Edited:Issue of marriage triangle of Ayan,Asad&Zoe

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Woah!!
It's amazing to see so many diverse responses on a thread that was made in January when Ayaan and Zoe had not even met properly.
(All those who wish to read the previous content of this thread may scroll down and refer to the write-up in green colour in the same post)

I wish I had enough time to reply to all the latest comments here.My exams are starting from 30th of April owing to which I can't reply individually.
I understand the sentiments of all the people who don't want to see Ayaan and Zoe's marriage.Trust me guys,I myself don't want the same because I'm in love with ASYA.I hope many of you must be aware about my passion for ASYA.

The purpose of this thread was to throw some light on this issue so that it can be viewed from different angles.
This matter was being looked upon by many people from a single perspective that a girl loving one brother and marrying the other and then divorcing the latter and wedding the former is ethically wrong.Many people feel that it would be quite disgusting.This fact moved me and the result was this thread.

How is it morally wrong to love someone?How can it be morally wrong to get divorced if two people can't stay happy together?How can a second marriage be called a B-grade step just because the second husband happens to be the brother of the first one?
If remarriages and divorces are allowed in cultures and religions then it's natural to be acceptable to the society as well.
Who are we to decide that such and such thing is right or wrong for a relationship?I believe that nothing is right or wrong in this world.It's the perception that matters.

Qubool Hai is a show which has got a very strong storyline and the wonderful characters and actors have added a charm to this drama serial.In the end it's a fiction.If people can believe in superman,then I'm sure they can believe and understand many more things as well.

I wished to share three things by making this thread.
First one was to present Ayaan-Zoe-Asad love/marriage triangle from a different perspective.

Second purpose was to say that TV serials are prone to changes very randomly as well as frequently.So, Ayaan and Zoe's marriage will happen or not can't be said at this stage.It might be possible that we may get a love triangle but no wedding.But if god forbid wedding happens,then also I'm sure Cvs must have a good explanation for it.

Third aim of this thread was that QH demands patience and believe in the makers of this show for once.I've seen everyone jumping at conclusions just by a spoiler pic and reacting immediately towards it.I've leaned my lesson that I need to maintain my cool and watch this show with a little more patience unlike my previous shows.Also, we all believe that the writers of this show have done an amazing job.The lead characters are not perfect but grey ones and this is what makes this show more realistic.So,I think that if Cvs had planned for Ayaan and Zoe's marriage even before the commencement of this show on-air then there must be some relevance of this track in Asad and Zoya's epic lovestory.We should atleast be mentally prepared for it and if everything goes fine,Gul mata may listen to our demand and not go for the wedding track😆

There are few more things which I need to discuss here.
We have seen Asad changing sides just after he express his love for Zoe in tidbits.It might be possible that Ayaan and Zoe's marriage will make Asad realize that Zoe could be the only perfect woman in his life and he may realize her worth after losing her.At times,I feel that Asad takes Zoe for granted.So, a separation track might bring ASYA closer than before and their love bond may strengthen more and more.

I've seen many people on the forum who think that Zoya does not deserves a judgemental man like Asad but then the same people don't want Ayaan and Zoe together as well.I'm a bit confused as to what they actually want.(Please note that I'm not pointing fingers at anyone.I'm just discussing a much discussed thought/topic regarding Asad and Zoya on the forum.(No offense intended)

Just because we all have fallen in love with ASYA hopelessly does not mean that CVs should fulfill the demands of all the fans.A million viewers wish to watch a zillion things in the show and the makers of the show will have to really end a show if they accept every wish of their audience.We have witnessed changes in the story track of show on public demand.This step has worked for some shows but failed to do the same for others.I think that the creative team of a show knows the best way to proceed and as an audience we should try to watch a show and criticize/ appreciate it but an interference in the storyline is really a violation of the rights of the story writers of the show.
We all have loved this show so far and have been praising it's storyline time and again.So,I would request all of you to be kindly patient and try to give atleast one chance to Ayaan and Zoe's love/marriage triangle.If you don't like something, you always have the right to switch over but if you stop watching QH just after the beginning of Ayaan and Zoe's love/marriage fiasco,then how can you decide if it was good or not.
My last suggestion/request of this post is to just chill and enjoy the show for what is being presented before us in the present instead of panicking about the future track.We won't be able to enjoy the show completely if we keep on worrying about the future becausefuture is always unknown.😆
All those of you who have decided to quit the show if this track starts are requested to give atleast a chance to the show before bidding goodbye to the show.


Let's be optimistic because freaking out for future track is completely useless.Let's entertain ourselves with the present track and enjoy ASYAlicious track of QH to the fullest.



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I simply shared what I feel about this track just like all of you.All what I've written here is my personal point of view.I don't wish to impose anything on anyone.I apologize in advance if I've offended anyone unintentionally.

This is all what I want to say.
I wish to see a healthy discussion here.Kindly avoid any kind of bashing.
Take care!
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EARLIER POST THAT WAS MADE IN JANUARY

What's the big deal if Ayaan marries Zoe?

I've seen a good amount of panic on the forum since the very first day of Qubool Hai after Zee TV released it's synopsis about the show revealing that Ayaan and Zoya will get married and divorced.

I don't understand why is such a huge hue and cry about this issue?
Just because Ayaan and Asad are brothers this marriage becomes unacceptable to all of us.
If we go by the history of Indian TV serials,K-shows play the games of marriage and divorces almost every six months.Shows like Kasauti,Kahin toh hoga,etc have been super-hit where the marriages between the leads happened I don't know how many times.Even DMG showed the love triangle but ultimately it also gave into the public demand and showed that love exists above all the social restrictions of the society.People readily accepted all these shows, kept showering them with their love and remained loyal to them.

A very popular show called Kumkum showed that the brother-in-law of Kumkum(Sumit) married Kumkum who was his bhabhi when her husband and his real brother died.People had no problems with that track and kept loving the show.Sumit-Kumkum's jodi became super-duper hit.

So, today why is Ayaan and Zoya's marriage creating such a huge disappointment amongst all of us?
So what if Ayaan and Zoya get married?
They are bound to get divorced and eventually AsYa are going to be together.
Why do people have such huge problems in this case?Even if Zoe sleeps with Ayaan, then also there would be nothing wrong.She did not commit a crime by giving herself to her husband.People do make mistakes, Right?Ayaan and Zoya will also do and they will rectify it by getting divorced.

If Asad is all ready to accept Zoya without being concerned that she is a divorcee of his own brother because his love for her is above any other bitter truth of his and Zoe's life,then why can't we be at peace with this issue?

I also don't want Ayaan and Zoya's marriage.I pray that this may not happen because I don't want Zoe to be the cause of rift between two brothers who can even die for each other.But still I'm ready to accept whatever the show presents before me.We need to think a little practically.Marriage with brother-in-law is acceptable in many religions as well,so what is the problem here?
I have read people deciding to quit the show,etc etc if Ayaan and Zoe's marriage commences.
I would request you guys not to panic and just watch the show patiently.
There is no point in worrying about the future.All we can do right now is just enjoy the present and leave the future to the CVs.We still are not confirmed if the show will go ahead as per the synopsis or not.
The storyline of TV shows highly depends upon the trps and love triangles are used as a means to increase the trps.But very often it is also seen that as per the public demand and protests, necessary amendments are made in the storyline as per the need of the hour.
If the CVs have thought about Ayaan and Zoe's marriage since the beginning of the show then I'm sure they must have some motives behind it.We all know that unlike other serials, Qubool Hai has got a very intense and gripping story line.Thankfully this show saves us from all the crappy dramas that are put on in other shows.It might be possible that Ayaan and Zoya's marriage may finally dawn upon the realization on Asad that he has been in love with his badtameez ladki. Zoe might also realize that she has been in love with her jahanpanah always after her marriage.We really don't know what lies ahead in the serial.It would be very interesting to see what Ayaan does once he knows about his bhaijaan's feelings for Zoya.Will he sacrifice or not shall be a huge turning point in the bromance of two brothers and what new twists this revelation will bring forth in the lives of two brothers will also be something very amazing to watch.CVs mostly know what audience want and how to keep the viewers stuck to their show.So let's trust CVs for a while and let them bring forward what they want.

Therefore,I would suggest that currently we should try to just entertain ourselves with the present tracks of the show.We can react and even protest against the love triangle when the right time comes and we feel that we still can't digest Ayaan and Zoe's marriage.
We have all the time in this world right now to present our views when the right time comes.We have started showing concerns when Zoya and Ayaan have not even become very good friends. We can save something for future also I suppose.Why should we ruin the current recreation because of the upcoming track? We need to be really patient while watching Indian drama shows.

I hope that after reading this post you guys may try to see Ayaan and Zoya's marriage in a different light and try to be ready to give a chance to this track atleast if God forbids it happens to take place in the show

No offense intended to anyone.I hope you guys may understand my point of view.You guys may disagree with my views and I'm sure we all can have a healthy discussion over the conflicting issues.
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Love you all
Asma

PS-I'm in a mood to rejoice ASYA's open declaration of love and the lovely engagement.I'm soo happy today.All those of u who are waiting for an analysis from my side may be prepared.IT's on the way.😆


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Posted: 12 years ago
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It would be really nice if you guys can share your views about what you think about my point of view.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Seriously I totally agree with u!
Ayaan & Zoya jst had a few scenes 2gether & ppl started fretting over it so much!!
I have how dis constant fretting & speculating can ruin a show. And I dnt want a repeat here.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree that if this is the plot then we should accept it and try to see how it pans out!
I dont think that it is wise to ask the CV's to change their storyline! They may do, if they think that a Ayaan-Zoya marraige will pull down ratings when everyone is rooting for ASYA!
I personally want Asad and Zoya to get married! Ayan is not mature enough for Zoya! She needs a guy like Asad to keep her grounded and Asad needs a girl like Zoya to learn to relax and enjoy life a bit more!!
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i somewhat agree with you didu...there is no point in over reacting on the synopsis... let the PH reveal the story at their own pace... though i particularly dont want Ayaan and Zoya to get married but even if they do so all of us know AsYa are meant to be together... may be the triangle track will increase the drama quotient thats why they have kept it... and moreover the CV's know exactly what the audiences want so even if they show Ayaan- Zoya marriage i am sure ultimately Zoya will come back to Asad... we have seen this kinds of plot before (read DMG) so no need to get worried and enjoy as the show reveals it to you
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i completely agree with you
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Originally posted by: crazy4KASH_AR

I've seen a good amount of panic on the forum since the very first day of Qubool Hai after Zee TV released it's synopsis about the show revelaing that Ayaan and Zoya will get married and divorced.

I don't understand why is such a huge hue and cry about this issue?
Just because Ayaan and Asad are half-brothers this marriage becomes unacceptable to all of us.
If we go by the history of Indian TV serials,K-shows play the games of marriage and divorces almost every six months.Shows like Kasauti,Kahin toh hoga,etc have been super-hit where the marriages between the leads happened I don't know how many times.Even DMG showed the love triangle but ultimately it also gave into the public demand and showed that love exists above all the social restrictions of the society.People readily accepted all these shows, kept showering them with their love and remained loyal to them.

A very popular show called Kumkum showed that the brother-in-law of Kumkum(Sumit) married Kumkum who was his bhabhi when her husband and his real brother died.People had no problems with that track and kept loving the show.Sumit-Kumkum's jodi became super-duper hit.

So, today why is Ayaan and Zoya's marriage creating such a huge disappointment among all of us?
So what if Ayaan and Zoya get married?
They are bound to get divorced and eventually AsYa are going to be together.
Why do people have such huge problemsin this case?Even if Zoe sleeps with Ayaan, then also there would be nothing wrong.She did not commit a crime by giving herself to her husband.People do make mistakes, Right?Ayaan and Zoya will also do and they will rectify it by getting divorced.

If Asad is all ready to accept Zoya without being concerned that she is a divorcee of his own stepbrother because his love for her is above any other bitter truth of his and Zoe's life,then why can't we be at peace with this issue?

I also don't want Ayaan and Zoya's marriage.I pray that this may not happen because I don't want Zoe to be the cause of rift between two brothers who can even die for each other.But still I'm ready to accept whatever the show presents before me.We need to think a little practically.Marriage with brother-in-law is acceptable in many religions as well,so what is the problem here?
I have read people deciding to quit the show,etc etc if Ayaan and Zoe's marriage commences.
I would request you guys not to panic and just watch the show patiently.
There is no point in worrying about the future.All we can do right now is just enjoy the present and leave the future to the CVs.We still are not confirmed if the show will go ahead as per the synopsis or not.Therefore,I would suggest that currently we should try to just entertain ourselves with the present tracks of the show.We can react and even protest against the love triangle when the right time comes.I hope that after reading this post you guys may try to see Ayaan and Zoya's marriage in a different light and try to be ready to give a chance to even this track if God forbids it happens to take place in the show.No offense intended to anyone.I hope you guys may understand my point of view.
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Take care!
Love you all
Asma


Check out your own words - you don't want this Ayaan Zoya jodi but you are forcing yourself to accept it and then you are asking others too. And what nonsense is this that if characters accept certain arrangements, we to must accept it. What if a man beats his wife and his wife accepts it, or a woman engages in a love affair with her best friend's husband and she supports it? How about if Asad and Ayaan both stay married to Zoya and they rotate sleeping with her? And they agree to this arrangement? Will you still watch the show? After all if they don't have a problem with it, then why should you?

We as viewers don't have a right to express how we feel or disagree to something? Sorry but I am from a different mindset and I certainly wouldn't have sex with two brothers therefore it is not something I welcome in a show or the leading character. You can't do this stuff tastefully. I have to friends who are brothers and cousins and they are like W*F? WHO the heck would do that? Should this be the crux of the story, I will lose interest in the Asad Zoya jodi as this pair will not have the magic left for me.

Also, so what if others shows have had these love triangles where two brothers or sisters or a nephew and an uncle love the same person? It's boring and lacks creativity. When you have such a good jodi, then why kill it?

Most of us are going to watch the show until the storyline heads in this direction. Why should I waste my time agreeing to things that I find morally reprehensible?


And I frankly speaking don't give a toss if someone's offended. I spoke my mind, if you or anyone here don't like it, here is my best advise, grow a spine cause in real life we are going to experience things that are not going to make us comfortable.

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Originally posted by: Laila2009


Check out your own words - you don't want this Ayaan Zoya jodi but you are forcing yourself to accept it and then you are asking others too. And what nonsense is this that if characters accept certain arrangements, we to must accept it. What if a man beats his wife and his wife accepts it, or a woman engages in a love affair with her best friend's husband and she supports it? How about if Asad and Ayaan both stay married to Zoya and they rotate sleeping with her? And they agree to this arrangement? Will you still watch the show? After all if they don't have a problem with it, then why should you?

We as viewers don't have a right to express how we feel or disagree to something? Sorry but I am from a different mindset and I certainly wouldn't have sex with two brothers therefore it is not something I welcome in a show or the leading character. You can't do this stuff tastefully. I have to friends who are brothers and cousins and they are like W*F? WHO the heck would do that? Should this be the crux of the story, I will lose interest in the Asad Zoya jodi as this pair will not have the magic left for me.

Also, so what if others shows have had these love triangles where two brothers or sisters or a nephew and an uncle love the same person? It's boring and lacks creativity. When you have such a good jodi, then why kill it?

Most of us are going to watch the show until the storyline heads in this direction. Why should I waste my time agreeing to things that I find morally reprehensible?


And I frankly speaking don't give a toss if someone's offended. I spoke my mind, if you or anyone here don't like it, here is my best advise, grow a spine cause in real life we are going to experience things that are not going to make us comfortable.



As far as I remember I've replied to a few posts of yours in a very calm and cool manner encouraging you to come up with nicer ideas.Why did you feel that my post is directed towards you?

I've been noting that every time a newbie comes here,he/she has queries regarding the synopsis.First of all let me make this very clear to you that my post is not at all directed at you.I really like what you write.I may disagree at times but it's a real fun to read your creative imaginations.

I would not deny in saying that your post sounds a bit offensive.

When did I force you or anyone to accept my point of view?I just shared my feelings just like you.We all have full right to express our feelings on this forum and if we don't agree to certain things we can ofcourse debate in a healthy manner.Constructive criticism is most welcome but bashing should be avoided.

I'm happy to know that you are still not able to see Ayaan and Zoya's relation in a different light and you have full right to disagree wit me.We can surely have a discussion on this.

What moral is going wrong here my dear?I simply don't understand this psychology.
The fact of brother-in-law marrying his sister-in-law has been evident in many cases in real life as well my dear.My mom's classmate became a widow and later her family got her brother-in-law married to her.So this is something which is not just fiction.It happens in real life too.I'm sure that all of us are going to stick with the show till it lasts because KSG's charm overpowers all the loopholes in the storyline.If we can tolerate all the illogical humours of DMG then I'm sure most of us can handle Ayaan and Zoya's marriage as well.
Even the Hindu literature has mentioned about Draupadi being the wife of five pandavas and she had a son from each one of them.In Islam and other religions also,such marriages are legally and socially acceptable.So why do we have so many questions here?

By saying that if Asad doesnot have any problems,why should we be so much concerned,all I wished to state was that love is above everything.All the societal constraints and different morals of different people go to hell when two people love each other insanely.They just think about being together till forever no matter what the circumstances are.The magic of Asad and Zoya is never going to end and as they say Distance makes the heart grow fonder.It might be possible that when Zoe marries Ayaan and goes away from Asad,the realization about his true feelings for Zoya may dawn upon Asad.You never know what motives CVs have behind this marriage.If they have planned this wedding,it must be definitely important for the show and it's strong and gripping storyline.

Wouldn't it be interesting to see Zoya craving for Asad after marrying Ayaan that would eventually lead to her divorce.It will be a high point in the serial when we see that Ayaan comes to know about his bhaijaan's love.That will be his examination and we'll get to see if he can sacrifice his feelings for his bhaijaan or not.The makers know what is the best for the audience most of the times.If a track is not acceptable to the audience,the necessary changes are always incorporated.
All I wanted to say was that there is no point in brainstorming soo much and getting worried about the future track.We can surely protest and mail the CVs about her discontentment once we know that this track is bound to happen.We all know that the stories in tv serials depends upon the trp and is highly unpredictable.What has been decided in the beginning may not be followed later.So why to worry sooo much?
It's my sincere request you to kindly calm down and think about what I said in a peaceful manner.I have no intentions to offend or hurt you.I hope that you may try to respect and understand my point of view as much as I do for yours.
Take care!
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Thanks a lot Fatemah.I'm glad that you could agree with my point of view.
How are your exams going on darling?
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Originally posted by: tnusredey

Seriously I totally agree with u!

Ayaan & Zoya jst had a few scenes 2gether & ppl started fretting over it so much!!
I have how dis constant fretting & speculating can ruin a show. And I dnt want a repeat here.



Thanks a lot for sharing your views dear..
I'm also very much unhappy with the kind of panic Zee tv's synopsis has created on this forum.
I also don't want speculations and rumours to ruin the present moments of fun and joy related to QH.

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