22/3 Analysis Unit :Aarti's Real Identity.. - Page 10

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: angake

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I don't think the hockey stick Aarti is lost but she is certainly overwhelmed by everything that's happening around her and at the pace with which it is happening. Today Aarti's silence bothered me too. But then I thought what could she do at this precise moment.

1) If she walks out on this marriage, she would probably break Ansh's heart because she just took the person he has started idolizing as his father from his life.

2) She could have gone and talked to Yash about it. But then she has no faith in him, she in completely uncomfortable with him, she has no clue what kind of person he is except this vague idea that he will be a good father to Ansh. So why would she think Yash would understand her or see her point of view.

3) Yes she very well could have stated her pov to papa and mama Scindia but then again she would be risking so much. She is a mother who would do anything for her son. So if the Scindia's pulled out of the marriage because of Aarti's outburst the result would again be the same. Ansh would lose the only man he has come to consider as his father and he would never forgive Aarti for it.

It is a difficult situation. I am not defending Aarti at all. In fact I wanted her to take her hockey stick and give a piece of her mind to Papa Scindia. I am just trying to see what a woman in her position with all her insecurities and baggage must have felt at that moment.

@melodiousdreams. I completely agree with you my friend.



She can't be blamed for being silent here.. It was a completely overwhelming and unpredictable situation to be in.. and yes as you say, she is in this just for Ansh, and saying or doing anything that could jeopardize the future that she is trying to give him is something that she or anyone else in her situation would do...

The character of Aarti, started off as being one who was a self confident single mother, who was raising her son on her own just fine.. Circumstances have changed, but asking her to let go of her name and her identity was a step too far.. To anyone else - read the Scindia family- Aarti's name might not have mattered much, for they see in her just a nanny for Yash's children.. But to Aarti and the Dubey's it mattered. And though Papa Dubey was unwilling, I am glad that Shobha took Daddy Scindia to task.. At this point in time, maybe that was the most that could be done..

I just hope, with time Aarti's silence reduces.. The Scindia's need a reality check - which now only their two new daughters-in-law can give them.. They have written off Aarti as a good for nothing charity case, and are treating her as such, and they think Paridhi is someone who can be tamed and tied down to house and hearth. Their misconceptions are something that they will truly come to regret. More importantly as a person, Aarti should find her comfort zone and learn to thrive in it.. Shobha is not going to be there all the time with her, to egg her to fight for herself.. Gayatri and that bua will make life hell for both and Ansh as it is.. She needs to learn to fight these crazy Scindia's, if not for herself, but for Ansh..


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hai Ram Analysis unit after hours! 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

@Borna and Angake : About Aarti's silence in current scenario ,I agree she is not getting the scope to voice out her opinion in front of so many elderly figures ...

but my issue is why Aarti cant try to sort out her pending issues with Yash in alone ...She is a strong lady and knows self-defence well ..so why cant she meet Yash in alone and clear out all her doubts before marriage ??
She has made lots of assumptions regarding Yash thanks to Mansi ka brainwashing act ...but she never bothered to clear it out with Yash even now ..why ??
I hope after bachelar party at least she confronts Yash and tells him directly about why she is marrying him and what she expects from him after marriage regarding touch issue and secondly she is not changing her name ..thats it

I'm thinking that the craziness of the shaadi rituals may be one way to justify the reason for them not meeting up privately to talk things out...I honestly don't know why Yash isn't taking the first step in clearing things up - he's probably too lost wallowing in his memories of Arpita to spare Aarti a second thought as it is, and now even though Pankaj brought up the possibility of Aarti being thought of as a human being and not a mannequin, this bachelor party wouldn't have provided a chance for the two of them to meet...Let's see what happens in the next episode. I know most of us want them to clear the air quickly and efficiently, but neither Aarti nor Yash seems motivated to do so apparently, and I can't really fault them for this. They did try to talk, remember? That night in the rain...Destiny had other plans, so I'm just going to go with the flow and not stress about it 😆
Question, though: What would all the elders think about Yash-Aarti meeting in private at this point of time? Would they approve of it? Something in me says that they wouldn't, regardless of the intention...😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Uncensoredship after few hours kya? 😆


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zee_News

Uncensoredship after few hours kya? 😆


Actually totally besharam!😆😆😆😆😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Melodiousdreams - I donno about the Dubey's but the Scindia's definitely will start acting Schizo if they do manage to meet..

But yes that is a way to justify their not meeting/not talking.. And I can understand why Aarti literally runs in the other direction, when faced with the task of talking to Yash.. Unfortunately and circumstantially all her misconceptions about Yash have been proven boderline-right.. But she is in too deep to question her choice/options at this point of time. She'd rather run away now, and then face the consequences later, than face him now, and have her fears realised!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanda12


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Actually totally besharam!😆



This is nothing, u haven't seen our eheem eheem discussions in devils den 😆, note eheem eheem is my code there for u know, but it's limited for the couple in his pervious show lol 😳

Hum badnaam hue, dono ke liye 😭



Edited by Zee_News - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samanalyse



Welcome to...

Analysis Unit: After Hours 😈

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Sorry for DQ...but
Like they call restaurant hours here in U.S.A...

Analysis Unit: HAPPY HOURS... 😃 😈
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Posted: 13 years ago
@All :After late night ,when all r tired of serious discussions ,all let loose and censorship goes for a toss 😈😆😆😆😆
With bachelar party tomorrow ,I can already imagine the condition of tomorrow's thread right from the start 😆😆😆
@Borna :Yash too can take the first step to confront Aarti and talk to her ..I agree with u on this point 👍🏼...but since Aarti is hving the major doubts on Yash's character and not vice versa ,so I feel the need to confront a person and clear out the doubts before marriage should hv been more in Aarti na 🤔...
Yes right now with so much of crowd in the resort ,its difficult to meet in alone ..but earlier she could hv asked him to meet somewhere and sorted out all issues ...Yash did try from his end calling her up at night ,but unfortunately both got trapped in that police mess 😆 but from Aarti's end she never tried ...and this is one of the issues I hv regarding Aarti ...
I m expecting her to confront Yash at least after the bachelar party ...she will get the opportunity to talk to him in alone when all his other brothers will b busy on dance floor na 😉😆😛

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