So Pratigya agreed to lie - Page 5

Originally posted by: rightchoice

Tell you what, people will be rejoicing that Pratigya did not forget the past and she will continue giving cold shoulder to Krishna...

Let us see what is the difference between the lie she was asked to tell by Krsihna and now by her father...
1. Krishna asked to tell it to please his family...
2. Professor has asked keep the truth hidden to safeguard her marriage. What marriage? marriage based on the lie? Who is going to believe her later if she says nothing had happened...? People will ask, if nothing had happened then why it was hidden at first place?

So even if we have to think OK, the two scenarios are different, she created more havoc for a petty lie which could have been resolved in private....

She opposed to lie then and started hating Krishna even more
Now, she opposed her father feebly, but agreed to hide the truth.

She had nerve to tell in front of every one that Krishna made her to lie. Will she have the same audacity to declare her dad had asked to keep the matter secrete when this comes out?

I am totally disappointed in the way truth was revealed...this girl has no remorse for treating Krishna like that....
It is like her saying, "OK, he did not do what I thought was a crime, but he is still at fault. I am going to punish him for the smallest to smallest mistake he committed..."

This girl has no introspection for treating KRISHNA like a dog...

Wah beta! This girl is a master manipulator. She plays the game rather well with her coyness, her lack of empathy, remorse or understanding for treating not just any man but the one she volunteered to marry to save her sister from daily hysterical outbursts. Her hypocrisy shines like the summer sun, she is blinded by her thirst for revenge. Psychologists will have a field day analyzing a person like her.

Here's how I see Pratigya's behavior based on a recent incident. Pratigya is a girl who has unresolved anger against her father. He is strong on principles but weak, fearful and helpless and flip-flops on issues based on his present state of mind. One minute he threw his daughter out of the house, next he was begging her to lie. His younger daughter was missing and he was sitting there as if he was worried as if the milkman being late was delaying his first cup of chai for the day. Where was the terrified father who would have left the house, rain or shine. to look for his daughter, called the police, anything?When reality shows up on his door step he is the weakest link in the household. Every little thing that happens, he sits down like he is about to have a stroke and the family hovers around him. As the head of the family he is a complete wuzz. His son has learned nothing from his father's weakness and treads the same path.

They say one chooses a spouse who similar or the polar opposite of the parent they have unresolved issues with. Krishna is the opposite of Prof. in so many ways. He is loyal, fearless and litrearily stands up to and for what he believes in. Often people don't value what they have until they lose it or are faced with the threat of losing it. Maybe Krishna walking out on her at some point will be the wake up call she so desperately needs. He deserves more than what she has been willing to give him. Even after the truth about Angad's crimes came to light, Prats is still looking for reasons why she should fight to hold on to her faltu power and make Krishna pay for the crimes of every man out there who has ever wronged a woman. Did she ever think that sometimes what a man does is a direct reaction to what the woman has done to instigate matters?

Until the day I see Prats really make the effort to reflect and attempts to right her own wrongdoings, she is on probation as far as I'm concerned. It's difficult to respect a woman who in her quest or power is bent on ruining an innocent man. A who has done nothing but loved her in his own way, respected her wishes more often than not, stood by her always even against the family that loves him, who is willing to give her the world all in return for just an emotional connection with her and a little love..............Love that only requires a willingness to feel and give and doesn't cost a penny. UGH! When will she ever learn?

Mera:

I did not feel there was anything else I could add to what you have said so I used emoticons😃

Hope

This post is not meant to ruffle feathers. So if you are someone who will defend anything or everything that has Prats's name on it just bec' she is a girl (notice I didn't call her woman intentionally) then I kindly request you give this post a pass and continue on........

For those of you willing to hear a different point of view..............here it comes.

When Krishna tells Prats to keep up the pretense of being pregnant, she explodes at him that this lie will hurt your family and when the lie comes out it will be your fault and your fault only. I don't want to lie to them to which Krishna responded with a choke hold. She is a master at pushing him to his limits of tolerance with her verbal onslaught when she does not approve of his choices.

Let's list her lies so far when some of them are truths hidden with the intention to mislead or deceive

Slapping Angad on train (Prof. knew, was in cahoots with her to hide from rest of the family)
Hid Angad circling their rickshaw
Hid Angad chasing them down the gullies
Hid kite invitation and thank you note for coffee date
Hid love note and gave balcony darshan
Hid truth about sari gift
Lied about meeting Nitin at restaurant
Hid Krishna meeting her at Nitin's house

Since the wedding:

Hid Krishna's stabbing from sasural (at his insistence initially but was later forced to call for help)
Hid truth about reason for Krishna getting stabbed (it would have hurt her with inlaws)
Hid Kesar 's pregnancy from inlaws until Sakthi tried to abort his child
Played along with Krishna to lie about pregnancy until the havan
Hid the Angad confrontation from Krishna
Hid her behavior (slapping) toward Angad from Krishna (even after he asked them pointblank)
Promised to keep the truth from Krishna (again with her father's blessings)

Will it ever end with this girl? Hiding and lying seems to come naturally to her. She never thinks of how her actions impact others except when it 's Arushi. As far as she is concerned Krishna could go tel lene for all she cares.

The truth will out itself eventually. Truth will set itself free. What will she do then? How does she defend her position and explain to Krishna later on when he asks her how she could give him the third degree for lying about a fake pregnancy to make his father happy which really didn't threaten anyone's life? How does she defend her promise to her father to lie to him when the entire premise for their marriage was based on her reaction to the kidnapping and affected how she saw Krishna and treated him bec' of it? It directly impacted his life, his marriage, his happiness from the day of the marriage. Her defense will hold no water. She will be proven to be, as Krishna said it right at her engagement to Nitin...............EK DUM JHOOTI. She is going to have a very hard time wiggling her way out of this mess which is guaranteed to come.

The creators better not make Krishna into a wuzz like Prof. and Adarsh to show a woman with jooti-izzat. It will send a wrong message to the very women they want to teach a few life's lessons through this show.

Okay Meraria
Loved both the posts and totally agree with what u have written. I wld have added my comments but i am intrested in writing posts in your other thread abt maths. I am loving it

But this what i can say for this post
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from what i have seen in the serial there is still no love blossoming betn p and k. it is still onesided. and their marital relationship was based on mistrust and hatred. i think the kidnapping fact will come up again (that's what creatives do) when their relationship slowly starts getting better. but whether now or later the ball will always be in krishna's court. both k and p don't trust each other as of now. so now it all depends on krishna whether he chooses to believe the love of his life or get really angry with her for not telling him and decides to believe angad. now if he really loves pratigya he should believe in her always whether the truth is revealed now or later.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

This post is not meant to ruffle feathers. So if you are someone who will defend anything or everything that has Prats's name on it just bec' she is a girl (notice I didn't call her woman intentionally) then I kindly request you give this post a pass and continue on........

For those of you willing to hear a different point of view..............here it comes.

When Krishna tells Prats to keep up the pretense of being pregnant, she explodes at him that this lie will hurt your family and when the lie comes out it will be your fault and your fault only. I don't want to lie to them to which Krishna responded with a choke hold. She is a master at pushing him to his limits of tolerance with her verbal onslaught when she does not approve of his choices.

Let's list her lies so far when some of them are truths hidden with the intention to mislead or deceive

Slapping Angad on train (Prof. knew, was in cahoots with her to hide from rest of the family)
Hid Angad circling their rickshaw
Hid Angad chasing them down the gullies
Hid kite invitation and thank you note for coffee date
Hid love note and gave balcony darshan
Hid truth about sari gift
Lied about meeting Nitin at restaurant
Hid Krishna meeting her at Nitin's house

Since the wedding:

Hid Krishna's stabbing from sasural (at his insistence initially but was later forced to call for help)
Hid truth about reason for Krishna getting stabbed (it would have hurt her with inlaws)
Hid Kesar 's pregnancy from inlaws until Sakthi tried to abort his child
Played along with Krishna to lie about pregnancy until the havan
Hid the Angad confrontation from Krishna
Hid her behavior (slapping) toward Angad from Krishna (even after he asked them pointblank)
Promised to keep the truth from Krishna (again with her father's blessings)

Will it ever end with this girl? Hiding and lying seems to come naturally to her. She never thinks of how her actions impact others except when it 's Arushi. As far as she is concerned Krishna could go tel lene for all she cares.

The truth will out itself eventually. Truth will set itself free. What will she do then? How does she defend her position and explain to Krishna later on when he asks her how she could give him the third degree for lying about a fake pregnancy to make his father happy which really didn't threaten anyone's life? How does she defend her promise to her father to lie to him when the entire premise for their marriage was based on her reaction to the kidnapping and affected how she saw Krishna and treated him bec' of it? It directly impacted his life, his marriage, his happiness from the day of the marriage. Her defense will hold no water. She will be proven to be, as Krishna said it right at her engagement to Nitin...............EK DUM JHOOTI. She is going to have a very hard time wiggling her way out of this mess which is guaranteed to come.

The creators better not make Krishna into a wuzz like Prof. and Adarsh to show a woman with jooti-izzat. It will send a wrong message to the very women they want to teach a few life's lessons through this show.

And thats precisely my point..if she is so depressed , stay forever at maayka na. Take divorce .Why r u going back ? So many days u stayed , yesterday those biradari supporters too had come .Take their help and stay at maayka and start divorce proceedings .Election time hai , SS wont do a thing to jeopardise his image .Why r u going back , to make him more miserable and also affect adarsh Komal marraige ? Bluntly take a stand . HUME NAHI JAANA.

Originally posted by: limits

Limitji, Thanks 😊 you saved me the hassle of responding. your responses clearly making a lot of sense.👏

Originally posted by: SAM2U

Limitji, Thanks 😊 you saved me the hassle of responding. your responses clearly making a lot of sense.👏

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

And thats precisely my point..if she is so depressed , stay forever at maayka na. Take divorce .Why r u going back ? So many days u stayed , yesterday those biradari supporters too had come .Take their help and stay at maayka and start divorce proceedings .Election time hai , SS wont do a thing to jeopardise his image .Why r u going back , to make him more miserable and also affect adarsh Komal marraige ? Bluntly take a stand . HUME NAHI JAANA.

boy! if at all she is able to escape from krishna by doing above thing it would be a dream come true for her! phir toh krishna ke pyaar ki haar hogi par krishna haarne walon mein se nahin hain !!! but honestly do u think that an obsessed and possessed lover would let her live in peace? marriage or no marriage divorce or no divorce krishna has a powerful influence over pratigya's life be it for good or worst. accepting him in her life and his transformation is the real challenge to her character and she will definitely do that as she has no other option. she will never be able to break free from krishna that easily.