology...😆

made the weekend better...

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

i am amused as usual Bheegi...👏 first of all Thanks for sending the PM...

i agree with ur points for the first three stages of love...but bheegi do u think if at all they end up in marrying someone else,still their love story will become EPIC...as far as i am concerned NOOO... it cannot... for me unconditional acceptance is a person should be ready to accept their opposites... in this case where asad is concerned he has some conditions for his would-be love of life... but as far zoya is concerned when she realizes that she is in love with asad... she would be ready to accept as he is... and that is unconditional love...

And always u can win ur fate by intelligence...(i.e. ) by taking right decision at the right time.. U definitely don't have to say YES where u have to say NO...

OUr zoya is brave she can even runaway from her Nikaah n wht not. If they don't want to confess thru out their lifetime... FINE... but how could they marry another person and tell them that i am not ready for any physical relationship with u and so on..for how long they could stay away. wht if they r again attracted to that so called spouse of theirs... obiviously by time they will fall for them if they are very very geniune...RIGHT... if this is wht to happen then do you think people call their (ASAD n ZOYA) love story as as EPIC ... NOT AT ALL... it would be named as their fisrt crush or something...

we cannot relate AsYa with RaShad as they are a married couple unlike our AsYa...

wht do u think...sangeetha

Deepa...

Originally posted by: QH1fan

I loved this! One of the best posts on AsYa and love ever! 👏
It just made everything that happened on Friday and anything else that's gonna happen more bearable. I cant wait for them to reach to the Unconditional Acceptance stage. I just hope it doesn't take them too long to get there and hopefully without marriage to others. To be in a Rashid-Dilshad situation would be too painful for them and us viewers.

Originally posted by: adeeti10

Brilliant post Sangeeta! You're easily the best writer on AsYa moments and their relationship in this forum! 👏

Originally posted by: JPRules

I have not much more to add Bheegi. You've said it all and how! 👏

The 4th stage will be the longest and the most painful and it seems to be on the horizon - what with an engagement to Tanveer and a marriage with Ayaan coming soon. I think their realizations will continue to evolve and intensify into and throughout the 4th. Separation will only make them fall deeper and deeper in love and the more they realize that the more they'll pine for each other.