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jyoti06 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago

@Mira :Actually last friday Yash tells Gayatri that he will take Ansh's responsibility to discipline him ...then overnight he changes Ansh's school and puts him in PayPal's school without even telling about it to Aarti ..so well Aarti opposes but Yash goes his way out to justify his stand by saying that he did this for Ansh's betterment ...he also says how Aarti is overposessive and all and so she needs to allow Ansh to walk on his own ,let him fall but then he will learn ..so this way Yash takes Ansh ka charge but in a more mechanical way of discipline which Aarti does not approve of ...

Ansh does not want to go to his new school because he was aware of PayPal upto some plotting but Yash forcibly sends Ansh to school and then he goes missing
So this incident is a wake up call for Yash in a way ...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: mumbaiindian911

I know this is a tv serial but judging from the analysis over here it seems more injustice and torture await ansh but my point is despite all this being fiction what is the need to show emotional torture of a chid in the name of the story and what would be psychological effect on the boy playing ansh as he seems too young to understand things and cant really switch off on from character

If the outcome of this whole drama is positive then I guess this whole incident can send out the right msg to all those parents who might b trying too hard to discipline their kids and in the process sending them to depression like Ansh ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
Is it okay if I share my excitement about something totally unrelated to PV?

Americans on this forum and really for anyone interested...

President Obama has just made a statement endorsing same-sex marriage! This is history in the making my friends! A major major major step forward for civil liberties!
👏 👏 👏

i just finished posting on all my usual social media haunts and had to share here too...
Sorry if this is considered inappropriate...If it is let me know, and I'll edit this post.

Thanks!

Mira




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Posted: 13 years ago
Omygoodness!! What an epi!!
Uff the way Yash was forcefully making Ansh go to school .. especially picking him up from his arms .. I've seen that happen SO many times and everytime I cringe. It just isn't good at ALL to force a kid to do anything. Ansh was crying .. he wasn't throwing a tantrum .. he was crying and scared.. they should've asked what was wrong. But Yash thought he was just being ziddi and was just scared of going to school plus he wanted to prove to Aarti that his parenting ways were right. Clearly not.
His bhashan to Aarti about how to handle Ansh was right and wrong. Sure it is good to let him be independent .. since that's the only way he'll let go of Aarti and discover things himself.. but coming in a new environment .. obviously Aarti would be extra careful about him. And it's not easy for EVERY child to adjust to new surroundings.. Yash is 'missing that point' and the title of this DC suggests.
I felt for Ansh so badly.. the way he kept saying he doesn't want to go because he knew PayPal were upto no good .. uff the child must've been so scared with not even his own mother to fall back on.
PayPal are two evil lil tricksters aren't they!? Mini Gayatri's 😳 They gain such PLEASURE with Ansh's insecurities and problems.. it's frightening. Yash better PULL UP HIS SOCKS and start disciplining them. It's funny how this house drives on 'discipline' yet the children are the ones to have the least of it. They're such sweet sugary kids in front of elders but behind closed doors -- *shudders*.
Pari's RJ career.. I see major trouble in the horizon because Pari cannot be 'in her room' her entire life.. and looks like SP is a man whose anger is feared.. so I look fwd to see the day he blows when he finds out that Pari has gone back to her job. How will Gaya3 handle him then? =)
And then Ansh goes missing!! Well ain't that awesome! And that stupid driver KNOWS he's missing and just comes home with PayPal .. what a baffoon!! Glad Yash warned him.
But the highlight of the episode for me was the attack of the Mama Bear -- Aarti. Man.. the saying is mighty true that when a Mother Bear's cubs are in danger.. you will surely feel her wrath .. she ain't gonna rest until her kid is safe! Loved Aarti taking a stand and telling off Yash and Gaya3. It surely is Yash's fault .. because Aarti was proposing that she make Ansh understand the importance of school .. perhaps that's when Ansh could've confided in her that he's afraid of PayPal .. but NO .. Yash just had to show his parenting skills right then. And Gaya3's stupid mouth never closes and she proposes that Aarti sit at home worried sick while the two men go searching for her child. PSSHYYEAA RIGHT!! She must be delusional.
Precap: OH DEAR! That woman's intentions don't seem right. And Ansh .. look at the poor child .. he's sweating because of the extreme heat .. and looks extremely exhausted from shouting for his Mumma 😭 .. I hope that woman doesn't do something wrong with him .. perfect opportunity for her to take him away .. but this is surely going to wake Yash up from this delusional state this parenting involves separating the responsbilities of the kids and forcing kids to do things because that's how they'll learn .. NO Mr. Yash Scindia .. that's NOT how it goes down! 👎🏼
Other than that .. fantastic episode. We are finally getting some meaty discussions happening between AarYa and some really dynamic situations that they're put in so that they can display their reason for this marriage -- providing the love of a mother and father to their kids.
Z
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: narangi_77

Is it okay if I share my excitement about something totally unrelated to PV?


Americans on this forum and really for anyone interested...

President Obama has just made a statement endorsing same-sex marriage! This is history in the making my friends! A major major major step forward for civil liberties!
👏 👏 👏

i just finished posting on all my usual social media haunts and had to share here too...
Sorry if this is considered inappropriate...If it is let me know, and I'll edit this post.

Thanks!

Mira





not sure if we are spamming 😆 but i just read about NC passing a judicial ban over same sex marriages. They are infact going to revoke the medical benefits given to the kids adopted by same gender married partners 😕
but if it is not really with a political purpose and for re-election, Kudos to him! Sure the people next to my apartment are going to celebrate tonight. they are the most adorable couple i have ever seen and these girls have a pooch called Mowgli.. They arent married yet but may be soon...happy for them 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jikky_84

@ Samana, he should have given the credit to Arati for knowing Ansh better but still she also didn't properly asked him what was the reason thet he don't want to go to school.


Yash made Ansh dress forcefully because, Arati told him let Ansh not go to school today, that was wrong. If PayPal tomorrow also scare Ansh, will he not go to school?...and how many days like this.

There is Arati's problem, she in her love for Ansh forgets to deal with the actual problem. She has the habit of saying yes to everything Ansh says.If she will little bit start saying No, then others will start saying Yes to Ansh.

Yash didn't even bother to ask about the problem because, he thought its just like any other usual case, there he went wrong with his decision.



@bold 1: She did ask him. She said yesterday you told your papa that you would go to school, what happened? But he is too emotional and worked up to get the proper sentiments out. He is only able to get out that he doesn't want to go. And she read his fear as legitimate because she knows him, and knows he is not a kid who wants to miss school.

@bold 2: I don't think Aarti's idea to let Ansh stay home one day was bad. My parents did that when we first moved to India from the US. In the first month or so, they left it totally up to us whether we wanted to go to school and on days where we just weren't up to it, they let it be, but helped us with whatever problem we felt like we were having. So Aarti's idea didn't seem bad to me at all. She is overindulgent but this is a sensitive space in which I think it is better to be safe than sorry...and boy are they sorry now! Ansh missed school anyway but with much more horrendous results.

And yes, Ansh will continue to resist going to school until PayPal lay the heck off. And I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. He is scared and legitimetely so because the girls have proven themselves in this area. They will follow through when they scare. Yash needs to first of all acknowledge and then deal with the issue at its source, Palak. Until he does that no amount of discipline and force will make Ansh ready to go to school.

I agree that it is partially Aarti's problem but I feel that she is being overprotective of Ansh and overly vocal because nobody listens to her and it is becoming a vicious cycle.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Okay, all caught up with PV the last few days and looks like just when I decided to stop, they decided to zoom (nothing personal I am sure)

My thoughts about the episode today given all that happened the last few: Yash is awake now. He wants to take charge of Ansh, knows something is wrong with Ansh's situation and wants to change it all in a day. he has figured out the new school with Palak and Payal is panacea. He has not bothered to look at the details of such an arrangement. His idea is finally in teh direction that makes sense. Kids should bond, they should be in the same school, treated equally but just as he lectured to Ansh yesterday, these things take time. He has to be patient with Aarti and Ansh. Yash will not be their best friend in one day, he will be slowly. Kudos to him for trying. He has a strange equation with Aarti..he wants to do things for her and not with her. He will not collaborate with her because he is yet to accept her as his wife but has this urge to be the agent of change in her life that he will do a lot of things for her and Ansh.

Aarti is resisting all change all the time and considering that this is the season of change, she is in absolute turmoil. I absolutely love Aarti's honesty with everything. if she is thinking of Ansh when chopping veggies, she will admit to it. Very child like and guileless. Imagine this trait when she falls in love with Yash and is chopping vegetables, I wonder if she will admit to MIL - main woh yashji ke baare mein fantasize kar rahi thi...


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Posted: 13 years ago
My heart goes out to Ansh... Man I can totally relate to the kid today 😭... School is tough and even tougher when you have no friends or anyone to trust there... Not even a teacher...

As for Payal and Palak... Yash better realise they are the ones that have caused all of this... I was mad at Yash for not punishing them for what they did to Ansh on his first day of school but today they took it too far😡

As for Aarti... the poor girl she has gone through enough these past few weeks a marriage, new household, prashants heart break again, the lies the Dubey's told, Dubey dad's harsh words, MIL harshness, Ansh's punishment, her previous thoughts about Yash and Ansh is her one bright spot, she is still functioning cause of Ansh, no one has realised this he kept her going and is her reason for living, if anything happened to him she would shatter, he is the only person she has ever been able to call her own, I mean she was an orphan so the attachment to Ansh might be too much but its the only thing that she has and the only thing that matters to her and if the Sinhdya's realised this is would be better because imagine if something happened to Payal or Palak what would Yash's state be like I mean they are Arpi's last memories for him... Why the double standards when it comes to Aarti and Yash?
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Mira :Woww this is grt news and achievement 👏👏..Obama made quite a bold decision thus giving equal rights to even the minority ones 👏👏👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Mira: I just read about that! i am stoked! And Kshiti, actually making a statement like that hurts his odds in the election (believe it or not) but he did it anyway, which is part of what makes it so commendable. Good for him!

Trying not to think about NC. 😡

@Z: Loved your take! Yes, Yash was way over the top today. As I just said, I don't think keeping Ansh home from school for one day to understand and process his fears would have been such a bad idea. Gayatri was willing to let him skip school because there was no car...was Yash aware of that? And when Aarti wants to keep him back for legitimate reasons he attacks her parenting. My main problem is that Yash is operating from an abyss of ignorance.


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