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elle45

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Posted: 14 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo
Two things correctly pointed
pratigya is the epitome of Hypocrisy. Has different rules for Krishna and the thakurs and different rules for her family
I can't relate to her because as you said NOTHING IS DONE OUT OF LOVE when it comes to Krishan and his family, its all about what is right but in reality most of the time its the other way round. Real people make sacrifices and we have seen her make sacrifices when she decided to marry Krishna so she is quite capable of doing so. She sacrificed her life by marrying a gunda to save her family from any further ridicule because she loves them. Alth she believed she was taking revenge but come to think of it, she was lucky the gunda was Krishna if it had been someone like Angad she would have been abused , beaten abd turned into a submissive Kesar. So if she really loves her man why couldn't she sacrifice a moral for some time and then discuss it with him in the bedroom

Yes, we have seen her make that sacrifice. But maybe she's capable of sacrificing only for HER family, the Saxenas, and no one else.

You said just what I wanted to, she should have corrected Krishna in the bedroom later on. She never considers what people will think. In real life, when wives seem dominant over husbands in public, people start to make fun of the husband and ridicule him. She should be very careful, Krishna is a proud person.

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Originally posted by: elle45

I agree Hope. Prats is sticking to her core character. And I think we all agree she's not perfect and she does have several flaws in her personality. What bothers me is that the CVs are trying to portray her as the all-rounder perfect lady who really does love her husband, who really does care for her sasuraal, who really does not have a selfish bone in her body. This is not just for Pratigya, it's for all leading ladies on every TV serial that's ever been on air. Even their flaws are projected to us as their assets. Their mistakes are portrayed as their achievements.

You're also right about Krishna himself being the root of his problems. For one, I have never understood EXACTLY WHAT it is about Pratigya that he loves? Infact, I think I'll start a thread on it to see what people think it is? Sure, he fell for her looks, but why the deewaanapan to go against everything he believed in just to see her smile at him?It's a case of Love is Blind.... his eyes are opened sometimes, like today, but then he takes one look at her and goes crazy in love again? How long can he last on such a formula? I don't think this could be a secret to a lifelong happy relationship?

I really do feel bad for him though, he's given his everything for her, and yet he hasn't got much in return.

In my opinion, Pratigya is a horrible wife.

she is a good housekeeper and a good lover (I guess - he seems to be happy)

she does not relate to her husband as a person, she has no sense of loyalty, she does not put his interests over that of outsiders or family. she does not seek to do things for his betterment

she dresses him up like a chid. mends his clothes, does his laundry, cooks for him like a housekeeper and she makes love to him the way he wants to like a good lover.

bas

there is a ton more to being a wife than just being a housekeeper and a mate

the thing is (and I hate harping on the same tune) there is SO MUCH tolerance from krishna about her shortcomings as a wife that she has no motivation (from him) to improve on those shortcomings

he told her the other day - you have 121 days of humiliatiing me. he was right. problem is now that he knows this and he also knows that it bothers him and hurts him and weakens him emotionally what is he going to do about it?

accept sweet smiles, eyelocks and a few warm moments in the sack to appease his pain, humiliation and anger

his behaviour shows that he is so afraid to loss her that he refuses to make an issue of his expectations from her. everytime he drops it

honeslty he is a good husband. he may not be perfect but then anyone who expects that from their spouse is living in dream land.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: stillhopeful
you know before I used to get mad at her but now I am like Amma I get mad at him for allowing her to do this to him.

did they not show in sbs that they will eb going for AA engagement?

So I guess she was correct in beign super confident about her ability to get him to melt again

arre yaar jab apna hi sikkha kota hai toh dusron ko kya dosh deh😭

Lub your line! 😊 She'll bat an eyelash at him 😉 and he'll run to get dressed for the engagement. She does need a driver after all, and he's always been very good at providing her transport 😆

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damon_biteme

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: elle45
I agree Hope. Prats is sticking to her core character. And I think we all agree she's not perfect and she does have several flaws in her personality. What bothers me is that the CVs are trying to portray her as the all-rounder perfect lady who really does love her husband, who really does care for her sasuraal, who really does not have a selfish bone in her body. This is not just for Pratigya, it's for all leading ladies on every TV serial that's ever been on air. Even their flaws are projected to us as their assets. Their mistakes are portrayed as their achievements.

You're also right about Krishna himself being the root of his problems. For one, I have never understood EXACTLY WHAT it is about Pratigya that he loves? Infact, I think I'll start a thread on it to see what people think it is? Sure, he fell for her looks, but why the deewaanapan to go against everything he believed in just to see her smile at him?It's a case of Love is Blind.... his eyes are opened sometimes, like today, but then he takes one look at her and goes crazy in love again? How long can he last on such a formula? I don't think this could be a secret to a lifelong happy relationship?

I really do feel bad for him though, he's given his everything for her, and yet he hasn't got much in return.

Elle just loved your post. It irks me too that cvs don't have the guts to show that the lead protogonist is a normal human being with flaws with her and that has been the case in most hindi drama. they still follow things are either balck or white there is no grey. they made a very brave attempt with Krishna but now don't know how to grow his character that is why we are seeing a wuss.

In reality they have never highlighted what Krsihna loves about Pratigya. I never understood his deewanapan for her. Initially i used like it but then slowly started to hate it because i can't come in terms with anyone loving someone to such an extent that you give all your believes

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Originally posted by: elle45
Lub your line! 😊 She'll bat an eyelash at him 😉 and he'll run to get dressed for the engagement. She does need a driver after all, and he's always been very good at providing her transport 😆

the day he teaches her to drive, he will never see her again.

she will drive off into the sunset to save the universe

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: stillhopeful

In my opinion, Pratigya is a horrible wife.

she is a good housekeeper and a good lover (I guess - he seems to be happy)

she does not relate to her husband as a person, she has no sense of loyalty, she does not put his interests over that of outsiders or family. she does not seek to do things for his betterment

she dresses him up like a chid. mends his clothes, does his laundry, cooks for him like a housekeeper and she makes love to him the way he wants to like a good lover.

bas

there is a ton more to being a wife than just being a housekeeper and a mate

the thing is (and I hate harping on the same tune) there is SO MUCH tolerance from krishna about her shortcomings as a wife that she has no motivation (from him) to improve on those shortcomings

he told her the other day - you have 121 days of humiliatiing me. he was right. problem is now that he knows this and he also knows that it bothers him and hurts him and weakens him emotionally what is he going to do about it?

accept sweet smiles, eyelocks and a few warm moments in the sack to appease his pain, humiliation and anger

his behaviour shows that he is so afraid to loss her that he refuses to make an issue of his expectations from her. everytime he drops it

honeslty he is a good husband. he may not be perfect but then anyone who expects that from their spouse is living in dream land.

Hope thank u for speaking my mind or should i say writing my thoughts. Do Pratigya's duty stop at keeping his home tidy and satisfying the physical aspect of the relation. See elle pointed about reality and have to say in reality every woman wants her husband to constantly grow and on a personal level always try to help him to overcome his shortcomings if they refuse to do so they try to hide it. But Pratigya not only doesn't care a dime about her husbands groW*H but make sure she humiliates him in more than one way.😡

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

In my opinion, Pratigya is a horrible wife.

she is a good housekeeper and a good lover (I guess - he seems to be happy)

she does not relate to her husband as a person, she has no sense of loyalty, she does not put his interests over that of outsiders or family. she does not seek to do things for his betterment

she dresses him up like a chid. mends his clothes, does his laundry, cooks for him like a housekeeper and she makes love to him the way he wants to like a good lover.

bas

there is a ton more to being a wife than just being a housekeeper and a mate

the thing is (and I hate harping on the same tune) there is SO MUCH tolerance from krishna about her shortcomings as a wife that she has no motivation (from him) to improve on those shortcomings

he told her the other day - you have 121 days of humiliatiing me. he was right. problem is now that he knows this and he also knows that it bothers him and hurts him and weakens him emotionally what is he going to do about it?

accept sweet smiles, eyelocks and a few warm moments in the sack to appease his pain, humiliation and anger

his behaviour shows that he is so afraid to loss her that he refuses to make an issue of his expectations from her. everytime he drops it

honeslty he is a good husband. he may not be perfect but then anyone who expects that from their spouse is living in dream land.

Hope thank u for speaking my mind or should i say writing my thoughts. Do Pratigya's duty stop at keeping his home tidy and satisfying the physical aspect of the relation. See elle pointed about reality and have to say in reality every woman wants her husband to constantly grow and on a personal level always try to help him to overcome his shortcomings if they refuse to do so they try to hide it. But Pratigya not only doesn't care a dime about her husbands groW*H but make sure she humiliates him in more than one way.😡

Exactly ..thanks to both of you writing my thoughts and saving my energy😉 jokes apart

I started a poll, just know what people think about P as a wife and to my surprise , majority voted her as an excellent wife

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: stillhopeful

🤣 Hope you made my day. BTW She will not learn to drive from Krsihna as he might not teach her to follow the traffic rules and that is against her principles so Aman has got another job to do teach Pratigyaji how to drive. Hope, Mony, Aeryn, Elle thanks for writing your POV i have calm down so now I am off to bed got to go work tomorrow else won't get up
@ mony b4 going to sleep i will do the poll😉 and no points for guessing what i will vote for
gud nite
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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

@underline- Too bad for K becaue in that case she will never reach into the sunset .😆😆😆

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Originally posted by: MonyP

Hope thank u for speaking my mind or should i say writing my thoughts. Do Pratigya's duty stop at keeping his home tidy and satisfying the physical aspect of the relation. See elle pointed about reality and have to say in reality every woman wants her husband to constantly grow and on a personal level always try to help him to overcome his shortcomings if they refuse to do so they try to hide it. But Pratigya not only doesn't care a dime about her husbands groW*H but make sure she humiliates him in more than one way.😡

Exactly ..thanks to both of you writing my thoughts and saving my energy😉 jokes apart

I started a poll, just know what people think about P as a wife and to my surprise , majority voted her as an excellent wife

mony of course your poll would say that my dear. there are only a handful of krishna fans around. BTW, I cast my vote for really bad earlier today😆😆😆

the rest of the members are pratigya fans (who see her as flawless) and kriya fans (who see her as his saviour)

I have been watching this show for months now and even though I have been a very disappointed viewere i.e krishna's compromised personality, his inconsistent actions and his awful haircut and shirts - I watched it for Arhaan and his acting. I seriously like this actor - he is mature, thoughtful and is of a high acting calibre - a rare find.

yet since the last few days I am feeling that even Arhaan's exemplary performance is not enough to help me find this COMPROMISED WEAKENED krishna palatable.

I feel that one of these days I might drop this show

the romance does not move me anymore as there is no equality there, no respect between the partners and no desire on their part to improve their wedded future.

all we get is insipid eyelocks and then some drama that is more sensational that required

the outcomes of the tracks are predictable, pratigya is predictable and krishna is predictable

KC actually had a template that could fit any track

there are no grey characters anymore

all the characters have been made absolutes. either black or white.

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