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Samanalyse thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
Bombaat post Jyo!!! 😃

So true that open-mindedness does not lie in denying the evils of society but in holding them up to the spotlight, examining them from all angles, even trying to justify them and finally finding an effective way to voice your dissent and fight them. Aarti and Shobha, both very much women of today, are fighting for her identity and I have never seen such a subtle war women's oppression in any other show! It shows that women are not only oppressed through physical action but such harrowing mental and psychological manipulation and for one cannot wait to see Aarti put her foot down and say NO.

Poor Yash. I used to be really shy when I was younger and people used to think I was cocky and that is why I didn't talk to them. 😕 Of course Yash's silence is irritating but that is what makes him feel real and like someone we know, rather than an immaculate hero. Yash is not a hero, or a villain or an anti-hero. He is just a guy trying to cope with some pretty tragic things.

And finally, I totally agree about the CVs and their popcorn. 😆

I like how in control they seem to be of our reactions, the characterisation and the story. It is refreshing to watch a show where everything seems so well-thought out and calmly executed to get maximum reaction. I feel like I can actually sit back and be just a viewer for this show, rather than fighting for anything or with anyone for my daily due of entertainment.
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Posted: 13 years ago
I have one request to the CV's.😊 The usage of Bollywood Songs is maximum during the wedding season...😉

  • The Sangeet😊
  • The Mehendi Ceremony😊
  • The Bride's entry😳
  • The pheras😳
  • The Bidaai😭
  • The SR ☺️
Till now CV's have chosen Good & rare music👏 (Im including Promos too...Piya , Paheli's BGM, Aayoge jab tum) & I wish they continue with their Good selection 😃👍🏼
InduG64 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
@ Jyoti: Superb post.
Are people seriously saying that the show portrays narrow mindedness? This what I say to them: Please watch with open eyes and not with blinkers on, and please watch the whole issue (here the name change) till its logical conclusion. Right from the beginning this show has tried to portray both sides of the coin in as realistic manner as possible. In the same society
  • If there is a Prashant, there is a Yash too.
  • If there is a Gayatri, there is a Shobha too.
  • If there is a scandalous name-change custom in a family, then there is also the instance where a son is given up and a daughter-in-law given name, family, and a daughter's status
Feel free to add to the list. Bottom line is, regression and progress are two sides of the coin . To bring out the miracle of one, the other has to be shown.
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Posted: 13 years ago
@ Indu: Very well put and couldnt agree more with you. Why are people seeing only one side of the coin? So far serial has done beautifully in creating a balance between modern vs traditional,progressive vs. regressive aspects. Yes some things have been shocking for us,but it was more of a revelation of what is still prevalent in many places in our society. And yes a serial needs a conflict. Conflict between characters,ideas and thinking. As long as they dont take it to extreme levels,just for the sake of creating drama and twists, I dont think there's anything wrong with showcasing different aspects of our society and how they cast an effect. I am actually loving this show for its realistic characters, who are driven by their own motivations. They are selfish,manipulative,bitter,but not evil.
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Thanks enchanted. You know, most of us have this "frog in the well" attitude. Any deviation becomes a scandal and the favourite tea-time topic. You are so right. This show hasn't sensationalised any issue so far, but has tried to show the negative side of human nature and society in a matter-of-fact manner.
Edited by InduG64 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
I know i am very klate here but still i want to say...
Yesterday's epi was very interesting...😃😳😉

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Posted: 13 years ago
@Samana and Indu :Very well said 👏👏..CVs r trying to show both sides of the coin ...they r trying to kill the narrow-minded thoughts of our society by actually highlighting it first and then showing how it can b removed from the system with people revolting against it and bringing around a change ...now thats what I call a good story-telling 👏👏👏
Gayatri is someone with a narrow-minded thought process but we hv Shobha+Aarti along with Yash standing in opposition and voicing our thoughts to Gayatri⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️...
Also the biggest progressive aspect of this show is a mother-in-law giving the remarriage of her bahu ..what can b more progressive than this 😆...
Anyways do chk out some breathtaking SBS/SBB/IBN 7 segments of the much awaited bachelar party in which GC as Yash is looking killer in that ass colour suit and Aarti is looking gorgeous in that pink-green outfit 😳😳...Me and Maham hv given all the updates in these following posts ...😳
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Posted: 13 years ago

Girls, I went for my beauty sleep , wake up and find the thread up to 20 pages. There is nothing like waking up in the morning, having a cup of hot steaming tea and reading through discussions about Yash and Aarti. So thank you, Borna, Indu, Mira, Samana, Jyo and everyone else that was wonderful reading through your thoughts.


I also saw the threads you guys mentioned and here is my 2 cents as for why people are seeing only "one side of the coin". We all look at situations/scenarios through the lens of our own life experiences. If some see it as narrow mindedness others see positivity coming out of that narrow mindedness, I am fine with different views and different perspectives as long as it done respectfully.

@Jyo I completely agree with you, if you look for it, so far in the show you can see the characters trying to break free from societal negativity pertaining to their situations.


To me the cake goes to Shobha. If for a second we can forget about the lie, it takes a lot of courage and selflessness to get your daughter in law married off especially when your son is still alive. Also she must know that once Aarti remarries, the Dubey's will no longer get to be as prominent in Ansh's life as they are right now. As a grandparent that must hurt them a lot.


Then comes Aarti and Yash. Yes, they are still stuck in their past but I wonder if people who have been so scarred would ever think about a second relationship even if it is just for the sake of their kids. So, I am willing to wait and see how these complex characters and situations are handled keeping in mind that you cannot watch a drama without any drama in it. :)


Edited by angake - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Deepsss posted his bachelar party look in my SBS thread...ufff he is looking deadly in this photo 😳😳😳
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

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Posted: 13 years ago
Jyo, in this picture he looks more like the "Qurban Hua" Maan than Yash😊

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