why vimmy see only hetal a problem? - Page 6

/DIV] -but who asked her for it,hetal is always rude,and wat SHe SAID MADde sense,vimmy doesnt know to cook undhiyo ,its better then wat sweety used to do with hetal,first tell her to make stuff then say its bad,and is vimmy free,her hubby isnt well,hetal isnt working,sweetyand kalavati has disappeared,do ur work,get a life beyond hetal,if i wld be vimmy,i would call bijal home and tell her to cook for hetal the whole day
i am not sayng vimmy is bad,but hetal has tld no of time to sweety-vimmy to leave her alne,hetal is a smrt women,if she needs sumting frm her she wil get bck to her.u cnt force any1 to luv u.hetal was offended wid vimmy wen she stop hertv,she wldnt feel so offnded wen fui wld hav stppd her

I can't fathom seeing a maid as a nobody and thinking they should stay out of the family business, then we should tell that to our neighbours when they come over and make smart comments, to stay out of our family business.too. I don't know how it works in India, but in the western world, we have respect for our maids/helpers, cause they are doing the job, a lot of us DON'T want to do, call me lazy, but I am not disrespecting anyone who is saving me from housework😆 Not to mention if I am eating food prepared by them, I would not want them to do anything to it, cause I insulted them.

Originally posted by: hillydee

I can't fathom seeing a maid as a nobody and thinking they should stay out of the family business, then we should tell that to our neighbours when they come over and make smart comments, to stay out of our family business.too. I don't know how it works in India, but in the western world, we have respect for our maids/helpers, cause they are doing the job, a lot of us DON'T want to do, call me lazy, but I am not disrespecting anyone who is saving me from housework😆 Not to mention if I am eating food prepared by them, I would not want them to do anything to it, cause I insulted them.

Some children are even brought up by their maids, because their parents don't have time for them.

Furthermore, I prefer them getting in my business and give their opinions, than the neighbours knowing my business and telling the whole world. All you have to do is respectfully explain how you feel about them getting involved in your family affairs, no need to rude about it or look down at their status.

Sometimes, they are the same ones who save you, by letting you know what is happening. I don't entertain news carrying, but sometimes a little information that can help you, is not so bad after all.

Additionally, God forbid life goes bad for me and I end up being a maid, I would not want anyone to look down on me. They are human beings just like anyone of us...I feel sad about some views.

There is a fine line between being nice, respecting them and letting them insult your family or interfere in your life. and gosh i hate those annoying neighbors who poke their nose in your business at all times.

Originally posted by: sherma

so in that case if kalavati can be rude to hetal so ketki and bijal has 100% right to abuse and rude to mona,

the fact is hetal hasnt taken kalavati shit,she gave her back everytime and showed her place,kalavati hasa lso called her manhoos etc.what right does kalavati have to tell hetal not to go for honeymoon when ketki doesnt have a right to stop mona from working.

i genuinely want ketki to go-cause she is too much,althouigh i am not a mona fan but find her too interfering,same goes for kalavati,if kalavati has right to interfere and be rude to hetal although being a maid,so i think ketki has much power to be rude to mona cause she is as good as saas of mona.

if parmeet is doing a mahaan act in understnding his wife,wat duties he is doing as a son,dont children have any duty towrds parentys.how much i have heard and seen-for grandparents their grandchild are more important then son(in hindi they say asaal se zyada byaaz pyara hain).

when parmeet parents called sweety home(during her pregnancy)beids told no and told themm to let sweety stay here more-althopugh they knew the fight between swetyand hetal-accidents wich are to happen they happen,if teh miscarriage wld have happened at sethi place-they wld have felt for sweety more.same goes with the reports-if teh reports wld be shown to serthis at right time rther tehn vimmy-mona hiding it-it wld made sense,even parmeet had walked out when he came to know this,after he went home and he realsied sweety cant do sumting like this he came back,how can sethis feel the same for sweety,when they have seen wat were bedis doing

here bedis dont trust theri own daughter(mona)rther dey beleive people like goldie-pam,dimpy etc,how shld sethis trust sweety.

Originally posted by: Luv4games

There is a fine line between being nice, respecting them and letting them insult your family or interfere in your life. and gosh i hate those annoying neighbors who poke their nose in your business at all times.

Originally posted by: April2007

<font size="3" color="#9900cc">Answering to the underline...when did Kalavati called Hetal ..Hetal Rani you don't care about anybody..when did Kalavati bring in another girl to break Hetal's marriage with Karan, when does Kalavati sits on dinning table and make sarcastic remarks regarding Hetal the way Bejal does..when did Kalavati lied, cheated to make sure that Hetal lives in her Maaiyka..like Bejal did, by faking poja thali scene and teaching Hetal all the mean and low tricks to control Karan and abuse her inlaws.</font>

<font size="3" color="#9900cc">It is very surprising that you think Bejal has 100% right to bully and constantly abuse Mona because Kalavati has said a fewuncomplimentary stuff about Hetal, do you remember Hetal has abused and yelled at Darji and Kalavati knows all this..tell us one instant when Kalavati tried to break Hetal's marriage...Kalavati is watching Hetal abusing everybody in the household and Kalavati is bonded with them...Hetal doesn't cook or serve Kalavati, while Bejal sits on the dinning table eating Mona's food and abusing her left and right and you think it is 100% right to do so...</font>

<font size="3" color="#9900cc">I cannot understand how anybody can justify constant bullying and abuse that is hurled at Mona by Bejal, Bharti and Hetal Bullying somebody is morally wrong and a criminaloffence..</font>

<font color="#9900cc" size="3">Bejal has no business to interfere in her brothers household.Mona is too nice to tolerate Bejal, Bharti and Hetal..she should send all of them packing.</font>

i am jst justifyng d statement,people hav commentd kalavati has a right to abuse hetal cause she is wrkng at bedi house for lng.so beejal-ketki hav blood relation wid anu.and again who got beejal bck,was it ambaji or mona.u cant keep every1 happy,mona tries to do tat

Originally posted by: April2007

I was wondering myself how the word "Abuse." got into the equation. I don't know which maid would do that in the first place. I know I was talking about maids getting involved in house matters.

Typically servants or maids are part of the family they are serving. I think the bedis are lucky that Kalavati does not talk about how badly Hetal behaves to outsiders and keeps her opinions indoors, so to speak. I know of maids who will gossip with other maids and spill all the family's dirty linen.