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Posted: 13 years ago
New Promo :

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bC7qrF085Ng[/YOUTUBE]


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Posted: 13 years ago
Hello Analysts... 🤗... Catched the epi late night ... so blabbering now... 😆
PS: I seriously have not gone over the first wo pages... If you feel you have a reasoning for my pachar pachar.. do tell me the page no. and i will see... 😳
OK W*F Was that... 🤢
I have known people in real life from certain communities where people change the new DIL's name after wedding... ...But never seen they compell to change it... like the elder in-laws prefer their new given name but never force the hubby if he wants to call her with her real name or if outsiders do so... 👍🏼
BUT giving the second wife the first wife's name??? 🤢...My question to Gayatri is --- would you have followed your so called "custom" if Arpita had divorced your son and left him??? 🤪 😡...Get a life lady... 😵...I felt bad when Paridhi had ignored her during the Aarti but she does deserve an open minded independent DIL like Paridhi to get her out of these so called orthodox/hypocritic beliefs... 😈
I must applaud the Mittals for bringing this name changing social issue out in front and how a woman goes through it when asked to forget her "pehchaan" ... 👏... Finally I personally was happy as the Gundi Hockey waali Aarti was back... 😛 ... Go Aarti Go... 😈
But on the other hand I did not like the idea of dragging Arpita's mom into all this chaos... 😳... It does not look realistic to me that a mother wants to give her deceased child's name to someone who is practically her "sautan"? 🤔...
Please I do not mean to say in-laws think like that when their SIL or DIL go for a second wedding post their child's death, But it is wierdly absurd to give aarti; Arpita's name who according to the outside world (heck includes us) will slowly replace Arpita's (her daughter's) existence as a wife and mother in the future...when Yash falls in love with her and all
... 🤪 😛.. Like off course he will never forget Arps but surely won't miss her and brood like he does now when he falls for Aarti? 😳
And what was with the lame reasoning in precap to yash that he has daughters as Arps ki nishaani but what about them??? ... Like is Aarti going to stay with you guys is the purpose of renaming her as ur daughter... 🤣 ??? What a Lame Comparison... ! 😡 ... this would have made better sense if they had shown the parents living with Yash in a way like Aarti stays with Dubey... then i don't think even Aarti would have minded if the Arps ki mom preferred her as Arpita as it would be an emotional satisfaction to the mom ... 😳... But changing her name with all Band baaja baraat AND applying it to everyone... 🤢
GC ...GC...GC... 😍 ☺️...Ufff... Love you is all i would say... 😎
Prateek... Why did they not show prateek the jasoos telling Yash abt this problem when he did earlier abt gayatri not wanting Ansh to be with aarti?? 🤔...but well it was justified when Yash blasts him abt hiding this matter as indirectly it highlights that Yash knows Prateek will tell him everything which needs his attention and is good for him... 👍🏼
PS: Can they cut on the Drama music they play when a shocker is thrown to the audience... 😳... I was literally going... 😵...with that BG music during Aarti getting shocked abt her name change drama... 🤣
PLEASE YASH do not relent to your MIL's Blackmail today... 😡 😆
Edited by CraziestGurtian - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Ohh thanks for the promo!! Why do I get the feeling the older scindia's will tell something like what pehchaan does she have/need? Her pehchaan will be that of Yash's wife, the second DIL of this family - Arpita.. How creepy is that.. 🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: angake

Please do jump right in sns23, the more the merrier. :)


I have more than one bone to pick up with Dubeys. Especially so with Papa Dubey (Satyendra Dubey). I have no doubts that the Dubeys love Aarti but for Papa Dubey, his wish to marry Aarti off was more atoning for his son's sins than anything else, in my opinion. My reasons for this is that:


1) He wanted to agree to Scindia's condition of Ansh not being part of the package. It was Shobha who desisted.


2) He was the one who readily agreed to and coaxed Shobha to keep Aarti's divorcee status under wraps.


Shobha too wants to atone for her son's sins in a way but I think for her first and foremost it is important to find a person with all the characteristics Prashant should have had but in the end did not. She has found that in Yash and I hope that Yash lives up to her blind belief in him.


As for thinking about repercussions, yes this is my biggest beef with them.

They of all people should know that time necessarily need to be a healer. They of all people should know how brittle relationships can be when based on such a big lie. I mean, Prashant and Aarti fell in love with each other still that relationship did not stand the test of time. Then how can they have such blind belief in Yash who they just have a gut feeling that he is a man of good character. How can they blindly believe that Aarti and Yash two people who are so broken will be able to face the test if the lie comes out. Shobha does mention it that Aarti will never be able to survive if she goes through a second broken relationship. Then they should have never ever have put Aarti in such a position where there is even a tiny probability of such a thing happening.


But all said and done I can't help but admire and love Shobha for what she must be going through with respect to her feelings as a mother to Aarti and her feelings as a mother to Prashant. Yesterday's scene between Aarti and Shobha was phenomenal. Their eyes spoke volumes.



Thank you😊😊😊..
Papa Dubey's motive always looked fishy to me.. His urgency in getting Aarti married - and all that he did to get her married- hiding her divorcee status and even going as far as to accept the Scindia's condition- just gives me the feeling that he wants to be done with the whole thing.. Atone for Prashant's mistakes in the process - subconsciously lifting the guilt of Prashant's betrayal from his mind so that in the future - he will be able to bring Prashant back into their life.. After all, he is his son, and all said and done, in his mind, he would have more than made up for what sins his son committed - by giving Aarti and Ansh a better future, a better partner and father than Prashant could have given and have ever been for the both of them..

But I really like the relationship between Shobha and Aarti, and you can truly feel that Shobha genuinely cares about Aarti, there is no farce, no guilt nothing that is holding these two together - just love and respect.. She should have clarified with Aarti once atleast that she was ok with what they did.. But anyways, one can only hope that when the truth does come out, the Dubey's will bear their share of responsibility in this whole mess.. Shobha will I feel, but I have my own doubts about Papa Dubey...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: InduG64

@sns23 & Angake: This what I wrote in the AU thread of 20/3:


The Misunderstanding: Wow, that was a googly from the CVs. Aarti blows her fuse on learning about the wedding expenses, and her parents end up thinking," Thank God, she knows about the divorce thing." As the audience, I applaud this master stroke, 👏but at the same time I can't help querying, WHAT ARE THE DUBEYS THINKING?😡 They exonerate themselves thinking finally Aarti knows the truth. But in the process they are letting their daughter enter a new world with all her defences down owing to such a big cover-up and with absolutely no ally on the other side (presently). In plain words, they have left Aarti to face that music. I didn't like this. Yes, that's the gunpowder in the armoury of CVs for a future track, and I don't really blame them, but to me that puts the Dubeys in a poor light for judging the situation so badly.



This misunderstanding is the CV's entire arsenal .. And when it does come out, depending on where Aarti and Yash - relationship wise, it will do a whole world of damage.. The Dubey's deciding to hide her status itself put them in a poor light, but at that time you could to an extent sympathise with them, they have a gem of a daughter who was facing rejection just because of the mistakes their own blood committed.. But now, as you said, exonerating themselves, thinking Aarti knows the truth and is fine with what they did - goes to show how little they have understood their daughter.. I just hope she is not alone, and atleast shobha stands by her side when the truth does come out...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: bangalores


the death ( actually have they really said Arpi is dead😕) seems to be shrouded in mystery now... i remember someone mentioned ( that was when Yash was supposed to be sidharth) that GC's character had -ve shades... now that wud be interesting...if things were not actually what he imagines it to be... or if the perfect relation he projects he had with Arpi had fizzled out and he is remembering only the good times... or what he wants to remember...possibilities!!
(@mira are u in on the discussion...scope for an FF 😉... i wud have gone for it but the readers (maaneetians) will come after me with joothies as i not regular with the on going ones there😳)



banglores! i LOVED this and believe me I'm ALL over this one...i've already decided how Arpita dies in my FF...just need to sit on it for a few days to see if it really is what I want, that is, if the idea had longevity for me and is not momentary fallout from yesterdays episode :)


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Posted: 13 years ago
Hey friends, just got a very good news, and since the news is in context with our show, I wanted to share. A very dear friend, who was widowed 8 years back (husband, an Air Force officer, had died in a road accident after only 6 months of marriage), is getting married next month to an army officer. 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Indu ... Yaaayyy ...Good for your friend ... Hope she finds all the happiness she wishes for .God bless the couple ... Congos 🥳
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SylvaniaLUX

@Indu ... Yaaayyy ...Good for your friend ... Hope she finds all the happiness she wishes for .God bless the couple ... Congos 🥳



Thanks Deeps. We were both bawling on phone a couple of hours back. Her parents had tried quite a few times in the past years for her marriage, but there were always some wierd demand or the other, till this fauji came along, and now she too will get her happily ever after😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
Anybody watched the match ?

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