Call Me Old Fashioned But.. - Page 7

Originally posted by: ka7eela

Yesterday when they showed the intimate scene between Abhay and Maithli, i loved the subtle passion they have projected, but the first thing that crossed in my mind was, i hope they were married!

I don't believe in living in relationships, i truly believe this whole pre-martial affairs or getting physical before getting married, taints true love!, it damages it!, and its totally wrong!

When a boy truly loves a girl he should respect her and not get into the bed with her without marriage, otherwise whats the difference between us and animals who mate with whomever they fancy!

I hate it, when things like this get promoted in media in the name of love!

Call me old fashioned but i am not trying to attack anyone who think otherwise, this is my personal BOV!

Originally posted by: ka7eela

@ bold i think you have missed my whole point, please read my topic again!😳I read it and that is why said nothign too much to pick out of that scene.

i haven't said that the scene between Abhay and Maithli was vulgar or was wrong, have i?!, in fact i LOVED it, it was passionate in a subtle way, hell i wouldn't have mind it, even if it was a bit steamy!😆 moreover i drooled over it😳I don't think they are gona show Live in relationship in 60th century ppl..ekta is still in her minds..😆😆 if she does..than...i don't what to say on it..

my point is, i hope they are married, i hope they didn't make love without getting married first thats all!

because they have showed us that what Abhay had for Miathli was true love, hence if they are not married then i feel it will be wrong to associate that what they did was of love! The show is Youth Based...I am not thinking anywhere near they are gona spoil it like that...I bet they were together..but not sleeping in a sense the way you and other ppl are pointing out... He said in his mind too..that Piya you and Maithli are so similar...and the whole point was just to show how Maithli and Piya are alike..I m thinking that becoz of chand and haseena they were hiding their love..lets wait for the rest of epsiodes..

@ blue, are you kidding me!, he was shirtless and she was in silk night robe or pajama! and what she said and he said to her were clear that they have slept together! and that it was the morning after! 😆😆 wo to piya ke sath bhi shirtless tha! 😆😆 even piya was laying on his chest like that..don't mean anything..😉

i hope you are catching my drift😆😆 is there any drift?😆 sorry if i made you angry by my replies..didn't mean to..but what m saying is that there is nothing too picky about him and maithli being together...but will c when they actully show Maithli-Abhay truth..

Originally posted by: shivani003

Oh I respect ur views very much and I like that u opened this topic. It needs to be discussed especially for young girls. Hmmm though teenage preggie rates are high here I wouldnt say sleeping around is promoted here... And what Iam trying to say is that ppl who do indulge in it probably feel like their love will grow more if they do it and yes perhaps it is due to the candy floss crap that is shown in movies. Young girls who have a bright future ahead of them and have barely any committment whatsoever should not consider such a big step. Theres a large proportion of ppl who do end up regretting it.

Yea personally I believe its not wise to indulge in premarital sex cos it can have more cons than pros..... but ummmm well Iam not sure if morals are reduced because of it? Perhaps that depends on the perspective of the culture u grow up in na? Of course amongst us Indians as well as Muslims and also Christians its strongly looked down upon. And yes I agree it is more pure to abstain and wait till after marriage😊

And I get what ur trying to say... that the media hypes/glorifies this stuff so much that young girls can get the wrong idea about it being almost a norm which is certainly unacceptible. Once again lovely topic and I like that ur open to everyones views😊

Originally posted by: amail1601

You know what, it's not even about morals or religion. Sure, religion says it's wrong to indulge in pre-marital relationships. Society says it's wrong. And they are right. Not because it makes the persons involved less 'pure' or 'bad', but because it is not healthy.

Religion and social rules were made up to teach people right from wrong and to scare them into doing the 'right' thing.

Take for example a solar eclipse. Thanks to modern science we know that the sun's rays are extremely harmful then, and people become especially careless then coz they think "the sun's dim, won't hurt our eyes", so we either don't look at the sun directly, or use various tools, and don't eat or drink because various microorganisms are supposed to multiply at that time.

But still there are people who don't have access to this kind of scientific reasoning. And especially in old days people didn't know all this. For them (in Hindu mythology), a story was made up of how during an eclipse Rahu eats up the sun and it is a time that people should pray and take baths and not eat our drink or look at the sun or they'll get into trouble.

Same way social and religious rules were made up to protect people from STDs and stuff like teenage pregnancies and heartbreak coz your spouse is running off and having affairs with 10 people. But as time went by, these rules got out of hand and these things became a matter of 'shame'.

Either way - whether a person says that pre-marital intimacy is ok if the persons involved want it and are responsible or are very deeply in love, or whether another says that it is morally wrong - both extremes are not right simply because the argument is wrong. 😆

Sorry for the history/mythology lecture, but lately my Hons syllabus is making me think too much about this 'issue'. 😕😆😆😆

Originally posted by: ka7eela

Yesterday when they showed the intimate scene between Abhay and Maithli, i loved the subtle passion they have projected, but the first thing that crossed in my mind was, i hope they were married!

I don't believe in living in relationships, i truly believe this whole pre-martial affairs or getting physical before getting married, taints true love!, it damages it!, and its totally wrong!

When a boy truly loves a girl he should respect her and not get into the bed with her without marriage, otherwise whats the difference between us and animals who mate with whomever they fancy!

I hate it, when things like this get promoted in media in the name of love!

Call me old fashioned but i am not trying to attack anyone who think otherwise, this is my personal BOV!

Originally posted by: amail1601

Thank God someone feels the way I do!!!!!!!!

I mean, seriously...I sometimes get so embarassed watching such scenes generally, and when they are shown between unmarried people, it feels really weird. n especially weird when we are supposed to believe that the girl is sweet n good coz she hasn't kissed the guy on the mouth, even though they've done practically everything else!!! 😕

I liked the part where abhay told pia not to say sorry coz she was sleeping with her head on his shoulder(?)......the more such stuff is shown on tv n in movies, the more young people emulate it, and the more the society becomes narrow-minded n it becomes a weird vicious cycle.

Sorry, I might not be making much sense ^^^ there, but what I mean to say is that thankfully the scene was tastefully done, but this whole 'love = physical closeness' stuff gets on my nerves.

And I hope that now they won't try to justify the scene by saying nothing ever happened n Abhay n Maithili were just sitting there casually, coz it's even worse to pretend that such things don't happen.

Originally posted by: Krrish87_sweet

Originally posted by: luv_wacko

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