Sarita, Divya & Raj - Page 2

Divya character I like even nothing is shown much of her past, why she left Raj. But to help her family, and let them marry first, and taking care of her brother and sister. It shows she is caring person. Not many people do that for family now. It is all about myself and my happiness, in this difficult society today. So she seems a caring person who wants others be happy and doesn't care much about her own happiness. Somehow I think I would choose family too, if they need me, over love. Because love should understand your problems and decisions in life. For me love is understanding. It seems both Raj and Divya waited for each other for ten years, off course raj got married somehow under pressure so they still understand each other.. as they did wait.. only still confused why didn't they contact each other.. ..but to wait for ten years take courage and strenght and the love must be deep.. because who waits for a decade.. As for Sarita I get it why people feel sorry for her, I do too, but seeing all the focuss on her these weeks lol sorry I got tired of her and feeling sorry for her no offence. Also I know people love to see her shouthing against her MIL, as she rude, but for me well I don't like it. Somehow I think it was Divya in Sarita place, I think Divya would have Raj go and be with his love.. As Divya cares about others being happy.. I really wish the writers could write Divya persective better, tell her story too, show it on screen, give her dialogues, to talk about her struggle... I still want to know how a geeky kinda girl with glasses became an actress. And why she left..

Bee, interesting point. All three are about same age. Divya seems to belong to a middle class family but with probably an open outlook. Raj belongs to a nouveau rich family that is quite conservative with father ruling over everybody. Sarita belongs to a rich influential family. We don't know if the family is conservative or modern. But there seems to be support for Sarita as she uses them to silence her MIL. Also, when she decided to leave for good, she did tell Raj that she would go to her father's house indicating there is support for her.

Originally posted by: sweet samie

what makes u think she wont do that Divya got Fame and money, and her family is stable and staff so she can afford to do it. Sariata she been stuck with animals for the past 10 ys. Divya had it easy. plus I bet money this Divya deep down she has her own selfish reason for going back. When she left Raj she should have told him to wait for her But she didn't she climbed on the train and left and expected things to be Fine

nice post but sarita no her husband don't love her for 10 years

All of us are assuming Diya and raj did not discuss her leaving
Nothing has been shown could be div told raj she leaving to support her family and he said ok but let me help

But div. did not want that so sneaked away
Another way could be div did not tell him -- most probably that the scenario -- so she left
The cvs have to do a lot of flash backs to get the whole pic
Why sarita decided to stay
Why raj did not get in contact with divya and vice-a-versa
Why raj treated sarita like some one not there
Why why saritas parents did not anything for 10 yrs they did not stay in touch with
So many questions that need to be answered before the story should move forward

Nice analysis everyone!!! I enjoyed reading different takes on the three lead characters.

Originally posted by: ruchisahay

Nice analysis everyone!!! I enjoyed reading different takes on the three lead characters.

As for me, I admire Divya and sympathize with Sarita. Divya's professional success despite odds and her bonding with her family are applause worthy. We don't know what happened between her and Raj but despite loving Raj she had no support. We can talk about true love of Raj but the simple fact is he didn't support her when she needed it the most. More on Raj later. She decided to move ahead in life after finding out about Raj was good as well. But feeling guilty due to Sarita's words? Can it be generosity? If Sarita was illogical and stupid saying all those words then so was Divya accepting it. She has sympathy, fine but no guilt please. My only issue with her is her breaking up her own wedding at last minute - for Sarita and Raj. More than that, the manner in which she did that was pretty embarrassing for Gaurav's and her own family.

Sarita has had it worst of the three as she is not responsible for the mess Raj is in. I hear comments like she should have befriended Raj, tried to understand him etc. Well, we don't know that she hasn't tried that. Also, any relationship (even of friends) depends of two people being open, approachable and receptive. Raj wasn't that. But then, she has been passive about her own life. Also, does she love Raj? Is it really possible to love without liking someone? Is it possible to like someone who has been emotionally distant and unreceptive for 10 years? I cannot comprehend how can she be in love with Raj? How can she even dream of a future with him after all this time. I so so wish that she would proactively leave Raj - not after finding out that Divya and Raj are still in love but because he's been unreasonably bad to her.

Now coming to Raj. I can believe when people speak about his true love for Divya. But I don't find that love attractive (not even in some tragic way) - instead I find it destructive and obsessive. Also, he had the resources to support Divya. Instead of supporting her, he chose to term her leaving as betrayal. In which alternate world is supporting one's younger siblings a betrayal. And if he did believe that she betrayed him - why didn't he confront her? He just chose to destroy his own life and also add misery to the lives of his family and made his wife's life a hell. If we can believe that 10 years of abuse made Sarita a bitter woman, isn't the same true for his Mom. Seeing her own son suffering so much must have filled her with hatred for her daughter in law - obviously it is easier for her than to hate her own son. Relationship between MIL-DIL does depend on the equation between son and DIL (and also on that between mother and son)

Also, there is life beyond love. I find his attitude towards his career and his family so irritating - that I don't think any back story, any justification will ever redeem him for me. So many people are unlucky in love - most of them move ahead in life (finding the courage from family, friends and career) and eventually succeed in love as well.

So, I guess I am completely against both SaRa and RaVya. Once I had suggested Sarita with Gaurav and Divya with her older co-star (in guest appearance). Considering Gaurav's feelings, I am open to Divya and Gaurav and Sarita with her old co-star (did she have any? I read somewhere that she was a warrior princess in her last outing) or even alone.

Or will the soap come up with something that would make me like or empathize with Raj? And surprise me!!!

Sarita trust divya & allowing her to live in her home to get raj love

some very good points... i think this is time that CVs need to reign in sarita sympathy card and give some proper flashbacks of what transpired btwn divya n raj when responsibility of her siblings fell on her, how much did raj, if any, know abt divya's predictament!
then CVs connect it to raj in flashback, when did he find out divya left, how or did he try to trace her, how much time lapsed btwn divya leaving n raj n sarita's marriage, the day of marriage why did raj dress up as groom then was driving arnd

@Ruchi You have very good points about Sarita and Raj. But first coming to Divya and Gaurav, I believe both of them did a same type of mistake in what they did during the wedding. Divya has no reason to feel guilty about Sarita because she cannot control a behavior of another human being. Raj's behavior with Sarita or his own family is his own choice and so is Sarita's decision of sticking with Raj for 10 years despite all that indifference and neglect from him and abuse from his family.