22/3 Analysis Unit :Aarti's Real Identity..

Dont forget to catch the SBS/SBB segments on Yash and Pratik's Bachelar Party where the ladies gatecrash and then Yash picks Aarti in his arms to save her from embarassment 😳😳 ..here is the link to SBS/SBB Details and also IBN7 Segment 😳

Wrote the Analysis with wet eyes 😭 No! The Epi wasn't bad...But the match today made me CRY 😭 The ending was soo emotional & heart -wrenching! 😭

Shobha ji is super-woman!!👏 A complete powerhouse & an inspiration to millions of M-I-L's but how could she expect Gayatri to have aurat ki bhawnaao ka maan?😡 And her dialogue'"Aaj baat nazi hue to deer ho jaayegi!"😃 Excellent!⭐️ She knows what exactly she wants for her D-I-L! Dubey ji was reluctant Shobha talking to Scindiyas about name change'🥱This is the section where the CV's have played a phenomenal role!👏 Contradiction in characters wherever possible😳. Both the elder couples are shown contrasting & distinct!⭐️ BRAVO!👏

I loved it when Shobha told the Scindiyas that she'd be a good Bahu,Maa,Wife even without changing the name! 😳

Today was the first time when Papa Scindiya really displeased me!😡 Ridiculous on his part to call Dubey's request "ulti ganga"😡. And changing the name is 'chhotti si baat' for him?😡 So Papa Scindiya thinks his son is doing Aarti an ehsaan by coloring her sepia life,by giving her new identity,by giving Ansh's his name!🥱 Is he the same guy who talked 'badi-badi' baatein in sagan?😡 And Kaunse ghar ka riwaaz hai ye? 😡What shraddha?😡 And yea! Shobha ji said it right, Changing name is still ok but assuming Arpita's name who is still relevant in Yash's memories ain't cool! 👎🏼

And Scindiya shouting on Shobha "Nahi samjhti varna aisi baat nahi karti" , "Behas khatam" Damn! The scene left me stunned!😲

Why are Scindiya too willing to please Arpi's parents??? Kuchh loch hai! 😉

Scindiya were too cold today! Ok Ladke waale are dominating in nature but not to THIS extent! 😲

Vidhi-Pankaj! No words for them. They are amazing.👏

Vidhi understanding Aarti's pain & assuring her that everything would be fine just be tension free was cute! 😳

Aarti should at least smile & try to gel with people who are being nice to her. Why such gloomy looks to Vidhi-Paridhi? 😡

Scindiya's brothers are one of the main ASS-ets of the show.😆 Its amazing to see three brothers gelling with each other without any selfishness & ego! And Pankaj's dialogues', "Bachelor ek din ke liye" , "Vidhi got 2-2 assistants" lol😆

Really fresh & creative!😳

Today's episode made me realize the significance of Vidhi-Pankaj & Paridhi's name!

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/punar-vivah/2883430/the-characters-names-significance-updated-on-pg-7

Vidhi refers to the Goddess of Destiny & usually means 'manner'. How it relates to her is that her character moulds itself according to everybody's wishes & aspirations. She balances with others' & her own notions!👏

Pankaj ⭐️

Really a significant name! 😳Briefly the name is a synonym of Lotus flower which is considered as a very special flower specially in hinduism where it indicates Truth, Beaty & Auspiciousness (Satyam,Shivam & Sundaram)😳

The lotus also extends a more spiritual meaning.😳 It blooms in the morning and withdraws its petals in the night. This behaviour of the flower brings to light the fact that one's mind blooms with the illumination of spiritual knowledge and cringes without it. Further more the flower blossoms in slushy areas sustaining its purity and despite its surroundings. This reminds one to remain pure and beautiful under all circumstances.

The lotus leaf is often allegorically used in the Hindu scriptures. The flower though thrives in water, its leaf never gets wet. This symbolises the nature of a Jnani or a realised person who is ever blissful, untouched by the sorrows and the changes which is characteristic of the world.😳

The Vietnamese have a saying, "Growing in the mud, yet not smelling of the mire"😳, refers to this idea almost as though the plants and flowers have separate natures. We as humans are aware of our duel natures. The struggle of rising from our backgrounds and experiences towards doing good and not doing good is very real.😳

Pankaj lives in a family filled with hypocrites still he is unaffected with hypocrisy! Really an apt name!👏

Paridhi : The name means circumference/ Limit. The name basically indicates balance but it has some ironical part with it. Paridhi is out of her Paridhi in Scindia's eyes 😉

And...How funny was that : Servant grumbling about his 'sahibs' to their would-be-wives! lol Loved how Paridhi ki sitti bitty was gull after finding about the bachelor party!😆

Aaawweee their dresses were lovely 😳& I loved how Paridhi acted !!! 👏

The precap made me nostalgic😭'..damn nostalgic!😭😭😭

I don't think I have ever had such an emotionally charged half an hour in all my years! 😳

I went from pity and disgust at the blackmail on Yash to overflowing joy at Shobha's declaration and her silent trampling of her husband's spineless protests to vesuvian rage at Scindia Sr.'s speech to bawling my eyes out at the scene with the three brothers. I am so serious I haven't cried so much for a character since Anjali left college before her final exams because Rahul didn't love her back. 😭😭

What struck me is that Arpita's mother made sense, solely from her perspective, in a really warped way. She believed that with this new wife and mother for Yash and his children, Arpita would be gradually forgotten and as she is their child, she was not only hers but her parents' identity as well. So in a way they are trying to preserve their identity and their relationship to Yash, Payal and Palak by preserving Arpita's name. But what they don't understand is that Yash truly will never forget Arpita. She will always be alive to him as his first love and the mother of his children. It broke my heart when he tried to convince them of this saying that Arpita was in his every breath so how could he separate her form them? GC was simply outstanding in today's episode and this scene was just the beginning. I love how when they told him he would forget her there was denial but there was also fear. This was such a genuine reaction from someone grieving for a person they swore to love for all eternity but whom they lost before eternity could even begin!

It was so wonderful to see the Shobha of the first episode back in action. I loved her strong speech to Aarti and her withering looks to her husband's protests. She silenced him with merely a look because I think with the whole divorce lie she has taken on something that was very hard for her in the form of this lie and though she does convince herself that they are doing right by Aarti by telling this lie, she doesn't believe it deep down in her heart. This lie and the fact that she thinks Aarti found out about it by proxy has already upset her for all the damage it could have done to their relationship and I feel like she will take it no more. They have already hidden part of Aarti's identity with the widow lie and now again, she is losing more of herself with the name change. Come to think of it, her name is probably the only thing Aarti has from her birth parents.

BUT then there is Scindia Sr. who seems to like seeing the world his way and his way alone and telling people what they ought to do and think. For the first time today we saw his true colours. And be does believe in all this ladkiwale/ladkewale stuff and by no means considers them equal. How Aarti stayed silent is beyond me as I would have told him that my zindagi was plenty full of rang and even if it wasn't I wouldn't want his oppressive, second hand rang in it anyway!

But I was impressed with Shobha. She exuded class in this sequence. She knows she couldn't go in all guns blazing because this is the sensitive issue of a rishta and the marriage had already come so far. She does still want this to work and so is the picture of poise and politeness. But the Scindias are not over their own egos and Scindia doesn't even let Shobha get a word in edgewise! 😡😡 This is the mark of coward who leaves the field before his opponent can respond and uses his power without responsibility. Why the hypocrisy? Aren't Arpita's parents ladkiwale too? Why are the Scindias trying to hard to make them happy. This brings us back to yesterday's discussion. And Shobha hit the nail on the creepy head when she said it is not about

BUT neither of them have agreed to this name change. That is the comfort. Also, Vidhi brought up an excellent point. Is it more important for Aarti/Shobha to drive the principle in or is it important for Aarti to just keep her name in the long run? Can Aarti forgo the principle for the eventual result to be what she wanted anyway? In any case Vidhi said the magic word for Shobha, Yash, which can convince her of anything just like "Ansh" works magic (like the Imperious Curse!) on Aarti.

Hoo boy and now to the brothers. This was the most touching and emotional scene of the show yet. Like I said, I balled my eyes out starting from when Prateek was talking about how Arpita and Yash had planned to dance at his wedding (oh crap I am tearing up again!). This was so emotional for me because it spoke of all the tiny little dreams, let alone the big ones, that Yash and Arpita had together that would never come true. I love the storywriters, the screenplay writers, the director and GC for making me feel the intense pain of this character and his situation.

And I also loved Pankaj's lecture. It really gave Yash a different perspective on Aarti and made this not just about him and protecting Arpita but about the girl who was sacrificing so much just by agreeing to marry him. And then Prateek sort of lived up to my very early analysis about him that he didn't want to get married before Yash because he couldn't stand being happy in the face of his brother's loneliness. Deep down he knows that he is all that Yash has as far as companionship goes and it was very considerate of him not to make any changes to the family after Arpita's death so Yash didn't have to lose anything else. I love the contrast we see when we get glimpses into Prateek's character. Deep down he is a sensitive and mature man who can't stand to see his brother in this permanent state of grief. (here come the water works again!)

And Yash, responds in turn, not being able to see HIS brother unhappy and puts on a smile just for him, even though that is the hardest thing for him to do at this moment. And then just as I was descending from dignified tears into outright sobbing, Prateek said "BACHELOR PARTY!" with that huge mischievous grin and the look on Yash's face made me burst out laughing! My mom thought I had gone absolutely crazy, which, well, I had. 😃 I love that congruous flow between them talking so seriously about matters of such depth to joking around about bhabhi's reaction to the BP. It shows they have really strong understanding where they can just switch lanes and the other two will understand.

I loved that hand grab at the end as well. Yash hesitates but also made the promise to try and be happy, if only for others at this moment.

Now excuse my while I go off cry another river. 😭😭😭
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All of us were wondering that day when they showed the marriage signboard outside the resort ... we were wondering why Yash's name was fully there but Aarti's name was just half there as "Aa".

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

Res. for girl power! 😃

I want these Scindias to be shown their place by both their son and honewali DIL. Go Aarti

Edit:

I am disappointed in this whole name change thing, even if the characters behaved according to their characters. I wanted Yash to tell his parents where he could get off, and Shobha to be the strong lady and say "just 'cause you say it's a small thing, doesn't mean it really is and I don't agree to your reasoning". If, big if, Daddy Scindia had told them that is was just a formality to make Arpita's parents feel better, but that they didn't really expect Aarti to go around answering to Arpita's name, then maybe (I still wouldn't except it) but maybe I would not think badly of the Scindias, but both Mom and Dad have totally gone off a cliff for me. The only saving grace in the situation is that I know Aarti will not actually end up being called Arpita, as that would be too creepy. What I do hope is that the Cvs actually bring this thing to a logical conclusion at some point, and not get amnesia.

So, I don't really want to talk about Yash or Aarti in the coming bachelor's party. I will save that for when the scenes actually air and I can see the whole picture of how they behave. What I do want to talk about is something that I've been thinking since the SBS/SBB segment spoilers came out today. Someone, and I don't remember who it was so please speak up, suggested that Mansi and Prateek might have an affair later on when he and Paridi start having problems in their marriage. What I am wondering if it is not Prateek, but Pankaj who Mansi might have an affair with.

We all know that both Pankaj and Mansi are feeling neglected by their spouses, though the neglect and their reactions to it are very different. Also, out of the wedding party, they are the only two who are attending the bachelor's party without their respective spouses. Pankaj seems to be on the verge of a midlife crisis, and Mansi is such a big flirt, that I could see something happening between them, especially if Mansi becomes a regular visitor at Scindia Mansion. If the Cvs go this way, I don't know if they would go with a full fledged affair, or just a serious flirtation, but I think it would open up a lot of interesting tracks.

How would Aarti feel if her best friend becomes a difficulty in her new bhaiya/bhabhi's marriage? How would the Scindia's react towards Aarti, since Mansi would only be involved with their family through her connection to Aarti?
What effect would this scenario have on Yash and Aarti's relationship, whatever stage it is in at that point?
Is this just a wild prediction, or is it something that will really happen?

i really hope Aarti says NO!!!!

Yash's family need a mental treatment 😡

Why the hell Shobha and Aarti can't refuse this marriage where an identity has no respect, it's not like that she will die without...


Very frustrating that they shut their mouth.. It felt like that they don't have self respect... So annoying...

I understand Yash thought most about Arpita as he is in such situation and he didn't thought at all about Aarti and her identity, etc... But Aarti has full right to refuse, they r not doing ihsaan on her for second marriage, being her married before is not a crime, even their son had been married before, Why so unfair between son and daughter? No wonder their widow daughter feels down as their behaivours to put women down is so annoying... The way Yash's father also put his wife Gaytri down all time aur woh bhi infront others show that he has no respect for women's feelings or being... Sorry to say, but it's like I want to throw all kind gaalia on this mental family...