Letter to BCCC - See P41 Update - Page 7

Originally posted by: shaz2009

Great job Laila!Hopefully our efforts wont go in vain.I am really overwhelmed by the tremondous support we are getting as to when I first came on here and took a stand.I was on one side forum of the and the majority were on the other.Then you came along Laila and took a stand with me against the violence which was shown on the 4th of Feb with me.Your support gave me the courage to go on and carry on voicing my opinions and slowly but surely more people started to show us their support in taking a stand with us..so we are not alone,we may be the minority here now, but hopefully in taking this one step further in writing this letter to th BCCC will pave the way for many more to voice their opinions just like we did...so that most importantly the PH can stop endorsments and promotion of such issues on shouldering the bandwagon and using it to their advantage for the sake of TRP'S and manipulation of any kind to the audience/reader's especially on a paltform such as this...India Forums, should stop taking it's course.The channels in all, should start taking careful consideration into what they air ,as romanticising violence of any form as love can have drastic effects on impressionable minds regardless of age,gender and the sentiments of those who have been through such heinous crimes should be of utmost concern as when such victims are exposed to their past being reflected in a show it leads to mirroring their experiences to send off triggers...(psychological effect on the brain)...they are forced to go through the dreadeded experiences again.This cruelty and insensitvity on Indian TV needs to stop and shouldd be addresssed in the approprate manner.

Well done and thanks to everyone again for showing your support...Priyanka,Aaliya,Mira,Adeeti,JoJo,Riya,Delena,etc,etc... and many more and special thanks to Laila off course for taking it this one step further in giving us an opportunity for our voices to be heard and a biig shout out to Prianka for being such an inspiration in getting ,that inner voice out of me to express openly on this forum without being afraid what the inpressionable minds make of me... as long as I firmly stand up for what I believe..Thankyou Pri!🤗.

I am so priviledged to have met all you wonderful people on here and hope to be friends for a very long time to come!🤗Dnt ever forget me guys.!...or else...lol..

Originally posted by: karan-007

I m not against your post but there have been a lot of things on tv in which they have shown like a guy trying to kill his best friend , a guy not treating his wife properly or a guy trying to rape n yu r worried about a slap , to be frank now a days no 1 learns anything from serials ,audience r intelligent n yeh ajeeb baat hai tv pe japaad maar dia so post banti hai to stop it aur jab raaste pe samne koi ladka chede kisi ladki then nobody even comes for help ...

Originally posted by: karan-007

I m not against your post but there have been a lot of things on tv in which they have shown like a guy trying to kill his best friend , a guy not treating his wife properly or a guy trying to rape n yu r worried about a slap , to be frank now a days no 1 learns anything from serials ,audience r intelligent n yeh ajeeb baat hai tv pe japaad maar dia so post banti hai to stop it aur jab raaste pe samne koi ladka chede kisi ladki then nobody even comes for help ...

Originally posted by: nebuna

your point over negativity is very true
but these tv shows are influential over people
there were people fantasizing wet dreams over a person in the other show
they just cant differentiate between reel and real

Originally posted by: adeeti10

It's not about WHAT is portrayed, but HOW IT IS portrayed.

If these shows are portraying its ok for these guys to behave like this, and audiences are justifying this behaviour, then it's worth reporting to the BCCI.

The sad reality is a lot of people think its ok for a guy to slap a girl, that violence without provocation is ok.

In reality, there are many many issues but by thinking its just a show, no one takes it seriously, were making a grave error cos media has the power to influence impressionable minds.

Originally posted by: karan-007

then it isn't the serial fault, its those people fault but i also believe now a days people differenciate between reel n real & in the show they just tried to show a guy who was angry on a girl bcoz he thought bcoz of her he my lost the most imp person of his life his mom n not to show a romantic thing

Originally posted by: karan-007

excuse me i was not supporting the behaviour n secondly for god sake nobody learns how to slap or rape or smoke, unless someone wants to do it themself

Originally posted by: adeeti10

According to the Indian broadcasting federation, channels and show makers have the social responsibility to self regulate.

So yes, it's the serial that is at fault.

And about what they showed, like I said elsewhere, even if they did show it, an acceptance that what he did was wrong irrespective of whether Zoya was at fault or to, would have to some extent addressed this. But that's of why was shown.

As for the serial, if they claim to want to portray social issues and are not doing it in a responsible manner, then an an audience, we have a right to speak up.