22/3 Analysis Unit :Aarti's Real Identity.. - Page 14

Originally posted by: InduG64

As for your second point, even if they try to pull off that stunt, they'll have to face Yash, who is very much aware how close Ansh is to his mother and how much the kiddo is looking out for his papa.[/DIV]

Originally posted by: kunataanya

is he really aware? i haven't seen him pay that much attention to ansh... i don't think he's given the fact that he's going to get a step son that much attention yet... i don't blame him.. he's still wrapping his head around the fact that he's getting married again.

Originally posted by: InduG64

<< Is it so easy for us to actually forget the first love and move on instantly🤔 ... we all know Yash and Aarti will eventually move on because the show is basically trying to prove this myth wrong that true love can happen only once or in life second chances dont work ...the purpose of the show is to project that true love can happen second time as well ...giving second chance to life is no sin especially when its destiny's wish😃 ...but the process of moving on from first phase of life to second phase is the most difficult step for a person and thats what the drama is trying to show by capturing every minute details of the complexities that one goes through in such situations 😳...>>

@Jyoti: Well said and so aptly put dear friend.

OK. Let me narrate a short anecdote: When my son was in Class I, we were transferred. My son created a ruckus, throwing the worst tantrum possible that he didn't want to leave this school and go to a new one. When he was calm enough, I asked him whether the idea of leaving his friends behind was troubling him. He looked straight at me and said, "No, but Shilpa ma'am won't be there." And suddenly all those little cards he made for her and the happiness that he exuded when he got an "Excellent" or "Very Good" from her in his CW/HW made sense. My little son was in love. That was years ago. My son is all grown up now. But ask him who was your favourite teacher in primary, and the answer is prompt, "Shilpa Ma'am." What makes him cling on to that memory? Even though he has a sweet girl for a girlfriend.

Moral of the story is first loves are hard to let go; they will always remain in your heart, to be remembered fondly later, even as some other comes and occupies that place. We love by association. Yash and Ararti have not "associated" yet. Their individual personalities have not collided yet; once the collision happens, then only foundation of a new universe will be laid. And then only the reality of their personal mirages will descend on them, and they will be able to cut through their biggest fear and realize that they don't have to forget to move on.

Shucks, I'm such a romantic. By the way I love to seem my son blush when I tease him about "her."😃

Originally posted by: jikky_84

Completely agree with you" they don't have to forget to move on"

But it will take them so time to understand this, they don't have to forget their first love. But they will create a new love story.

Originally posted by: InduG64

Exactly Jikky. They'll create a new story without forgetting the first one. All they need is to interact and feel and be open to the new dynamics. It'll be a very slow process, considering the intensity and passion with which they have loved. Once that passion is rechannelised, things will start to move in the positive direction.