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Posted: 14 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: tanthya




My Post induces sleep ......Nainaji !! turn the taps on for me please 😭

😆 😆 😆 ofc not ...... its my brain that wasn't wasn't ready to process anything at 4am in the morning of tax day so turn off ther taps please 😛
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Posted: 14 years ago
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brilliant post dii wounderful written agree wid ur each point bt have only one q many times had come when krishna told to pratogya that he did a mistake by marrying her even he abused her right bt pratigya does,nt left her house r hubby becoz she understands everything and also solve it out so komal i,ve a sympathy for her and also feeling very bad bt only for such a small thing ahe left her house yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?she told to adarsh she wants to live her life according to her sharts right and after that she told otherwise she will live in his father,s house and adarsh told what u waqnt do it he was angry so he told it he was not meant it and his next sentence was next time don,t make non veg in this house so he was not saying her to leave the house so both were on fault i,m not saying that adarsh was full y correct he was also wrong bt komal was wrong to am i right?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaacheeSyna

Hey Tanths!! ..wanted to comment only after watching the show!! ....

I support pratigya when she said that she doesn't want to accompany Krishna just this moment. The only thing that concerned me before watching the show was the tone in which she would have said this to Krishna, considering previous episodes...But after watching the episode, I have no complaints on that front either...she had a reasonable tone...and she did say that she will come afterwards...One thing I noted was Pratigya first mentioned Komal Bhabhi is here and then said even Adarsh is also coming...So she was concerned about her sasural if not more but definitely equal to her maika...👏

Krishna was a bit insensitive towards Komal...maybe coz he is used to komal's theatrics that he doesn't believe her when a serious issue comes up. And hence he wanted to concentrate on his business venture rather...

One thing I liked about Komal was she didn't complain against her mother-in-law...She piled the whole blame on Dadi...which was true...Dadi had severe problems with Komal... I am sure Pratigya is aware that her dadi can do that seeing the taunts she used to pass at Pratigya as well..but listening about one's maika's problems is not a nice feeling

Only thing I didn't liked was Pratigya blindly defending her brother when Komal came in....I mean no one knows how one is behind close doors...one might be good son and a brother ....but that can't guarantee a good husband...Even if Pratigya is not aware of his changed attitude towards life...one still can't assume that Adarsh is not at fault in their relationship...

And Kesamma is 🤢🤢



hi pooj,

Quite the right attitude ..


Considering y'days scene ..I would say that Pratigya's response was measured response ..I do not even fault her for defending her brother..bec what she displayed was an instinctive and natural response ...she kept her tongue in check after Komal retorts that she knows her husband better ... That was a good directorial touch ..


Krishna IMO has always been quite shallow and his world revolves around himself and the things and people he loves ...and also he is quite enthused on his project ...I have seen many people become unconcerned about family affairs when something they hold dear is coming to fruition ...

In a way ..y'day all the characters action was justified when u viewed it from the character's POV..
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Posted: 14 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: starlight123



Not everything needs to be compared with one or the other and saying this is worse than the other and therefore should have more sympathy...But continuously saying someone to shut up when they have a different opinion is abuse whether done intentionally or unintentionally...Speaking in english so that DIL does not understand what the discussion is about is unprincipled...One can make excuses as to why they did it but taking advantage of someone shortfall is unacceptable in any situation...Always berating someone based on being different and the Prof has scolded Komal for no other reason because she is an easy target then the real culprits after the blacken face incident...His anger should have been directed at the Takur and not the DIL...



I think u didn't see what i had written @bold , di...........i know that prof did wrong whenever he berated komal for whatever the thakurs did with P and i know he is wrong...........what i am saying is that they didn't do it bec they hate her and wanted to harm her................
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: piyarapiyari

brilliant post dii wounderful written agree wid ur each point bt have only one q many times had come when krishna told to pratogya that he did a mistake by marrying her even he abused her right bt pratigya does,nt left her house r hubby becoz she understands everything and also solve it out so komal i,ve a sympathy for her and also feeling very bad bt only for such a small thing ahe left her house yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?she told to adarsh she wants to live her life according to her sharts right and after that she told otherwise she will live in his father,s house and adarsh told what u waqnt do it he was angry so he told it he was not meant it and his next sentence was next time don,t make non veg in this house so he was not saying her to leave the house so both were on fault i,m not saying that adarsh was full y correct he was also wrong bt komal was wrong to am i right?




Thank You , Mushkiii

Mushkii the essential difference between Komal's Marital life and Pratigya's marital life is that Krishna loves his wife while for Adasrh , she has been a compromise package ...She longs for affection's and support from him ..A thing that is in short supply from her POV..

Looking at her BG ..she was a Tomboy with unlimited freedom, she was used to do things her own way ..when all of a sudden she is pushed into an matrimonial alliance , An alliance for which she is not emotionally ready ..she is made to stay in a strange house which severely lacks the luxuries she was used to and on top of that she is forced to stay with people who do not like her and show it by their actions [ although not by words] , A place where she is made to conform to their outlook ...All this will surely create a void in her, an insecurity , a desire for some space of her own ..so when she got the chance, she swiftly tried to fulfill her desires..She sought approval or atleast a form of support from her hubby but all she got was disapproval AGAIN ...She expected Adarsh to mollify her ..but Adarsh like a typical husband said ..Do whatever u want ..Not exactly hinting at Love ...Komal being the hot tempered girl did the thing that any pampered , hot tempered girl would do ....This was a small thing ..but her reaction were projected towards the accumulated grievances
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: yemi3006

😆 😆 😆 ofc not ...... its my brain that wasn't wasn't ready to process anything at 4am in the morning of tax day so turn off ther taps please 😛



** Tanthya All wet and sloshing in her gum boots ** Yemi....At Last managed to turn off the tap 👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanthya






Yemiyaaaa Here !! ** rubbing my eyes in disbelief, rubbing the monitor for added measure**😲😲 ...

** Tanthya has an ecstasy attack and floats off to paradise😉😆😆**



Had the same reaction when Yemi was first to post on my thread yday.😲😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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havent watched yet - but will comment after I watch
So far though so looking good!👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: MERARAI



Had the same reaction when Yemi was first to post on my thread yday.😲😆



She did it to you too...Yeh Yemiyaa tho Partigwa ke tarah baar baar current maarne laggayi.. {{ Yemi has adopted P's Policy and is electrocuting us , the way P did to Radhe }}
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn

good analysis di 😊 👏

but slightly has to disagree with komal's life in GH...........they, especially prof and nainaji tried their level best to make komal feel like family during the first months of her stay there...........and komal actually liked nainaji like a mother and nainaji too took care of her as if she was her daughter.........its only after the angad fiasco which forced the family not to call komal back home soon while angad blackmailed them that the relationship took a u turn.............komal thinking that they didn't care for her at all and misunderstanding their silence as dislike..........and then the next major jatka to their relation came when prof and adarsh didn't pursue the case against jai, which komal took really seriously .................but these incidents were hastily forgotten............and then this money problem came and this time it did do its work of creating a wedge between the relations............which is blown out of proportions and now we see the kitchen divided....both parties r to be blamed and mostly adarsh is to be blamed ............and also arushi and dadi who likes to strut and order ........and as far as komal being told to shut up and go to her room, they didn't do it with hatred for her or with explicit aim to harm her or taunt her like the thakurs did with P.....also K don't know about half of the things they did to P, even P don't know how many times she had escaped death .......i am not supporting the sucksenas here in their deeds of shutting ur bahu up every time she opens her mouth..............but merely stating that while the thakurs did it with a feeling of vengeance , sucksenas never hated komal..............



Thank You, Dhakarn ...

Well, IMO the efforts they put in were quite superficial ... A genuine attempt would be if theytry to educate her ...But Yes..Nainaji did try ..but her's was a voice which was lost in the wilderness ..for every progress she made ..the mother members sent Komal back to square one ..and by refusing to call back Komal they just underlined the fact that they did consider Komal to be an outsider ..bec Komal had begun to change, had stood by the Sax in tthe Thappadgate and yet she was shortchanged


I agree ..That The dharam Bhrasht kaam is not done by Komal , Komal remains true to her pedigree, It was Adarsh who is responsible for this .

What you say makes it even worse ..Thakurs did it with a feeling .. a negative feeling ..but a feeling nevertheless..a feeling which albiet acknowledged Pratigya as a human, as a DIL..by ur reasoning what Saxena's did was out of indifference ..cos if there was no hate , then there was no love either ...and Indifference is the worst form of emotional abuse..

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