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Posted: 13 years ago
@Jyoti I'm still on the first page, Internet issues...haven't gone through any of the posts today! :(
I may have a change of mind after going through all the opinions :D...looking forward to it!
I'm pretty sure Palak scared many today, she actually made a plan and the cough gosh! :|
I agree, but ansh doesn't seem spoilt to me. Yes, sometimes he gets on people's nerves and is mischievous...what more can you expect from a 5 yr old?
He listens to his mother and now naye papa too! He doesn't respond well to harsh tones because he's not used to that type of parenting.
Paypal need to change!
@Samana- Read your post. Regarding Yash's speech, I honestly didn't pay much attention to what he said. I was just focusing on over possessive nature...I'm sure if I watch it again, Yash may annoy me again. :D
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Posted: 13 years ago

The Casonava was right- Ansh is going to bring ArYa closer

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: barlin

@Jyoti I'm still on the first page, Internet issues...haven't gone through any of the posts today! :(
I may have a change of mind after going through all the opinions :D...looking forward to it!
I'm pretty sure Palak scared many today, she actually made a plan and the cough gosh! :|
I agree, but ansh doesn't seem spoilt to me. Yes, sometimes he gets on people's nerves and is mischievous...what more can you expect from a 5 yr old?
He listens to his mother and now naye papa too! He doesn't respond well to harsh tones because he's not used to that type of parenting.
Paypal need to change!
@Samana- Read your post. Regarding Yash's speech, I honestly didn't pay much attention to what he said. I was just focusing on over possessive nature...I'm sure if I watch it again, Yash may annoy me again. :D




Ansh isn't that spoiled. He is misbehaved the way most five years old are. Gayatri just exaggerates it I have often seen when ppl don't like others they take out on kids by finding faults in them. Ansh is a really easy target for Gayatri.
Edited by Gurtiluv - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Why did they bring in Shobha suddenly?

May be she can have a good talk with both Yash and Arati about parenting and how they should act together than separately. She is a person with clear thoughts.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Or maybe Aarti will run to the dubeys for some time as she needs some advice.
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Posted: 13 years ago



Ansh isn't that spoiled. He is misbehaved the way most five years old are. Gayatri just exaggerates it I have often seen when ppl don't like others they take out on kids by finding faults in them. Ansh is a really easy target for Gayatri.

Exactly!
Out of the 3 , Palak needs a lot of attention. Payal and Ansh seem like normal kids.
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Posted: 13 years ago
i think ansh is 4 or 5 , he is kid. any mother is possesive abt her kid no surprise. but arti is giving love n affection tat needed for tat age to ansh. she is protecting him as needed for a kid of his age.
yash claiming arti tat she is not letting ansh n he is not able to mix with family mems no i don't think so. ansh only talked firstly with his naya papa when they came to for arya engagement. when they came to new house ansh tried to mingle with paypal n naya papa n others. but it's paypal only didn't bond with him well n gaya3 treatment of second class citizen to ansh n yash too didn't mingle with ansh at beginning. everyone has flaws but in scindia house arti n ansh are always shown in poor light as everyone is perfect. yash too didn't try to tell to paypal not to tease ansh n ansh is lively n draing bacha as how he talked beinning with gaya3 but yash can't figure it out ,to say didn't pay attention to y ansh is so scared n all. he is just thinking new rules new house ,he is not used to it so
he is like tat. second child may be she is palak tat girl who lies n manipulates she is gaya3 -2 she needs immediate attention not ansh. ansh is according to his age but he is smart bacha.
disciplining means not taking childhood frm children. yash is doing tat only frm ansh.
yash intentions are nice but his way is not right. for every disease u give same medicine. even kids frm same family will ve different nature. will do deal same with all our children. we ve to deal according to the nature of the child n see tat they r in right track. yash didn't know nothing abt ansh. who knows better than arti abt ansh with out consulting her just took decision abt ansh.
a big blow to his ego tat always he can take right decisions in everyones case.
yash intentions are nice but his way is not right how he deal with ansh. today i feel bad for arti n ansh. ansh lost his smile already , hope he doesn't lose his childhood like paypal.

Edited by Savz_uniqueblis - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Gurtiluv

Or maybe Aarti will run to the dubeys for some time as she needs some advice.


After getting Ansh, may be she will tell Shobha that she is not happy there. But that chance is less, I don't think she will tell something wrong about this family. may be Ansh will say like no one in the new family does not love him. Then Shobha can talk to Arati or both Arti and Yash.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Been a silent reader so long but want to contribute to the discussion so add my name to the list!!

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I have got a feeling either Ansh has hid somewhere in the school like the toilets or janitors room or somewhere that will be hard to find as he feels nobody loves him so why should he go home. OR is it possible that the Dubey's picked him up from his new school from a phonecall from Ansh telling them to pick him up?

In either way I have supported Yash in his war of words with Aarti but what he did with Ansh was just unfair as I was expecting Yash to ask Ansh why he is afraid to go to school and if Yash asked that he would know that Palak the meanie was scaring him. But to him just to go all guns blazing without listening to his son's inhibitions was just plain being unfair on Yash. Palak is a mini of her grandma and all i have to say to her is what comes around and goes around so Palak will get her just medicine soon enough.

I am not either Aarti or Yash's side today but on Ansh's side as he is the kid that is going through all of this ordeal due to his parent war of egos. So maybe through this whole ordeal, his parents will come to suitable decision or plan regarding him and his education.

Maybe this is the big error on Yash's part that we were waiting for that he didnt listen to Ansh in the morning and thus Ansh felt neglected and unloved by his parents therefore doesnt want to come home.When Ansh is found and tells him why he did this, then maybe it will hit Yash square in the face how wrong he was not listening to Ansh in the morning on why he didnt want to go school.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Wow what an episode today ⭐️.

Our predictions that Yash would soon eat crow wasn't that far off the mark eh? I guess that's why they didn't show a preview. To make it that much more impactful.

And you know what? I don't think its over. Palak was just a little too sweet when she told everyone that Ansh hadn't been in school all day. Don't you think the teacher would've noted his absence (and PayPal's attendance) and contacted his parents? I'm sure Ansh was at school all day, and was slowly making his way back to the car, but Palak told the driver Ansh had left. In her eyes this is just another prank, like the water incident. And so Ansh is left standing on the street, looking for the car, and calling for his mamma😭. I'm sure that Palak will be outed soon. Maybe with a phone call to the teacher? And G3 is going to be all 😕. I'm hoping that Aarti will step in once discussion of punishment comes up.
I want her to drive home the fact that, yes, she does love Ansh. But that doesn't mean there isn't room in her heart for the 2 girls. She will "make them [the children] understand" (as she always says), and this time Yash will have no choice but to stand by her decision. She's going to be a good mother to all 3. And she alone will find a solution to this mess that the Scindya's have created.

Strange as it is though, I feel for Yash. He thought he was doing what was best for Ansh. The look on his face when Aarti turned to him asking "Where is my Ansh?", was sobering. His eyes cleared up, and clouded over at the same time. First he recognized his folly, and then he was filled with guilt. His reaction to Ansh going missing was almost as sad as Aarti's. He just couldn't beleive what had happened. And he reacted with just as much concern (if not desperation). When she crumpled, he had to visibly fight against the urge to fold down next to her (and instructed SP to make that call), I was like 👏. Well done. We know one thing for sure. He will always be the calm in the storm, for her.

But Yash is wrong though. The whole Scindya house is wrong. And I'm starting to see remorse in their eyes. G3 bounced back pretty quick, but for a while there she showed concern.
I don't think any Scindya harbors any ill will against Ansh. Even Bua, for all her condescending words and attitude, was encouraging PayPal to accept Ansh as their brother yesterday. I don't think I've heard anyone else in that house say anything like that to them. The problem is that Scindya's (everyone except Prateik) disregard Aarti's feelings and words because they feel they know better for Ansh than his own mother. They are disregarding her intelligence and her connection with her own son. I'm not saying Aarti isn't being overprotective or a little obsessive, but who wouldn't be in this situation? It was clear from day 1 that G3 didn't want Ansh. She had a problem with his bathroom breaks, with his mother saying good-morning to him. Hell, she had a problem with him living with them!😲 If Aarti is to blame for her over-protectiveness, than atleast own up to the fact that there is a clear reason for it. She didn't just become like this over night. Apart from Aarti, and the 3 brothers, no one gives a shit about Ansh. And the 3 brothers are always out working.

Scindya's have asked her to trust in them. And she has. But each time she leaves Ansh into their care, something goes wrong. They do not understand Ansh. And at this point, none of them are in a place to "take care" of him. Just as Aarti needs to learn from them how to care for PayPal, they need to learn from Aarti. If Ansh objects to something there is a good reason why. And if Aarti defends him, there is also a reason why. Notice how she did not defend Ansh during the "dinner scene". She told Ansh (the next day) that that is what is to be expected when one acts the way he did. She wasn't nearly as clingy in Shobha's house, because she had no reason to be. Scindya's are all too quick to dismiss Ansh and his mother, and that alone is what led to Ansh's disappearance. PayPal are devilish to be sure, but they are not to blame. And that is exactly what Aarti will say when their little stunt is outed.

Yash was a little too quick to point out her flaws today. And I'm not liking his pattern of lecture. There are two things he now knows shuts her up. (1)that Aarti does not trust him, and (2) that she does so much for PayPal, why can't he do this one thing for Ansh? He said these things last episode too. He's "handling" her and I don't like it. I also didn't like it when Ansh was saying over and over again "mamma, tell papa I don't want to go". Because I was reminded that Aarti disagreed numerous times, but Yash said no. The look on first Aarti's, and then Yash's face, made it pretty clear that Aarti had disagreed, but that had made no difference to Yash.
He has to learn that Aarti's opinions and beliefs are to be respected every bit as much as her physical person.


Edited by Charishma - 13 years ago

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