9/5/ Dragon Club: Missing the Point - Page 16

Originally posted by: Gurtiluv

Aarti might be having second thoughts from the day Ansh got locked up. She did all this for her son to be happy and look her son ended up in depression. But if she leaves this early the only message she would be sending to her son is give up when things get to difficult. I have seen things like this happen even in first marriages evil monster in laws and children being punished/abused against their parents will this is great enough break apart families. I know Aarti is a women who does not care about society but this is her second marriage what would ppl think of her if this marriage were to also break.

@Barlin: I liked your last line a lot. That really hits the nail on the head for me. Ansh does need help because Aarti's parenting has possible negative ramifications in the future. But for now, he is five and her smothering is not too much more than what a kid of that age genuinely needs in terms of love and attention. But like you said, Palak needs immediate attention because if she is allowed to think for even a little while longer that her attitude is ok, it will be very hard to shake off! It makes sense also in the context of Yash being more concerned with the future, readying his kids for the rat race, while Aarti is more about making her child feel loved and happy in the present, without much thought for the future. They will complement each other beautifully once they communicate and work out a half-way meeting point of their respective strategies.

@Angel: AWW! That Ansh meme is precious! 😳
I think he is a good boy too! I love that you put nungu pangu Ansh for PayPal. 😆

@All: I was thinking about it and I think that Aarti did feel a little suspicious when Palak refused the water. She quickly dismissed it, but it didn't escape her notice.

Originally posted by: jikky_84

@Jyo, I agree yash always talks about Arati and her weakness regarding Ansh and over possessiveness. But don't you think, even if yash is less time at home, he observed all these in the interactions between Ansh and Aati. But does Arati observed anything like that about Yash other than what he has told her. No, so here Yash is now in presnt and out from his world but Arati is still stuck in her and Ansh world, from wher she should come out and see the present world around her.

@Jyo and Sam:Thanks! Will put it up on that thread.

I've got nothing much to say on tonight's episode. It seemed quite self explanatory and I seem to agree on everyone's point of view of 20 pages of discussion so furiously liking everything in sight!

Maybe tomorrow I will add some of my thoughts after sleep, so going to do it now. Good night everyone and happy discussion.😃😳
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@Barlin :I made the same points in previous pages ..Palak's case needs attention right now before its too late ...Ansh might b a bit spoilt because of Aarti's possessive nature but its not much harmful and can b tackled later with proper guidance but Palak's case is slowly becoming dangerous because turning a bully and plotting/scheaming at such a young age is not good ..Payal too is learning the same from Palak ,,.,,both r highly influenced by G3 and Bua because they live in their company 24/7 .....Hope Yash opens his eyes and see who exactly needs attention in the house ...

The teacher complained that Payal and Palak fight with other kids. I think in their intro scene they were shown fighting with one another. So I think their issues have always been their it more out in the open now since Ansh and Aarti are always their and they dont have a genuine bias of ignoring it. Every family would like to believe that their children are perfect. Plus they have been neglected to some extent which is probs one the main causes for Payal Palak issues.

Originally posted by: Kshiti_Kunal

not sure if we are spamming 😆 but i just read about NC passing a judicial ban over same sex marriages. They are infact going to revoke the medical benefits given to the kids adopted by same gender married partners 😕

but if it is not really with a political purpose and for re-election, Kudos to him! Sure the people next to my apartment are going to celebrate tonight. they are the most adorable couple i have ever seen and these girls have a pooch called Mowgli.. They arent married yet but may be soon...happy for them 😊

i am worried...what if yash doesn't believe that paypal where behind this...like he thinks ansh is trying to stir the pot...palak knows how to lie...

Originally posted by: USManeetian

i am worried...what if yash doesn't believe that paypal where behind this...like he thinks ansh is trying to stir the pot...palak knows how to lie...

if that happens, i want aarti to walk out!

I dont think they will drag out Ansh's torture any further. The little boy has been through so much - almost as if he is being punished for wanting a 'naye papa'. Its plain mean. The kid hasnt had a break since his mom got married..all because he is different? How unreasonable are the Scindhias? In all honesty, the CVs should stem this track now.

I think the new family of Yash Aarti needs healing after all this and most importantly, getting away from external influences. Either Papa Scindhia if he has half a head on his shoulders or maybe even Yash in his newfound authority, should suggest this. More than anything else, these 5 people need to discover each other. Yash and Aarti should collaborate and be the parents for all their kids...no amount of punishing Palak, Payal and Yash will fix this family after this incident.