Is calling ones hubby 'aap' that important? - Page 4

Originally posted by: siinnce.09

No way! I don't even understand the whole theory of 'aap' and 'tum!' They should do what I would do and say 'Oi You!' whilst chucking my shoe at him in order to get his attention. 🤣

I am not married by the way so don't actually think I do throw my shoes at people. 🤣

you mean to say, 'Oi Maan' 😉 😆
n then throwing ur shoe or rather urself on him 🤣

Originally posted by: kaasshh

wooww is it?😳😳😳 ur dad is no less than a hero.....😳👏

well i dnt know much abt these thngs coz my mom and dad are divorced....and live in separate flats of the same building coz of us...(me and my bro)....i dnt feel bad abt it now...coz i get both of their support wenevr i want.....😊

I know... n I realized the importance of these things after watching DDLJ n then I noticed that even my papa kept the fast when mummy did 😳

oh! I can understand and it is gr8 that ur parents think for u n ur bro and are willing to do this for both of u!

Originally posted by: dkmystery

I know... n I realized the importance of these things after watching DDLJ n then I noticed that even my papa kept the fast when mummy did 😳

oh! I can understand and it is gr8 that ur parents think for u n ur bro and are willing to do this for both of u!

yaa...i love my parents.....🤗

4 ppl voted for 'Yes'😲 Pls bother to explain

Originally posted by: shruthiR

4 ppl voted for 'Yes'😲 Pls bother to explain

5 now, n I still haven't got answers 😕 😆

Originally posted by: soapbubble

I voted for no - I mean, it's not that important.
Frankly I don't care between aap and tum - both are equally sweet and depends on the family and community. When I first heard parents call small children 'aap' I was surprised but then came to understand that it's just a way some families have and it's sweet.

What I find a complete put off is couples not using the right name - sunoji or bantu ka papa etc 😆.
WHy why? Naam hai to use karo na? Faaltu notions of respect and sounds plain silly.
BTW, I LOVE simply LOVE the way Pratigya calls Krishna - "Krishnaa!" muh kholke, with all her energy - it feels very romantic to me even when she's yelling at him 😳
Bubble

ok, ur post made me remember an epi. of 'Balika Vadhu' where Anandi the kid bahu is ordered by the dadi to not address Jagya (her hubby) by his name... so Anandi tries to get what her MIL n her mom call their husbands
Her MIL is: Jagya k bapu
her mom: Anandi k bapu
so she goes to her MIL and asks now whose bapu shall I call Jagya 🤣

n remember that all the while Anandi n Jagya are not even 14... 😆 😆

Originally posted by: dkmystery

5 now, n I still haven't got answers 😕 😆

I wonder why these ppl aren't explaining the reason behind voting for 'Yes'😆

Originally posted by: shruthiR

I wonder why these ppl aren't explaining the reason behind voting for 'Yes'😆

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I n my hubby calls each other 'Tum' we dont hav any prob but my in laws sure think its Bad....