Originally posted by: SaacheeSyna
Oh...I forgot the blushes ...here it is 😳
Honestly...I don't watch the saxena scenes anymore....although to answer your question...I went back watched the scene.....Well firstly I have a question....I am too young so I asking is it considered to be inappropriate for a daughter to ask for money from her father after marriage?....I know that the son-in-law doesn't consider it right to ask for it..and if at all the need be it is taken as a loan ..which is to repaid...I have also seen that after a certain point...when the son becomes independent...if the son asks for money even from his father ...he usually returns the money back at some later point....
Now what I really appreciated komal for is ..she didn't let the thakurs know of the real reason for the money...she only said that it is for her needs...and I really appreciate her for not divulging the real reasons...But yes taking the money from sajjan singh has really hurt the self -respect of the saxenas ...and they would rather die than ask for help from the thakurs...But what komal did was realistic as well...I mean they are bankrupt...so they have to take a loan from someone...and komal coming from a rich family....naturally asked for the money from her father...as according to her if they take from someone else ..they will have to repay it...but if she asks her father....then there is no reason for them to pay back...I think Komal did what she think is right considering her limited understanding....That's what I want to know...if it is right for a father to send her daughter some money even after marriage ...then I think komal did nothing wrong ...her father gave her some money...and she spent it the way she wanted to...if it is to repay the debt then be it....
But then it becomes a different case if after marriage...that it's not in the right of the daughter to ask for money from her father....then she has taken a loan from sajjan singh as adarsh's wife...and it's only appropriate that sooner or later she or adarsh will have to repay it...
I hope I have made sense considering my limiting understanding in such serious issues 😊
BTW ....I really wish there is some groW*H in komarsh relationship....adarsh only has one line with komal...u just shut up komal, u won't understand.... .....then why can't he make her understand?? And saxes are in for a tough time ahead if komal turns into a hitler...😕
Poooja,
Perception differs on the validity of the Money Transfer ..when the Sasural is flush with cash and if the Sasural still asks Money from Girl's Maika..Then it is Greed and Dowry Harassment..If a Girl asks despite Sasural being comfortably off ..Then it is a case of insulting the Sasural by Girl's Parents.
However In this case Ss did not donate voluntarily, infact he even refused to give the money , he relented only after Komal said give my Diwali gift ..and To Komal's credit..she never once mentioned the deteriorating condition of Sax..She maintained the dignity of her Sasural, which must have been a tough thing to do for a girl brought up in comforts ..Yet she did it.. second , she did not use one paise from the Gift for her own selfish use..she gave it all to the Shop keeper..and there speaks a girl with Self respect...
I really thought she had a valid point when she asks, U think it is humiliating to ask Money from my own flesh and blood..but u do not think it is insulting and humiliating if some third person comes and shouts , demeaning us in a public road..Seen from that perspective, what Komal did was quite logical and decisive..she used her resources for maximum benefit ..
Arjun
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