why vimmy see only hetal a problem? - Page 5

yesterday everybody made such a big deal about vimmy's behavior with hetal...

Originally posted by: nilu215

yesterday everybody made such a big deal about vimmy's behavior with hetal...

when i saw the episode, this is what i saw:

1. as soon as vimmy entered the room, hetal started making face! - nice start hetal!! 👏

2. vimmy went out of her way to say that she'll make undhiyo for hetal...i say 'out of her way' because i am assuming that vimmy doesn't even know how to make undhiyo, yet she volunteered to make it since her pregnant DIL is craving for it - i find it awesome, but for some THAT was BAD!

3. hetal immediately retorted that if vimmy made undhiyo, she probably won't like it because vimmy doesn't know how to make it - somebody kill me now!! where are your basic manners girl??? somebody wants to do something to please you, at least have the decency to thanks them & politely refuse...say 'chachi ji, thank u so much...lekin aap kyon takleef karengi...you have so much work anyways...fui will make it, na?...please aap jaane dijiye'...but no! that is too much sweetness to expect from kareli sorry hetli!! 🤣

when i saw the episode, i was appalled! - not because they CVs showed this scene (they'll do anything for TRPs...that's their prerogative)...but i found it shocking that viewers are following hetal so blindly that they blamed vimmy for trying to do something nice for hetal (yet again)...and didn't even notice how hetal snubbed vimmy????

-but who asked her for it,hetal is always rude,and wat SHe SAID MADde sense,vimmy doesnt know to cook undhiyo ,its better then wat sweety used to do with hetal,first tell her to make stuff then say its bad,and is vimmy free,her hubby isnt well,hetal isnt working,sweetyand kalavati has disappeared,do ur work,get a life beyond hetal,if i wld be vimmy,i would call bijal home and tell her to cook for hetal the whole day

Originally posted by: nilu215

why do you say that?

on the contrary, they have shown several occasions where vimmy was nice to hetal but hetal didn't reciprocate...eg.,

1. vimmy gave hetal all the clothes that she liked, but hetal said some rude stuff on her face, refused to accept the clothes & left;

2. vimmy asked hetal to join the RMJ dance competition, but hetal lied to her that she was not interested

3. more recently...vimmy was so happy to hear that hetal was pregnant & said she'll buy earrings for her as shagun...

4. when she heard from mona on the phone, vimmy was so happy to hear that hetal is coming back to the bedi-house..

why would vimmy do all such stuff that shows genuine concern? definitely not to keep up a hypocritical front!!

i don't know why you would say that vimmy never liked hetal...do you have any concrete example?

as a viewer, i was indifferent to hetal in the beginning...but when they showed hetal's true color after her rishta with karan broke (hetal said 'if i can't marry karan, i'll make sure you (meaning mona) are never happy with my brother')...for crying out loud, she wished BAD on her own brother in order to take revenge on Mona!!!! why would we think that she would be nice to anyone in the world - vimmy to bahut dur ki baat hai...

and from then onwards, heta'ls character took a nose dive...she is not even honest to her own mother & her husband...cheats karan everyday by putting up a nice front - yet vimmy is the hypocrite here?

👏 thank you I was baffled by the statement myself.

"please aap jaane dijiye'...but no! that is too much sweetness to

Originally posted by: vcoolwater

If Hetal keeps asking for food from Bijal. Bharti and Ketki might assume that Vimmy isn't taking care of Hetal properly. It would make her look bad. Ketki already questioned Bijal about the tomato soup. If this continues to happen, Ketki might question Vimmy as a mother-in-law. Why would Hetal ask for this food if not getting treat well by sausral? Also it might make things worse for Mona.

I so agree with you. I can't understand what is the big deal if Vimmy is concerned about what she eats while she is pregnant. I thought it was normal for Mothers or Mother-in-laws or anyone who cares about you, to want you to take of yourself during pregnancy. I don't think a lot of people understand how serious this time is, it is not a joke time, anything can happen during this time. This has nothing to do with cravings. You can crave food, but eat it along with the things that are Good for you. So, if you crave ice-cream that is all the baby will be eating? Is that practical? Hetal was not even trying to eat properly otherwise. In every culture, the Mother is always encouraged to surround herself with positive things and try to eat as properly as possible and balance it with the cravings. This girl want to go all out with her cravings, and when the baby is born with all sort of illness, Vimmy is the one who will get blamed for not taking care of Paagal Hetal. Secondly, Hetal does not seem like someone who eats properly in the first place, so her cravings seem more liked forced, psychologically to me.

What hetal would have done if her mayka and Bijal at Gujrat. Won't she eat however Vimmi will make udhiyu?? it's Vimmy goodness that she ready to give it a try. No MIL cares this much for DIL especially for DIL who have insulted eldest member of the family. Bharti and Bijal would have trown her DIL out of the house by now if thier DIL dare to even argue.

Even if I wanted to be rude to my Elder's (which I have never even thought of), I could not even fathom having the guts to do it without worrying about the consequences. There is NO way Vimmy is bad or any member of that house for that matter, to allow Hetal to say all the things she has been saying, and not punish her in some way or the other, kick her out of the house something, anything.

Originally posted by: sherma

-but who asked her for it,hetal is always rude,and wat SHe SAID MADde sense,vimmy doesnt know to cook undhiyo ,its better then wat sweety used to do with hetal,first tell her to make stuff then say its bad,and is vimmy free,her hubby isnt well,hetal isnt working,sweetyand kalavati has disappeared,do ur work,get a life beyond hetal,if i wld be vimmy,i would call bijal home and tell her to cook for hetal the whole day

Originally posted by: hillydee

I have agreed with all your points on Hetal and the whole family situation. I am shock that anyone thinks that Hetal's behaviour is acceptable, however I guess that is their opinion as sad as it may be. This girl has been so evil from day one, since she walked into her sasural. You are right she reminds me of that girl you go to school with, I knew a lot of those. Vimmy is not a hypocrite, she has tried so many times with Hetal, but that girl keeps behaving the same old way no matter what. She reacts the way she does, cause she is human. Even if some people may think Hetal is not a hypocrite because she is rude and tells you like it is, even if it hurts you( that is called being a wretch). she is a BIGGER hypocrite to her husband. 1. She should tell him why she instigated him against his family in the first place, which lead to them leaving the house, because she is envious of what others have and wanted Karan to make money so she can have jewelry like Vimmy etc. etc. (try an remember that), such a petty girl 2. She should tell him how much she hates Mona 3. She should tell him how much she HATES his familly 4. She should tell him she DOES NOT want to give her child to Sweety. 5. She should tell him she does not want to stay in the house at all!!

She should also tell her Mom, how much she resents her for her relationship with Mona, and for speaking against her terrible behaviour. So, Hetal needs to stop being a Hypocrite, conniving, liar and a hateful brat.

Hetal needs to concentrate on taking care of herself and keeping out of unnecessary petty arguments and acting like she is Paagal, so she has a safe delivery with a healthy baby. Cause God forbid she suffers the same demise like Sweety, I am sure this will make her worse.