9/5/ Dragon Club: Missing the Point - Page 15

I wonder how Yash and Aarti are suppose to fall in in the middle of all this chaos.

@Nikita :I agree ..Aarti suffered a lot 😭..its high time she gets some genuine peace and happiness 😭😭...I really hope after this incident ,Yash gets a reality cchk and makes honest efforts to give real happiness and peace to both Aarti-Ansh ...

@Jyoti, trying not to read too much into the CVs reacting to measly little me 😛

I think Yash is the typical bull in the China shop practising tuf love. My hubster is like that with kids, taking care of the big picture and facilitating and assuming things will fall in place. Well, they may - they just take a lot of hard work and grinding out. Aarti is great at grinding out things and not at the big picture because I think the big picture frankly scares her. The small details are more comforting. In all ways, these two complement each other.

I dont think Ansh ran away because Yash forced him to school. He reacted to Payal and Palak. he couldnt stay at home everyday - whenever he went in Palak would get him. Its not clear why though. Why does Palak hate Ansh and Aarti so much? They are very sweet to her, she has never gotten into trouble because of these two? Has she adopted mean-ness to be like her Grandma..if yes, I hope she admits to this also. That way, Gayatri can be slapped by her own grandchild.

Originally posted by: Kshiti_Kunal

Jikky,

Do you think Aarti will let him live this down? I am sure she is going to give back to him royally. right now she is just dying to find Ansh safe and sound. She really does not care for anyone and i mean anyone - even Yash at this moment.

Wait and watch! we will have Yash pleading guilty (though i dont like the pleading part) and Aarti acquiring a highhand over him.. 😉

Originally posted by: mumbaiindian911

I want to add that if all that has happened in serial till today had happened in a real life punar vivah we would have the world record of shortest punar vivah ever because mental and psychological torture on aarti ansh is too much and no real life person would have taken this lying down and man like i had said before mittals are experts in showing torture and twisted form of entertainment

@Samana and @jyoti06 Thank you for the warm welcome! :)
@Samana "But story wise, I think this points to her day coming, not so far away, a day when she will have to step in because Yash Scindia's parenting falls flat, and they will need her expertise."---Couldn't agree more!
@Jyoti I absolutely agree, Yash does have a very good point...I had issues with the way he "executed" his thoughts. :D
And Aarti's over possessive attitude,after whatever she's been through...I somehow feel she's justified.( doesn't necessarily mean she's right)
Coming to today's episode, I loved it! :D
The writers of the show just amaze me! If you have an issue today, they hint a solution tomorrow( slow process, but still a resolution is always ready). Yesterday I was concerned about Yash's way of getting a point across, today he nailed it with the "over possessive" explanation. She understood, forced herself to oblige( she still doesn't trust him, but she gave it a try!).
Major improvements:
Aarti is finally opening up!
Bottling up emotions isn't a good thing and thanks to Yash's meddling, she's finally opening up.
Perfectionist Yash has made a mistake and a grave one to say the least. I don't blame him for Ansh's escape from school, but I do blame him for being so cocky---I just hope he realizes nobody is perfect. You just can't make statements like, "aartiji mein Ansh ki responsibility leta hun, mujh par chod dijiye" and leave things incomplete. He doesn't follow up when it comes to parenting, does he? Be it with Paypal or Ansh, just laying down rules wouldn't help...following up and proper reciprocation are needed apart from many other things.

Another point I wanted to make:
We all know that Papa Scindia, Gayatri and Bua are supposed to be the antagonistic characters, but one who scares me the most is the kid- Palak?( the talkative scheming one). I do understand the obvious fact...she's just a kid who's been brought up by a bunch of weirdos. But, she is a bully! ( I apologize for being blunt, couldn't help :D) She is picking on the vulnerable and weak child, I know Ansh may not seem weak, but given the circumstances( Yash desperately trying to change him, no support from his mother and gayatri, Papa).
He already feels alienated and she's making his life miserable...That according to me is bullying!
The main reason for my fears:-
Papa, Gayatri, Bua may abuse Aarti/Ansh verbally/physically(in Ansh's case) we can still count on Yash, Prateek, Vidhi to some extent and Aarti and Yash may come to Ansh's rescue.
But, Palak's a kid and Yash has no idea, Gayatri doesn't care ( or maybe supports that kind of behaviour). The entire Scindia parivaar is so invested in pointing fingers at Ansh, none of them have the slightest idea about the gravity of this situation. If she doesn't change immediately, 3 innocent lives will be ruined forever!
Palak has influence on payal and is lying like a pro. Yash doesn't seem to be bothered with his daughters' behaviour towards Ansh. He's trying to change ansh, ansh's environment, his mother...what about his daughters? They're also part of this "Punar Vivah"...they need to warm up to Aarti and Ansh too!
According to Yash, Aarti's over possessive attitude is preventing Ansh from bonding with Scindia parivaar. What about the girls then? What or who is preventing them? He did witness their cold behavior and he chose to royally ignore it!
Aarti's over possessive nature will definitely harm Ansh's life "in the FUTURE" and Yash chose the right time to bring some changes.But, Palak is the one who is in desperate need of a drastic change "right now"!

@Jyo, I agree yash always talks about Arati and her weakness regarding Ansh and over possessiveness. But don't you think, even if yash is less time at home, he observed all these in the interactions between Ansh and Aati. But does Arati observed anything like that about Yash other than what he has told her. No, so here Yash is now in presnt and out from his world but Arati is still stuck in her and Ansh world, from wher she should come out and see the present world around her.

Aarti might be having second thoughts from the day Ansh got locked up. She did all this for her son to be happy and look her son ended up in depression. But if she leaves this early the only message she would be sending to her son is give up when things get to difficult. I have seen things like this happen even in first marriages evil monster in laws and children being punished/abused against their parents will this is great enough break apart families. I know Aarti is a women who does not care about society but this is her second marriage what would ppl think of her if this marriage were to also break.

Originally posted by: jikky_84

I am telling, she should have given him back much earlier the reality check, not this late.

Yash is already feeling guilty, and we have seen he is a person who can go to any extend to rectify a mistake, like the toy gun issue.

I don't want him to be made feel drastically guilty and make him feel that his decision on Ansh was completely wrong, that can have other issues, like him trying to go away from Arati and Ansh thinking that he is not the right father for Ansh.

I wnat this as a wake up call for Yash regarding PayPal importantly. Because, here he is trying to bond 3 children not properly understanding them and their issues. What his intension is right, that is to bond the children but he has to slightly alter the ways not completely.