Originally posted by: lovanika
Pratigya keeps on doing stuff that makes me think how strong a character she has.
Is she even strong or just a girl who takes an easy way out....
Hmmm.... EASY WAY OUT, u say?
So, marrying Krishna was the EASIER WAY than commiting suicide, I suppose!
Going along with Krishna's lies and trying to make him understand that lying is not right was the EASIER WAY than being choked or r***d?
Speaking up in front of the MCP Thakurs was the EASIER WAY than just going along with Krishna's lies and faking the pregnancy forever!
Interfering in Shakti's attempt to kill Kesar's baby and saving the baby was the EASIER WAY for Pratigya to adjust in the ZOO!
IF u really think that what Pratigya went through was the EASY WAY, then I really dont want her to take the HARDER WAY - strong or NOT!😉
Part I - Krishna asks her to behave like pregnant and keep quiet. Tell a lie.
Pratigya's reaction: I will not do it...but she did it...then finding the right time to hit the iron when the blame went all on Krishna, he also got ridiculed in front of his family and friends, she insulted the family and then bang the easy way out - I will not live here in this house......She was safe...people applauded her for not scumbing to SS or Krishna...
IF I remember correctly, the whole blame went on Pratigya and she was labelled as the liar, and Krishna was one of the Thakurs who called her a liar as well! Krishna was blamed and ridiculed coz he couldnt FORCE himself on his wife or control the clutches of his wife!
So, Pratigya being ridiculed and accused for a lie that Krishna said, would have been better to u than Krishna being ridiculed for the foolish lie he started? Pratigya being slapped and humiliated would have been better than Krishna and his family being insulted for insulting a woman?
Right, so u r saying Kesar is the STRONG one, since she never opposed to the Thakurs' MCP ways and never have thought of leaving the Zoo with the hope of change in Shakti, someday and at the cost of the lives of 4 unborn babies? U think its that easy for a girl in an unfair society and an MCP family to declare that she is leaving her sasural?
Well, if thats the EASY WAY, then I am PROUD of Pratigya for avoiding the DIFFICULT WAY and be another Kesar! And yup! I applaud her for not succumbing to SS or Krishna - strong or NOT! I dont think Krishna would have EVER realized that slapping or beating up one's wife is NOT NORMAL, IF Pratigya had just taken the HARD WAY and stayed in the Zoo!😕
Part 2: Shayam ji tell her to hide the truth about her kidnapping..he also took ehr promise..she said it is not correct..but she still went ahead and gave ehr promise....After knowing that this matter is very delicate and now her izzat is at risk that seh spent a night with another man or her kidnapper seh is going to hide it from Krishna...
I understand that Pratigya letting Krishna know about the kidnapping incident is the right way and so did Pratigya! BUT how exactly did u expect Pratigya to refuse her parents when they r assuring her saying that they have seen more of the world than her and she should promise them? Its not her fault IF her parents are bent on misleading her!
And Why is her izzat at risk? Nothing happened to her and no matter when the truth comes out, IF Krishna decides to believe in his enemy than believing in his beloved wife, its not Pratigya's fault that Krishna's love is not strong enough!
BTW, I dont think there is ny lie or truth about the kidnapping COZ Krishna doesnt even KNOW about it! So, they all r just not letting Krishna know about the kidnapping! Its not like they r making up something (lies) to hide the kidnapping incident - atleast not yet!
Pratigya: How convinient. Lolzzz. I think IF Pratigya had told Krishna about the kidnapping incident, it would've been the EASY WAY coz, she would have done wat she wanted to do b4 her parents made her promise otherwise! NOW, that she has made the promise to her parents, she would be in dilemma and at unease for not letting Krishna know about the kidnapping! How is that convenient for/of her?😕
My question is if Pratigya is SOOOOO Strong and balanced girl then:
A- Whay she didnot refuse to be a part of this. For one, her parents assured her that it was the right thing to do by saying that sometimes hiding the truth by thinking of it as a lie is for one's happiness,🤢! They even told her HOW Krishna might kill Angad off or break his marriage with her... And also, by saying that they have seen more of the world than her, ie. they r better thinkers than her - yeah right!😒 NOW, u wont say Pratigya trusts Krishna (that he wont do ny such thing!) more than her parents, would u? And Krishna dint really do nything that would make her trust him and not believe in her parents words!
B - Why she did not lecture her dad about it. Its mainly coz of the reasons mentioned above, ie. her dad started with his OWN lectures b4 Pratigya could start her own!😉 NOW, u dint really think she would stand a chance when the opposition party is her own Prof. DaD, did u?😆
C- Why now she thinks it is ok to lie. Ohk! So wat EXACTLY is her LIE? DO u consider Pratigya NOT letting Krishna know about the kidnapping incident as a LIE? I thought lying was twisting the truth and so far, Pratigya has not done ny such thing! I mean, Krishna does not even know about the existence of the kidnapping and he will have to interrogate Pratigya, b4 Pratigya even starts to lie and refuse the kidnapping, right? Well, if Pratigya can lie about the mantras of the marriage, then, yeh toh kuch bhi nahin, right?😆
D- Why now Krishna should not know the truth. Apparently, Pratigya believes that her parents know about the world more than her, and according to them Krishna might kill Angad and might not believe that nothing happened to Pratigya and break off their marriage... AND I really dont blame her if she cant trust Krishna (COZ, I cant either!😆) that he would NOT kill Angad or believe in her TRUTH!
E- Will she SLAP her father when the truth comes out in public.
Hmmmm.... Are we watching the same serial? 😕😆 Or, do u expect a daughter who cares soo much about her dad's self-respect to follow Krishna's way?
F- Will she creat teh same drama in front of public but this time humulating her dad for her "rights" .."My dad is the one who told me to lie"..
Knowing that Pratigya is totally opposite of Krishna, I think she herself would rather be humiliated and insulted by the MCP Thakurs than dragging her family or dad in it!!! Duh! She dint even bring up the Thakurs and their MCP ways when the Politicians came upon their door and started blaming the Thakurs... So, I dont see how u expected her to put the blames on her own dad,😕, unless, u just dont want to see her POV, ofcourse!😆
I am wondering how conviently Pratigya changes her attitude. She is not consistant with it..
Oh HOW I wish Pratigya would change her attitude conveniently just like u said!!! I am really tired of her consistency & high tolerance levels!😆