How can Asad redeem himself? - Page 5

Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

For me personally...if a guy did that...that would be the end...he could go jump in the lake...and there would be no redemption as far as I'm concerned...period...because I frankly could not live with the "What if" it happens again. But that's strictly my POV.

I know the situation was stressful...and Zoya's timing was really bad...but that still doesn't justify Asad's action. In fact, considering how Dilshad raised him...the slap actually came as a surprise for me.

But this is a drama...and I'm assuming the slap was worked in to cause "the great divide" between AsYa. Still...I'm not happy with the way it was showm...and it came a little too soon for my own taste.

Originally posted by: sophie420

Hey Laila,

I totally agree with your post!

I like the use of dialogues you put and I think Asad needs to forget his ego and apologize to Zoya.

Hope you get all the support and 4lions does something about this.

~Sophie :)

Originally posted by: RadheKrish1

Yes, Please do because as of now I have stopped watching the show-am reading updates and if Asad does not redeem himself properly than I am sorry to say but Qubool Hai will lose a lot of fans!

I just discovered this show two weeks ago and I wish I had not! 😒

The obsession is gone for now-on a lighter note that is good because now I can catch up with my life...

Originally posted by: tasmila487

I dont think Asad can redeem himself any more or it will take a lot for him to do so (at least for me). Throughout the entire show I've seen Asad do so many things that really irked me but I over looked them all. He has done many things like after zoya got him and ayaan to meet, he threatened to kill her even though she wasnt at fault, she was just trying to make him a little happier but what did asad do? he yelled at her made her cry and threatened to kill her. Also the way he is always judging her for wearing jeans. BUT that slap today just made me angry and it was way too far. She was trying to help a girl that went through one of the worst things a person can go through and what did she get for that? A slap that not only hurt her physically but also mentally hurt her self esteem. Who ever gave asad the right to do so? To me, it is not okay for anyone besides a person's parents can lay a hand on them without their permission and asad violated that and it is completely unacceptable for him to do so. If i was zoya I would not be able to forgive him no matter what he does and I hope she doesnt forgive him anytime soon. The irony in this is remember when asad was telling akram how a real man is someone who respects women? was what he did today very respectful?

Originally posted by: RadheKrish1

Yeah he has too many prejudices but I was hoping to see him change over time in Zoya's company, like Darcy did in Lizzie's company but Asad is NO Darcy! The slap was it!

I was thinking the same thing about him telling Akram and also those four goons at the railway station when they hit Zoya-what a hypocrite!

Nothing against KSG or Subhi-they are great actors!

I don't know how much power do these actors have but I think that actors especially main lead involved in such scenes should speak up! just my 2 cents that I have been adding in this forum since morning! :)

Originally posted by: bee5

You had suspected this, Laila!

I never thought Asad would raise hand on women and children. They just proved me wrong. Couldn't the makers handle it without the slap?

What does it make him? If god forbid had Dilshad died instantly, would he have killed Zoya?

Why they had to take it to that level? But what can I tell, Asad is a character with flaws and this act heightens his flaws. He had always jumped to conclusions before knowing everything, he has been judgmental, he was never a normal person with so much hidden in him (Dilshad was more a victim than him, but she had such positivity, but not him), now he is abusive too.

Slap can never be justified. But I get what they are doing.

His 'Anger' directly proportional to 'guilt'/'repentance'. May be even exponentially proportional.

The bigger the act of anger, the bigger the guilt and further bigger repentance!

But with this act 'Asad' isn't the same anymore.

No one of Mariyam or Najma saw what Asad did. So, there wud b no opportunity for Mariyam to clarify it for Zoya. I think he has to over hear Mariyam saying 'why Dilshad brought her back' or Dilshad has to say that herself to Asad. That is how his misunderstanding wud b clarified.

Laila, I like the dialogues that you have for Zoya and Asad. But I'm not sure if Dilshad would say all of it, but I definitely want her to say that 'she is ashamed of his act and never expected him to hit her'. In addition I want her to ask Asad to be sorry and pay for his wrong doing. Both of which u hv already covered.

A very good post!

Originally posted by: Hafizakhan

For sure another "stumble-fall-catch" type scene with Mitwa playing in the background is going to look ridiculous after today's events.

He is going to have to grovel bad.

Maybe Ayaan will come to the hospital, and Zoya will head off with him!

Originally posted by: TheBoss

For the start he can jump in a chullu bhar paani and doob maro.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Nice post and I must say you are very optimistic...but honestly I cannot fathom myself with someone who has the audacity to speak to me in an insulting way let alone slap me...the day a person does that...that person will be reported and I would make sure that he is behind bars on charges of domestic violence...

I work at a domestic violence shelter and I see physically and mentally bruised women on a daily basis...I see them trying to puck up the pieces of their very disturbing and abusive lives...so I cannot fathom seeing Zoya with a dispicable abusive woman hitter like Asad.

I actually don't want to see Zoya with Asad anymore. I want Zoya with a man who will live and respect her and if that person is Ayaan...then so be it. I will actually support it as a viewer...but no I want Zoya to walk out of that house.

Also, if she stays back after this...I will stop watching QH. I will not degrade myself as a women anymore...I did feel disgraced today...I felt like the slap was on numerous ppl like like who work with domestic violence victims ...this was a slap on every woman me.

I totally and utterly despise men like Asad...gosh...hypocrites of the society.