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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know Hope, Baba will melt easily and hop we go in the same circle...I've actually said so in another thread.....and this is infuriating me to no end
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo



KC CVs will do NOTHING about krishna. he is a prop. if we remember this then we will not have expectations and we can ignore his constant plight and insults😃

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo



Elle we all feel that all those educted people do look down upon the Thakurs. Luckly the thakurs do not interact much with them but Krsihna ends up with them in one way or the other and always gets humiliated and that biwi of his lets this happen and most times join in without any remorse.
After seeing todays episode i wish Angads secret hadn't been revealed atleast i could understand her behaviour although never supported it but this i can't relate to. she claims to love him but then goes and apologises to the man who told her husband he should to be beaten. Which woman who claims to love her husband does that. I have always doubted her love for him infact i believe she has no love for him and just humours him.

Exactly KC! I can't understand this behaviour now. One day, one minnute, she's looking at him lovingly, enjoying every moment with him, and the next minute, she's scolding him in public, behaving in the exact same manner she used to before she loved him. Not meant to sound character bashing, but Pratigya sometimes seems to have some split personality disorder.
Pratigya seems to be living still by God knows what bookish Code of conduct, which only applies to Krishna and the Thakurs. It seems none of her decisions are made based on emotions, nothing is done OUT OF LOVE for someone, everything is done by what is RIGHT and what is WRONG, what is written in the code of conduct. For example today, when she sided with Aman and the thief against her husband, and even with Kesar, she's never helped her coz she loves her Didi, it's always based on her code. This is just not what a real person does. Real people make sacrifices for the people they love. Today Prats should have kept quiet, sacrificed some moral values, to side with her husband. But, her ADARSH are above all. I wonder where they were when she wanted her dad out of jail?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo



guys he has got this reality check several several times

it is not sinkign in.

she has humiliated him in front of T and C
she has humiliated him in front of his family
in front of her family
in front of everyone accumulated at the havan
in front of Allahabad townsfolk at the court
in front of Aman
and now in front of Allahabad townsfolk twice at the same Civil Lines market place

How many more instances does he need before it sinks in

I thought he was intelligent

is it blinders then?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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It looks like it Hope.....I must say in his case love is really blind
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Hope tomorrow he will melt again with her feminine charms and her deep eyes and he will be rendered useless again.
you bet.
I don't understand why they ruin male lead character in order to show female char. stronger. Heros are so good until they fall in love, they become puppies once they do
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: stillhopeful

you know what KC forget about it let's just discuss here. the convo has a momentum - let's keep it going.

My take. BTW I have not seen teh epi just read gees update😳

the monkey never learns - This is something that Raymond baron from everybody loves raymond says about himself when he is hoodwinked again by his wife.

while I don't think Krishna is a monkey😆😆 I think the phrase and sentiment applies.

Krishna never learms where Prats is concerned.

He always supports Prats unconditionally and assumes she will do the same.

Honestly what he said in the hospital was so true tumhe mein aur hum mein bahut faraq hai.

there is a difference. Krishna loves her and respects her as a person

She loves the attention he gives her and finds him quirky and like a novelty but she does not respect him as a person

I had predicted this outcome and I hate it when I am right

but today I feel no sympathy for Krishna. thoiugh I love him as a character

he has dug this hole for himself. he wanted someone passionately without knowing if that passion, adoration and respect was going to be returned.

tomorrow he will melt again with her feminine charms and her deep eyes and he will be rendered useless again.

I don't blame Pratigya. seriously i don't. she has not strayed away from her core character. she is as oblivious as she was before

I blame Krishna for the mess he finds himself in.

    Who told him to drink the water? Who told him to support her in all family fueds unequivocally when his own position on the issue was different?
  • Who told him to seek her opinion and her constant approval and respect?

No one. he is doing this to himself.

Who told him to give this immense power and control over himself to a person who does not value or understand the gift being given?

No one. he is doing this to himself.

Where pratigya is concerned, krishna is wearing a big sign on his back which says Aa beyl mujhe maar or Aa pratigya mujhe maar

you just watch KC tomorrow he will melt again.

he needs her to constantly insult him to realise his own self worth

I think Arushi advised the wrong spouse about unequivocal spousal support. She was speaking to the converted (krishna). she should have advised the priestess preaching to the choir.

I agree Hope. Prats is sticking to her core character. And I think we all agree she's not perfect and she does have several flaws in her personality. What bothers me is that the CVs are trying to portray her as the all-rounder perfect lady who really does love her husband, who really does care for her sasuraal, who really does not have a selfish bone in her body. This is not just for Pratigya, it's for all leading ladies on every TV serial that's ever been on air. Even their flaws are projected to us as their assets. Their mistakes are portrayed as their achievements.
You're also right about Krishna himself being the root of his problems. For one, I have never understood EXACTLY WHAT it is about Pratigya that he loves? Infact, I think I'll start a thread on it to see what people think it is? Sure, he fell for her looks, but why the deewaanapan to go against everything he believed in just to see her smile at him?It's a case of Love is Blind.... his eyes are opened sometimes, like today, but then he takes one look at her and goes crazy in love again? How long can he last on such a formula? I don't think this could be a secret to a lifelong happy relationship?
I really do feel bad for him though, he's given his everything for her, and yet he hasn't got much in return.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: elle45

Exactly KC! I can't understand this behaviour now. One day, one minnute, she's looking at him lovingly, enjoying every moment with him, and the next minute, she's scolding him in public, behaving in the exact same manner she used to before she loved him. Not meant to sound character bashing, but Pratigya sometimes seems to have some split personality disorder.

Pratigya seems to be living still by God knows what bookish Code of conduct, which only applies to Krishna and the Thakurs. It seems none of her decisions are made based on emotions, nothing is done OUT OF LOVE for someone, everything is done by what is RIGHT and what is WRONG, what is written in the code of conduct. For example today, when she sided with Aman and the thief against her husband, and even with Kesar, she's never helped her coz she loves her Didi, it's always based on her code. This is just not what a real person does. Real people make sacrifices for the people they love. Today Prats should have kept quiet, sacrificed some moral values, to side with her husband. But, her ADARSH are above all. I wonder where they were when she wanted her dad out of jail?



Two things correctly pointed
pratigya is the epitome of Hypocrisy. Has different rules for Krishna and the thakurs and different rules for her family
I can't relate to her because as you said NOTHING IS DONE OUT OF LOVE when it comes to Krishan and his family, its all about what is right but in reality most of the time its the other way round. Real people make sacrifices and we have seen her make sacrifices when she decided to marry Krishna so she is quite capable of doing so. She sacrificed her life by marrying a gunda to save her family from any further ridicule because she loves them. Alth she believed she was taking revenge but come to think of it, she was lucky the gunda was Krishna if it had been someone like Angad she would have been abused , beaten abd turned into a submissive Kesar. So if she really loves her man why couldn't she sacrifice a moral for some time and then discuss it with him in the bedroom

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MonyP

@Hope tomorrow he will melt again with her feminine charms and her deep eyes and he will be rendered useless again.

you bet.
I don't understand why they ruin male lead character in order to show female char. stronger. Heros are so good until they fall in love, they become puppies once they do




you know before I used to get mad at her but now I am like Amma I get mad at him for allowing her to do this to him.

did they not show in sbs that they will eb going for AA engagement?

So I guess she was correct in beign super confident about her ability to get him to melt again

arre yaar jab apna hi sikkha kota hai toh dusron ko kya dosh deh😭

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