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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

If u think so optimistji .

Me thinks she demands far too much . Forget Krishna , in reality , no guy , even educated will tolerate it .He will get fed up .It looks nice on TV thhough .😊

I agree, In reality she would have been killed or raped by now if someone would have made a decision like her to marry a leading goon of the town. But since its a TV show the leading gunda of Allahabad is an unreal gunda type, hence she is still alive.

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

It is really intresting to read both the point of views. I agree with Kools on one thing trust in a marriage takes time. Just because our parents have found us an educated, cultured and well mannered man doesn't mean that the level of trust is there. To trust someone you have to know some one and i really don't think in arranged marriage girls really know the groom. Most women who marry into arrange marriage consumate their marriage quite early not because they trust their husband at certain level but it is the most basic way of bonding.

well what i am happy about is KriYa is starting on a good note of friendship.... but for prats letting krishna touch her will take sometime because she doesn't know him well....its actually now she got to know that krishna is innocent and all those things were done by angad....she will slowly learn that her husband krishna acts as tough and rough outside but deep down he is very soft...clean-hearted man....its his upbringing that hides all his golden values.......and the main part that krishna loves her madly and his life and soul only revolves around her.....

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Precisely . When they consummate with their hubbies , they Hardly KNOW the man . Most marraiges in UP Bihar hometowns take place this way and we saw Pratigya entertaining one such marraige by the Indian Standard book . I did NOT see her telling the Prof That I need a long engagement , I need to know the guy this that AT ALL . Just one meeting or two and hey presto she was in the engagement hall . Most arrange marraiges are literally LOTTERIES.........NIKAL GAYI TOH NIKAL GAYI . And so I find her Friendship phase ............umm.......enjoyable , and u guys r gonna throw tomatoes at me for saying this , but hypocritcal .

No tomatoes, why ?? its nice to know and understand a differing POV.

Originally posted by: Mages

well what i am happy about is KriYa is starting on a good note of friendship.... but for prats letting krishna touch her will take sometime because she doesn't know him well....its actually now she got to know that krishna is innocent and all those things were done by angad....she will slowly learn that her husband krishna acts as tough and rough outside but deep down he is very soft...clean-hearted man....its his upbringing that hides all his golden values.......and the main part that krishna loves her madly and his life and soul only revolves around her.....

she will try to understand krishna first before going to next step that is consumating of their marriage....before consumating she needs to fall in love with him which she will definetly...a ray of hope is given....

i am already loving the positive vibes that prags is giving krishna nowdays...with time krishna too will change into a responsible man....and understand more about marriage......

and yes yaar i agree....there is no such thing of called perfect marriage....marriage can be perfect if husbands-wives tries to make it by understanding each other...trusting each other and being loyal to each other.....it can be perfect if husbands-wives tries to work on it with their soul and life...and i am sure KriYa can make their marrriage perfect if they try to work it out....

Now this is exactly what i was saying all along, makes sense, hence fully agreed.👍🏼

Nice post Kools, I agree with many of the things you said. Serials always show that a good husband is one who sleeps on the sofa and allows himself to be at his wife's mercy.

the best way to balance this out ethically, romantically and logically- (not going by the story of the serial, but in general about this consummation thing) would I think be if the husband herself gives her some time to be comfortable with his touch, and by some time I don't mean several months like they show in serials, just a few initial days till the hesitation is gone and again I don't mean sleeping on sofa- sleep together, hang out have fun, get comfortable slowly- you know, hold hands, then sides, then hug, then kiss etc., let the flame ignite first, then flare up.

But then again, I don't know if men think this much about women.

Excellent post Kool. I totally agree. Every word that the Gunda said was very valid . Pratigya didn't know how to answer them . He is so adorable . I really like this guy . He has a pure heart . What is in his heart is what he says ...

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Nice post Kools, I agree with many of the things you said. Serials always show that a good husband is one who sleeps on the sofa and allows himself to be at his wife's mercy.

the best way to balance this out ethically, romantically and logically- (not going by the story of the serial, but in general about this consummation thing) would I think be if the husband herself gives her some time to be comfortable with his touch, and by some time I don't mean several months like they show in serials, just a few initial days till the hesitation is gone and again I don't mean sleeping on sofa- sleep together, hang out have fun, get comfortable slowly- you know, hold hands, then sides, then hug, then kiss etc., let the flame ignite first, then flare up.

But then again, I don't know if men think this much about women.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Excellent post Kool. I totally agree. Every word that the Gunda said was very valid . Pratigya didn't know how to answer them . He is so adorable . I really like this guy . He has a pure heart . What is in his heart is what he says ...

I watch 2 Tv shows , this and Pavitra Rishta . Of all the characters , I like Krishna the most .... he is brilliant .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

No they don't . They r from Mars , remember ? And we r from Venus .And thats what we shud always remember when we marry , that if we start to change them and make them from Venus , it won't happen that way . Men r always , 90% of the time , more excited about sex than women , dont really like long long emotional talks like women , like women looking upto them for protection and are sensitive about manhood and issues pertaining to it . They too are emotional but it comes later , AFTER the sexual phase , in arranged marraiges .The Physical intimacy [ without even really knowing each other] is the basic bond that brings man woman close and then the man starts noticing the woman on an emotional level too , her likes , dislikes , her wishes , Her dreams . He notices this in a pleased frame of mind coz she has gratified him physically . He starts responding to her emotionally and the emotional bonding occurs .

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