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Posted: 15 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: dkmystery


seriously mate, I don't understand why educated members( I think they are coz they are able to type in their views) are so against education that they jump on it every time? 😆 I'm sure these are frustrated kids fed up of school 🤣
n me too am not an ideal woman by these standards! should I cry or or should i be glad? 😕 😆

See like the serial Pratigya here too people are confused with education.
So if I go by Pratigya rules if you are educated you are allowed to twist the situations or the righteous things according to what suits you.
If Pratigya was so right why she couldn't tell things to her husband. This thing was related to Krishna as till now she believed that he kidnapped her.
Why she did not tell him about her kidnaping...becasue this would raise fingers on her...
Till now we have seen the EDUCATED behaviour of all the so called educated persons in Sucksena house....Even Shayam ji said what we have done to deserve this kind of kids.
Adarsh - Does not even care about his wife,...hasn't called her or gone to get her..Hiding stuff from his wife..so that one of their family member is not hurt.
Pratigya - Can not take care of the marriage...the marriage to which she agreed....to take revenge...so the educated people make mockery of the institution called marriage..
So if not Lying it is HIDING that is the best quality of Pratigya and her family....
Edited by lovanika - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Why wud she care IF the marraige broke ?she doesn't love Krishna anyways .....not even after knowing he was not behind the kidnapping . He was sumone fORCED upon her by tragic fate , right ? So why care ? Let It break ! Good riddance to bad rubbish ! Good riddance to the man who caught her throat , tried to rape her , involved her in a lie ! This was the PERFECT opportunity to get rid of him .......a god given one !
Why didnt the Sherni have the guts to question her father Dad , what marraige r u trying to save ? I dont really have one !It was a bad marraige from day one ! To save something , something has to exist , we never had anything on any level ! So U know what , I dont care if he breaks the marraige , Im gonna tell him the truth ! If he Kills Angad thats his problem and btw , it will be beneficial for us and Arushi !I have nothing to lose !
I wud really admire her then . But she admits to her mom that inspite of the kidnapping being cleared , Im still not in love with him and perhaps may never be . And then agrees to her Dads request !
😆😆😆

exactly 👏 👏 👏...this point i have raised in may posts. i don't under stand Why wud she care IF the marraige broke...she is bold and beautiful ...no need to worry about the socity...just break the marrige and get rid of him...you know what some may say krishna will not allow her to do so...oh come on ....yet another lame excuse....girrr
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Posted: 15 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

There is a story in the Mahabharatha about Yudhishtir , the eldest Pandava who was known for his Truthful nature .His Glory was that he NEVER lied in his life . So In the Mahabharatha war , when the rumor was circulated purposefully to weaken DRona , that his son Ashwathama was dead , Drona , not knowing what the truth was , went to Yudhistir , confident that HE wud never lie although he was in the enemy camp . He asked him , is this true ? Did my son die today ?
Yudhistir answered YES loudly and in a very low tone said ........NAROVA KUNJAROVA ........meaning , the human or elephant [ there was an elephant named Ashwathama too ] I dont know . To Keep Yudhistir's vow of truth intact so TECHNICALLY he should not lie , Krishna had an elephant called Ashwatyhama killed .
Drona tottered away , after hearing the YES . Trained By Krishna , YUdhistir was technically 'saved' from LYING .
The Gods did not see it that way . During his last journey to death , He was made to stand outside the gates of heaven and made answerable for this LIE .

👏 👏 👏i just love this example....but i wonder how many of them in this forum know about mahabharath and ramayan...😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

But where the dignity of your husband is concerned , strip it naked in public ! That is no sanskaar ! Give examples of holy fires and how wrong it is to lie in front of them !
The marraige holy fire and the mantras that it seems one hardly even understands .............taking a vow verbally there that I will give my husband happiness forever ......it is ok to manipulate tHAT HOLY fire with excuses like .........ummm........The priest said the mantras !Not Pratigya ! Or ......does Krishna the unpadh know the meaning of the mantras ? So how r u blaming Pratigya for toying with the mantras ? Now that vow before that holy fire was taken but NOT observed and NAFRAT is my AGENDA was revealed on suhaag Raat Night !

👏 👏 👏this is my favourite quoting...i have mention this in many posts . some were asking me you are a muslim how do you know about all those rituals.....come on ...first i am an indian then comes my religion. i respect other religion (that doesn't mean i worship other religion...i hope people know the difference between respect and worship...😆) and i love my country's culture...😃
Edited by shumi. - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#35
@ koolsadhu1000l, You are so right. I could not have done it better. You are fantastic in proving the point. 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: SAM2U



Well professor took wachan from her that she should not to tell Krishna. Where did you got this notion that he was asking her to lie. 😲



Sometimes hiding the truth knowing it will make a huge difference translates to a lie, for without it the scenario changes.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shumi.

👏 👏 👏this is my favourite quoting...i have mention this in many posts . some were asking me you are a muslim how do you know about all those rituals.....come on ...first i am an indian then comes my religion. i respect other religion (that doesn't mean i worship other religion...i hope people know the difference between respect and worship...😆) and i love my country's culture...😃



So true! Limiting oneself to the a narrow view of the worldly knowledge out there only narrows one's thinking. The purpose of education is to expand one's knowledge base and reflect and analyze the facts to broaden one's thinking. We don't have to experience everything in life to understand what it means or how it feels, that is why we have books written by those who have had different experiences so we can understand them and the world around them better.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

Hey Lovanika
I was abt to start a similar topic with a slight different title: 'It matters who tells u to lie'

To be honest with u me and Meraria have been discussing the future tracks since Krishna and Pratigya's wedding. I knew it then that she will find abt the kidnapping b4 krishna and wldn't care to share the information with him whatever be her reasons

U said it correct when krishna asked her to lie there was this lecture how it will hurt his parents when they find out abt the truth so where was the logic today. I didn't see her contesting her dad's advice that when krishna will find out abt the truth he will be more hurt and cause problems in her married life which is your major concern. Does she think the matter is done and dusted and if that is the case she hasn't assessed Angad's character properly😕

Okay forget her double standards what abt the humanitarian aspect. After the way she has treated him for past few months due to the misunderstanding doesn't he deserve to know the truth especially if it concerns his life. I am not expecting her to fall in love with him immediately but she can atleast tell him the reasons for her hatred towards him.

The professor, had an opportunity today to sit down with krishna and tell him the truth. Even pratz still have time to telll krishna the truth, hope she have a conscious when she go back to the mansion.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#39

I agree with on just one thing. I feel Prats was wrong in accepting her dad's kasam abt not telling Krishna. I wanted her to tell him and deal with the consequences' hopefully he would have divorced her and she could have lived in peace! 🥱 But no! Professor has to go and ruin everything again with these stupid lectures!!! Why does he always have to open his mouth at the wrong time!! Grrr!!! 😡

But I don't think its right to compare Krishna's lie with this. Prats told her dad that she feels she should tell him and she did the same thing with Krishna. There is a huge difference between them. She loves her dad and idolizes him and that's why when he said that "maine tumse jada duniya dekhi hai and meri baat mano" she obeyed him. Whereas in Krishna's case - she hates the guy and has no trust in him or his stupid decisions so she didn't listen to him. Most of us have this faith in our parents that they can't be wrong and that's how Prats is.... she has no idea that her dad is a fool 😆

Profesor ji told her not to tell Krishna coz he has seen his behavior and he doesn't trust him at all!! I am not saying he is right but Prats will obviously listen to her dad right? IF she hadn't everyone would have been accusing that she doesn't respect her dad!

I am not sure if I am watching the same show. When did Prats insult Krishna's family? 😕 She didn't even insult Krishna at first.... she kept telling him to own up but he didn't!!! SS started insulting her and she kept requesting Krishna to own up since it was HIS idea and HIS fault .. but he didn't! The brave Krishna kept mum! 😭 So in order to protect her self respect and to prove it to everyone that she's right she told every one the truth. Dunno if u remember the dirty statements that SS made that day. Why should Prats take that crap?? Just coz she is a woman?

We need to understand one thing that Prats is a human being just like SS , Krishna, Komal etc and she makes mistakes just like them. When she found out abt the kidnapping she accepted the fact that she was wrong in doubting Krishna and she doesn't hate him anymore. Let her make mistakes and learn from them. She made a mistake by accepting her dad's kasam, she'll suffer for it later and hopefully learn from it. Prats also has some flaws and I am sure she'll grow with time. She's not some devi she's a regular person like us and makes mistakes just like us so plz don't make her go through an agni pariksha for everything!! 😆



Edited by AlmostHonest - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#40
@ Kools wonderful post again
Loved the example from Mahabharat. How the only time Yudhishtar the actual epitome of truth unlike the female lead protogonist of this drama technically lie


She wants to do the right thing abt telling the truth to Krishna but her dad tells her not to do so as it will ruin her marriage.

You posed the questions correctlyt what marriage to save when the marraige doesn't exist. why did she tell her dad ' you have seen during the pooja what a facade i am living. why didn't she seize the opportunity to get out if the facade.


Again why didn't she listen to her dad when he told not to marry Krishna? Were her dad's experiences not trustworthy. She chooses to listen to her family when it suits her.

Edited by krishna_chalbo - 15 years ago

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