why vimmy see only hetal a problem?

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sherma

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Posted: 13 years ago

i dont get this,i agree hetal is a troublmaker for bedi house,but isnt parmeet the same.whenever hetal speak rudely to sweety,there are people to stop her-kalavati,vimmy etc,but no1 stops parmeet,so wat if he is SIL of the house,even in vimmy mind only hetal is problem,parmeet is unnecessarilt taunting and arguing with karan,karan has already left teh house 1 cause of him,so y not do sumting,even today she was telling mona only about hetal,y not parmeet,she has seen sweety crying cause of him,so y not do sumting 4 it,and parmeet is a smart guy,he is behaving like this with kaarn cause he knows he wont say anything to him,and he wont think of backing out of giving teh baby,

if he is rude to hetal once,she will firstly create a scene and den backout with the baby plan,wich is already there in her mind.

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vcoolwater

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Posted: 13 years ago

Have you read the story Boy who cried Wolf? Hetal has caused so much mischief and pain for Vimmy. That anything she does, Vimmy is suspicious of. Can you blame her? If I knew a person like Hetal. I would too immediatly think the worst of her. Why should Vimmy give her benefit of doubt?

Everytime Vimmy does, Hetal backstabs her. I think Is best that Vimmy thinks the worst of Hetal, at least she should be on guard. Hetal is one of those mean girls in high school. They act nice to you and then gossip and spread rumors behind your back. Then take great pleasure in seeing people tormented due to venom she spews.

Unlike Hetal who caused nothing but trouble most of time. Permeet has made huge scarfice by disowning his parents for Sweety's sake. He also living with them against his wishes. You tend to look over his faults and be more forgiving. After all his ego trips are nothing compared to his scarfices.

Vimmy isn't mahan like her daughter. She is very human. She makes mistakes but her heart is in the right palce.

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sherma

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: vcoolwater
Have you read the story Boy who cried Wolf? Hetal has caused so much mischief and pain for Vimmy. That anything she does, Vimmy is suspicious of. Can you blame her? If I knew a person like Hetal. I would too immediatly think the worst of her. Why should Vimmy give her benefit of doubt?
Everytime Vimmy does, Hetal backstabs her. I think Is best that Vimmy thinks the worst of Hetal, at least she should be on guard. Hetal is one of those mean girls in high school. They act nice to you and then gossip and spread rumors behind your back. Then take great pleasure in seeing people tormented due to venom she spews.

Unlike Hetal who caused nothing but trouble most of time. Permeet has made huge scarfice by disowning his parents for Sweety's sake. He also living with them against his wishes. You tend to look over his faults and be more forgiving. After all his ego trips are nothing compared to his scarfices.

Vimmy isn't mahan like her daughter. She is very human. She makes mistakes but her heart is in the right palce.

wat sacrifice,as sum1 quoted,he isnt doing a favor,he is fulfilling the saat pheras he took during his marriage and nothing else,i dont get vimmy,if hetal says 1 ting to sweety,she mkes it big,parmeet is being unnecessarily rude to karan,but still she doesnt even count it as bad in her mind too,i dint see her telling mona wat parmeet did-he got tv,heater,fighting with karan etc.i think u need to be fair,and about parmeet disowning his parents-i tink its the most sickest part wat is he doing, its as good as leave ur parents for wife,i pity sethi family-beidis had problem karan staying at his sasural for a week,wat about parmeet parents,have not eevn seen dadaji telling parmeet to have a word with his parents,where as in gandhi house-klapesh,baa-babauji-amabji tryed to explain karal that wat they r doing is wrong

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vcoolwater

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Posted: 13 years ago

It is a big sacrifice. I have heard stories of husbands leaving their wives just because they can't have children. He could have easily left her. After it all Sweety's fault. But he didn't and he went against his parents. He not even speaking with them according to Goldie. I mean to cut off all ties to his parents for his wife is a big deal espically in the joint family system. I don't know about you but this is a big scarfice that I don't consider so lightly like you do.

Why is so sick for Permeet disown his parents? Why should the Bedi's even encourage him to speak to them? Don't you remember the insults that threw at Sweety. Basically infered that she didn't have any worth and basically garbage 😕.

Karan is all about his huge ego. The fight was nothing compared to what Permeet's parents did to Sweety. You are comparing apples to oranges. It was two different situations. Ghandi family didn't anything mahan (also very weak attempts - Mona only one who really tried). After all the Bedi family wanted Karan and Hetal home. Permeet's parents didn't want Sweety - in fact didn't even send her Sargi. Vimmy did send Hetal saargi and still treated her as a bahu of the household when she was living at the Ghandi house.

Also like I said before. Permeet has a lot of good will. He would have to do something really bad to be on Heta's l level. Hetal's reputation was destroyed as soon as she insulted Daarji. After that it got worse when she abused Sweety and Mopgate. Vimmy is not going to give Hetal the benefit of the doubt. She hasn't earn it. Plus Vimmy most likely was venting about Hetal to her daughter.

Isn't that what Hetal does all the time when complains to Baa and Fui. I don't see anything wrong in Vimmy venting to Mona.

Edited by vcoolwater - 13 years ago

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 13 years ago

Vimmy is hypocritical woman..She has never liked Hetal and she never will...She pretends to show but the truth is clear...

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vcoolwater

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Posted: 13 years ago

But then Hetal is a huge hypocrite. She acts all nice to Vimmy but secretly hates her. She only tells the truth to Bijal. Not even Karan knows how she hates his family. She plays super sugary nice with them. Only to plan saazish against them espically Mona.

Vimmy is actually open with her with disgust with Hetal. She openly complians about Hetal to anyone in listening distance. She lets Karan know how much she hates Hetal's behavior. Satnam is always chiding her over immature behavior regarding Hetal. After all he told her not to say anything to Karan. I don't think she is pretending. Everyone even Hetal knows about Vimmy's feelings.

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sherma

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: vcoolwater
It is a big sacrifice. I have heard stories of husbands leaving their wives just because they can't have children. He could have easily left her. After it all Sweety's fault. But he didn't and he went against his parents. He not even speaking with them according to Goldie. I mean to cut off all ties to his parents for his wife is a big deal espically in the joint family system. I don't know about you but this is a big scarfice that I don't consider so lightly like you do.
-i have never came to anu1 at such who left tehir wife,have seen them adopting etc etc.
this wat i dont like,technically aprmeet parents are not wrong,he is the only son,its parmeet duty to come and ahve wrd with him,tell them that he is planninmg to adopt and etc etc.wat parmeet is doing is a big shame on being a son-he was avery good husband but these days i dont like him the way he is beahving at bedi house,
Why is so sick for Permeet disown his parents? Why should the Bedi's even encourage him to speak to them? Don't you remember the insults that threw at Sweety. Basically infered that she didn't have any worth and basically garbage 😕.
-how can u support any1 disowning his parents,r his parents were asking for unusual,if sweety not being a mther wld ahve come out decently in front of his parents,it wld made sense,but the way vimmy messed it made it worst.
parmeet should have been strong whenthey threw sweety out when monalp got married,i support parmeet wat he is doing 4 sweety,but not looking back at ur old parents is sick.

Karan is all about his huge ego. The fight was nothing compared to what Permeet's parents did to Sweety. You are comparing apples to oranges. It was two different situations. Ghandi family didn't anything mahan (also very weak attempts - Mona only one who really tried). After all the Bedi family wanted Karan and Hetal home. Permeet's parents didn't want Sweety - in fact didn't even send her Sargi. Vimmy did send Hetal saargi and still treated her as a bahu of the household when she was living at the Ghandi house.

-vimmy send sargi cause she knew theywere wrong,kalpesh tried to speak to karan so did ambaji but they both failed,but i again say havnet seen any1 talking about parmeet parents at bedi house including parmeet-wich is a shame.

Also like I said before. Permeet has a lot of good will. He would have to do something really bad to be on Heta's l level. Hetal's reputation was destroyed as soon as she insulted Daarji. After that it got worse when she abused Sweety and Mopgate. Vimmy is not going to give Hetal the benefit of the doubt. She hasn't earn it. Plus Vimmy most likely was venting about Hetal to her daughter.

Isn't that what Hetal does all the time when complains to Baa and Fui. I don't see anything wrong in Vimmy venting to Mona.
-i dont mind vimmy speaking to mona about hetal,but y is parmeet not even spoken about.if i would be karan wld ahve again fought with aprmeet cause of his tantrums,the fact iss bedis would have let karan move out again- caus theywere the one who got him back

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vcoolwater

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Posted: 13 years ago

I give a short answer this time. Vimmy likes Permeet more than Hetal. Therefore she can forgive Permeet but not Hetal. Vimmy still angry at Hetal over few stuff including 1) Insulting Daarji, 2) Yelling at Sweety, and 3) Framing her and Kalavati over the wet floor etc.

Compare to Hetal, Permeet is a saint. I think Permeet would have do a serious crime to be bad as Hetal in her eyes.

Hetal was sugar sweet to Vimmy after the miscarrage etc. Even when living at the Ghandi house she all nice to Vimmy about the Saargi blaming Karan instead. She does play games when it suit her and "blunt" when it suit her.

Edited by vcoolwater - 13 years ago

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nilu215

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Vimmy is hypocritical woman..She has never liked Hetal and she never will...She pretends to show but the truth is clear...

why do you say that?

on the contrary, they have shown several occasions where vimmy was nice to hetal but hetal didn't reciprocate...eg.,

1. vimmy gave hetal all the clothes that she liked, but hetal said some rude stuff on her face, refused to accept the clothes & left;

2. vimmy asked hetal to join the RMJ dance competition, but hetal lied to her that she was not interested

3. more recently...vimmy was so happy to hear that hetal was pregnant & said she'll buy earrings for her as shagun...

4. when she heard from mona on the phone, vimmy was so happy to hear that hetal is coming back to the bedi-house..

why would vimmy do all such stuff that shows genuine concern? definitely not to keep up a hypocritical front!!

i don't know why you would say that vimmy never liked hetal...do you have any concrete example?

as a viewer, i was indifferent to hetal in the beginning...but when they showed hetal's true color after her rishta with karan broke (hetal said 'if i can't marry karan, i'll make sure you (meaning mona) are never happy with my brother')...for crying out loud, she wished BAD on her own brother in order to take revenge on Mona!!!! why would we think that she would be nice to anyone in the world - vimmy to bahut dur ki baat hai...

and from then onwards, heta'ls character took a nose dive...she is not even honest to her own mother & her husband...cheats karan everyday by putting up a nice front - yet vimmy is the hypocrite here?

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Luv4games

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Vimmy is worst than bharti. At least whatever bharti does is infront of everyone. she doesnt go tell anu that everything i do is for mona's good. she says she doesnt like it and wants to stop it infront of everyone. When she doesnt care for mona she says it infront of everyone so anu knows how his mother is and stops her. Vimmy acts all nice and says that she is doing everything for hetal's well being when in reality she is breaking a marriage but does not care. As long as sweety is happy everybody else can go die and she wont care. she wanted to complain to karan about hetal telling her that she has made parmeet into this spiteful person(which she did) but she wont go and complain to sweety and tell her to make parmeet understand. So what if hetal asked her phui to make her something. and it is a Gujariti dish which vimmy doesnt know how to make and will not be able to make as good as bejal who has been making it for years. When sweety didnt like hetal's tea it was vimmy who said pregnant women have cravings and therefore they like specific things. But apparently those rules and cravings only apply to sweety. I dont get it now hetal doesnt even bother them. She was happy in her room, does her own work, doesnt even wanna deal with them but still vimmy has a problem. Seems like vimmy is the type of woman who doesnt like peace and likes fights therefore when hetal is quite she cant digest it. She wants hetal to do something so then she can give it back to her and have fun. Grow up lady.

Another thing, When a spouse stays with the other one even when they are infetile, it is not a sacrifice. There is something called till death do us part, and taking vows that you will support each other. If somebody wants to get married just for kids then instead of getting married, they should just get a surrogate. You get married because you love that person and want to spend the rest of you life with them not for baby making. If parmeet thinks he is making a sacrifice by staying with sweety then sweety just divorce him. There might be people out there who leave their wives when they are infertile but that is not something that we should look up to as a standard. That is something wrong no matter which way you twist it.

Parmeet not talking to his parents is also not a sacrifice it is his immaturity . Instead if comparing himself with hetal and acting as karan's second jealous wife, he should spend that time and his brain on making his and sweety's relationship with his parents. Once he has decided he wants to be with sweety because he loves her the next step is to go make his parents accept her instead of staying at her maayka and competing with their son.

Bedi family are hypocrites. You cant let your son and DIL stay at her maayka but it is ok for parmeet to stay there away from his parents. If hetal broke bedi family then sweety did the same to parmeet's family. Yah she cant do anything about being infertile but she can do something or at least attempt to make his parents understand. Forget about them accepting her, just go tell his parents to at least go talk to him. But no sweety can never be wrong. vimmy should stop interefering in hetal's life so much and go talk to parmeet's parents. They didnt even try once to make their relationship better.

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