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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: AlmostHonest



But even before the slap didn't he include Arushi in his revenge plan? I am sure if Prats hadn't been there he would have married the poor girl by force and the Saxenas wouldn't have been able to do anything abt it 🤢 So even before Prats slapped him he did target Arushi and he had been harassing the Saxena's too... If Kriya were his target than unko torture karta na why the Saxena's ? Now that the Saxena's know that he has no pics of Prats they can go and file a police complaint against him .. its not like he is some filthy rich guy with a great political backing like Krishna ' once he's in jail he'll rot there!!! 😡

I would have done the same! I remember that episode really well coz I got hooked to the show after that . Dunno if u have seen it.. Angad and his frnds kept harassing PRats and her frnds but she ignored them it's not like she just got up and slapped him! She chose to ignore a lot of their cheap remarks and crap but when they surrounded her in the passageway of the train and touched her inappropriately that's when she got scared. She kept telling them to stop but they kept laughing and Angad even grabbed her 🤢 that's when she slapped him. There was no TT around... TT to dur ki baat hai even the co passengers didn't help her out ... After she slapped him there was this one guy I guess who came and helped her and fought with those 3 guys. Tabhi the train reached some station and some policemen standing outside were called for help and then they arrested those 3 clowns!!! Koi TT nahi tha ... she was surrounded by 3 dirty cheap men who kept touching her!!!! ppl kept looking but nobody did anything so how was she supposed to run and hunt for a TT? It was some random local train I guess and that too UP ki I doubt they have such efficient TT's there and there was no one around anyway. She did the best she could in that situation IMO If some dirty guy dares to touch me I'll punch his face!! 😡



Like I said those guys were surrounding her and touching her inappropriately I don't think there was any room for her to run and find a TT there... I am not from UP either but I saw what was shown in the show and there was no TT dur dur tak. As far as I am concerned I would have done what she did had some guy behaved in such a disgustin manner with me 🤢

Even really sweet and peace loving ppl can lose their cool in certain situations 😳


I don't blame her 😆

He had his eyes on Prats that's why he went to Krishna for his help in kidnapping her so that he could rape her and Krishna agreed but when he saw her he fell for her .. Angad didn't like that isiliye to usne woh sab kidnapping ka natak kiya and blamed Krishna for it coz he didn't want Krishna to marry Prats .. His main enemy has always been Krishna


Maine kab kaha that he wanted to marry her? 😕 I said he wanted to take his badla and rape her but when Krishna fell for her he made sure that no such thing happens .. that's why Angad has this hatred for Krishna ...
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So that means if a girl is from a regular family and has no money she should allow herself to be molested in public and cry for help? I don't agree ....

Just being married doesn't stop her from caring for her family 🤔' She will always be her father's daughter ' does that mean once a girl is married uske dad ke problems are no longer hers? About telling Krishna abt the issue .. well.. she hadn't even discussed the issue with her family yet.. she wanted to sort it out with them first ' I think she'll tell him when she meets him .. I want her to .. and if she doesn't I would be the first to criticize her for that 😉




well said - u have a point there or should i say everywhere?😆i think the slap was well deserved. it was a natural reaction from pratigya's side. now if she had not slapped him people would say she is being a coward - where is the strong character that she portrayed till now? and not taking help from krishna that was expected. it is up to her to rise up to angad's challenge given that she is the protagonist. taking help from krishna would be against her character. besides she is not on good terms with the thakur family. using their name for protection would not be justifiable either. and remember when last time krishna came to help arushi without pratigya's knowledge - he beat up angad and got injured in the process. pratigya was at the receiving end from her sasuma. she ridiculed both pratigya and aarushi and krishna had justed looked on. so question of taking help from krishna and inlaws will never arise. this her fight alone and she has to face the problems that come with it no matter who the source of the problem is - angad, krish, ammaji, komaliya, shakti, ss etc etc etc. is serial ki heroine ko dost kam dushman jyaada hai!! she has miles to go before she 😆😃😉




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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanthya



As for married woman in dad's house, let me say again that NO her interest in her father's family should NOT stop, I am saying her priorities will be/should be Husband,father..😊

A blooper , AH .....😳..I am soooooooooooo embarassed ..

.and since I am a very good girl .....I will leave "IT" at "That" ..what if "IT" refuses to stay at "That" and wants "AND THEN" ...what shud I do ??😆😆..Please Advise ..😉



Ohhhh it was a typo? 😆 Thank god I was really surprised when I read that line and I thought its best to leave it at that 😆 I don't think u could ever leave it at that .. u'll continue giving us Prats supporters a hard time 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanthya



As for married woman in dad's house, let me say again that NO her interest in her father's family should NOT stop, I am saying her priorities will be/should be Husband,father..😊



But why? 😕 Does this really have to happen? Why can't a girl give equal importance to both her family and her husband's family? I don't think Prats was doing anything wrong by trying to help her family.. even Krishna had no prob in leaving her there for the night so I don't understand what's the big deal



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: AlmostHonest



But why? 😕 Does this really have to happen? Why can't a girl give equal importance to both her family and her husband's family? I don't think Prats was doing anything wrong by trying to help her family.. even Krishna had no prob in leaving her there for the night so I don't understand what's the big deal





Can You ?? let me rephrase it can WE give equal importance to everything and everyone ..??

My answer would be, a big NO...we can't give equal importance to every one simultaneously,

Not only a girl , AH even a boy will have a changed set of priorities after marriage ...Allow me illustrate ...

You are studying in a school for a period of 12 years and in your pursuit of higher education , you need to enroll in a college ...you have found a college in some distance from your school and have enrolled there..and you are busy with ur studies , the colleges extra curricular activities leave you no free time...and somehow while talking to your friends , you come to know that the school you studied is in trouble ...what will YOU do ?

drop everything in your College and rush off to your school with out informing ur Prof/Princi ... or

would you wait for your Princi and take his permission and then leave or

would you decide that the school is strong enough to take care of itself and decide to stay put, but keep in touch with the School authorities ...or

would you just don't give a damn about your college, flout its rules and then comeback thinking that you don't vow any explanation to anybody

..Similarly AH... A girls married life is a graduation from school to college ...the school still pulls at you but you know that you have grown beyond school and now belong to the college .

And now Boys,

earlier a boy's world would be revolving around his friends and in some cases around his momma , but once he marries ...his wife will be/ should be the pivot around which his world revolves ..Tell me would you be pleased if your BF/Hubby were to give more importance to his mom or friends and continue to think and talk only about them even when he is with you...


when did I say Pratigya is doing wrong in trying to help her family ..No, I don't think I have said that..My grouse against Pratigya is keeping Krishna out of the loop...why keep him in darkness, when his life is intrinsically tied with yours ...any action will affect him or at least the ripple effect will catch him ..and when he is unprepared for the effect , he may succumb to it and lash out !! This scenario is applicable to Pratigya too, any action of Krishna will have an impact on Pratigya too...THAT IS MARRIAGE !! that is why my insistence on Pratigya coming clean ..


Sorry for the Loooooong Reply !

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anujkpjk




well said - u have a point there or should i say everywhere?😆i think the slap was well deserved. it was a natural reaction from pratigya's side. now if she had not slapped him people would say she is being a coward - where is the strong character that she portrayed till now? and not taking help from krishna that was expected. it is up to her to rise up to angad's challenge given that she is the protagonist. taking help from krishna would be against her character. besides she is not on good terms with the thakur family. using their name for protection would not be justifiable either. and remember when last time krishna came to help arushi without pratigya's knowledge - he beat up angad and got injured in the process. pratigya was at the receiving end from her sasuma. she ridiculed both pratigya and aarushi and krishna had justed looked on. so question of taking help from krishna and inlaws will never arise. this her fight alone and she has to face the problems that come with it no matter who the source of the problem is - angad, krish, ammaji, komaliya, shakti, ss etc etc etc. is serial ki heroine ko dost kam dushman jyaada hai!! she has miles to go before she 😆😃😉






I know , They are one Slap happy family, so it was natural from her but not all are Adarsh who will take it lying down ..some ppl will react unfavorably ...Can she face it ? after all she did fail in her first Slap pariksha...she ended up marrying a goon like Krishna, had to face Thakur's family DIDO..and always was found crying in her room ....😊

whether she is on good terms or not ...she IS a Thakur's Bahu ...that itself was sufficient fuel to burn Angad ..and she did not use it ..

This is her fight Alone..isn't it ?then what is Aarushi doing in this fight ???😕


he beat up angad and got injured in the process. pratigya was at the receiving end from her sasuma. she ridiculed both pratigya and aarushi and krishna had justed looked on.

Krishna was unconscious ! what was he supposed to do ? Drink Magic potion and wake up strong,hearty and healthy and jump to the defense of Pratigya 😆

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanthya


I know , They are one Slap happy family, so it was natural from her but not all are Adarsh who will take it lying down ..some ppl will react unfavorably ...Can she face it ? after all she did fail in her first Slap pariksha...she ended up marrying a goon like Krishna, had to face Thakur's family DIDO..and always was found crying in her room ....😊

pratigya chose to ignore angad initially in the train. but i guess that made angad bolder and when he touched her she slapped him. any girl would have done that.
and even if she hadn't slapped him and taken help from others in the train they would have bashed angad. and then the police did intervene. do u think that if pratigya had not slapped him it would have stopped him from taking badla? from what his character is portraying till now he would be furious that people beat him up just because she complained and took help of the police. either way he would still get back at pratigya. now the slap was not meant to insult angad it was to stop him from doing what he was doing and going to do further if pratigya had continued to keep quiet. and people like angad who have no self respect and do not respect others can never be insulted or humiliated by a mere slap. they will still continue to hound women. teaching them a lesson would be putting them behind bars forever.

as far as marrying krishna is concerned even if she had spurned him he would have never let her get off that easily. gven the circumstances marrying him was the only option. besides krishna is a good goon not as bad as angad. though it was angad who unknowingly played the catalyst it was just fate that brought them together. that's how love stories happen and this love story is an unusual one.

now the thakur family - of course they never liked her. pratigya chose to remain quiet and cry initially but when her self respect was threatened she stood up to them and won the battle this time.

whether she is on good terms or not ...she IS a Thakur's Bahu ...that itself was sufficient fuel to burn Angad ..and she did not use it ..

kya phark padta hai if she is thakur's bahu or not? it is angad who should be realising that messing with thakurs is not good for his health and life. remember how krishna beat him last time. he even promised that he will not trouble arushi and professor again. but no. angadwa will never learn. he turned up at the professor's door again. even if pratigya had used krishna's name for protection it would make no difference to angadwa. angad's character was created to create havoc in pratigya's life and he will do so till he is shot dead during the last epi when the serial comes to an end. fight until death seems to be his motto.

This is her fight Alone..isn't it ?then what is Aarushi doing in this fight ???😕
by fight i meant pratigya the protagonist's reaction to the challenges she is facing from the people around her. aarushi has nothing to do with it. it was angad who dragged her in it. he knows that troubling the professor's family is the only way to take revenge from pratigya and krishna.


he beat up angad and got injured in the process. pratigya was at the receiving end from her sasuma. she ridiculed both pratigya and aarushi and krishna had justed looked on.

Krishna was unconscious ! what was he supposed to do ? Drink Magic potion and wake up strong,hearty and healthy and jump to the defense of Pratigya 😆



i watch repeats of episodes regularly so that scene where ammaji shouts at pratigya for using krishna to help her sister i clearly remember. krishna was wide awake, fully conscious and was going out to his adda. ammaji and thakur stop him and ask him about his injury. shakthi comes and tells that krishna fought with angad to save arushi. ammaji gets angry at both pratigya and krishna and tells that before he fought for pratigya and now for arushi. krishna remains quiet and so does pratigya . of course he preferred to remain quiet as neither he and pratigya were on talking terms with each other (after the honeymoon fiasco). but yes he did go out and complain to his friends about women of the house fighting for no reason at all and no lawyer in the world can beat his amma when it comes to prosecuting others😆

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Can You ?? let me rephrase it can WE give equal importance to everything and everyone ..??

My answer would be, a big NO...we can't give equal importance to every one simultaneously,

Not only a girl , AH even a boy will have a changed set of priorities after marriage ...Allow me illustrate ...

You are studying in a school for a period of 12 years and in your pursuit of higher education , you need to enroll in a college ...you have found a college in some distance from your school and have enrolled there..and you are busy with ur studies , the colleges extra curricular activities leave you no free time...and somehow while talking to your friends , you come to know that the school you studied is in trouble ...what will YOU do ?

drop everything in your College and rush off to your school with out informing ur Prof/Princi ... or

would you wait for your Princi and take his permission and then leave or

would you decide that the school is strong enough to take care of itself and decide to stay put, but keep in touch with the School authorities ...or

would you just don't give a damn about your college, flout its rules and then comeback thinking that you don't vow any explanation to anybody

..Similarly AH... A girls married life is a graduation from school to college ...the school still pulls at you but you know that you have grown beyond school and now belong to the college .

And now Boys,

earlier a boy's world would be revolving around his friends and in some cases around his momma , but once he marries ...his wife will be/ should be the pivot around which his world revolves ..Tell me would you be pleased if your BF/Hubby were to give more importance to his mom or friends and continue to think and talk only about them even when he is with you...


when did I say Pratigya is doing wrong in trying to help her family ..No, I don't think I have said that..My grouse against Pratigya is keeping Krishna out of the loop...why keep him in darkness, when his life is intrinsically tied with yours ...any action will affect him or at least the ripple effect will catch him ..and when he is unprepared for the effect , he may succumb to it and lash out !! This scenario is applicable to Pratigya too, any action of Krishna will have an impact on Pratigya too...THAT IS MARRIAGE !! that is why my insistence on Pratigya coming clean ..


Sorry for the Loooooong Reply ! 👏👏👏
I agree with what you said. When a new bride goes to maike for every little thing, stays involved in maike matters it only makes things more complicated with sasural. A girl needs to settle in her new home and start new life. Keeping pati parameswar out of trivial matters at maike is okay, but when it's serious matters keeping secrets will only create misunderstanding, mistrust and a whole lot of questions. She is privy to every thing going on in his family, so why shouldn't he know about matters which could affect them. Prats is setting herself up for a lot of grief and it's sad that she listen to the wrong advice most of the time..........Rolli, Arushi, Prof.(faltu advice) while she stays indifferent to Nainaji's advice.

Saari ki konu zaroorat hai, beta. Sometimes a long post is needed.😃







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Posted: 15 years ago
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@tanthya
and people like angad who have no self respect and do not respect others can never be insulted or humiliated by a mere slap. they will still continue to hound women. That is just my point !! I would have preferred Pratigya to continue in the same calm way that she had started,he was reacting to it,he was being taught a lesson, a very effective lesson, his ineffectiveness , his inability were very obvious when she was coolly speaking to him,that scene showed her to be a person of strong will, force and character but when she slapped him , she showed the chink in her armor ...that was a strategic mistake



dearie u completely missed the point.
after the slap the police turned up a complaint was made against angad. the police made him do a few sit ups and let him off the hook. now angad is a famous local rowdy and the police know him quite well so he should have been dealt more strictly for trying to physically abuse a woman in public. that's why i said a mere slap won't do he deserved something more than that - hmm personally i would be happy to see him behind the bars forever.

pratigya made a strategic mistake - hmm this was an untoward incident and the situation was such that there was no time to work out a strategy. the slap was a natural reaction. staying calm and letting angad touch her in the wrong places would be like encouraging him even more.
surely u r not thinking that a girl can stay calm and quiet when a rowdy starts making advances towards her in public. ignoring lewd comments is possible but physical advances r not easy to tolerate by any self respecting woman. what pratigya did was a natural reaction. a less stronger woman would have pushed him back. a more bolder woman would have beat him black and blue a normal one would just slap him. it is basic human nature. pratigya was not insulting or humiliating angad when she slapped him. neither was she trying to prove that she's a tough character. she just did what any other woman would have done in her place. it is a basic human reaction.
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Hey Tanthya!
I did read almost all of the comments in this topic and I didnt reply coz AlmostHonest and Anu had said EXACTLY wat I had in my mind!!!😃
I've to ask u one thing though, based on the title of ur topic! Does NYONE, esp. someone like Pratigya, SLAPs BCOZ it becomes NECESSARY???
I mean, Slapping is a way of expressing ones anger or humiliating the person who is being slapped! Does SOMEONE like Pratigya takes the pleasure in expressing her anger BCOZ it is NECESSARY?
It just happened as a reaction to Angad's actions (the first time) and his words (the second time!) And if Pratigya was someone who just took pleasure in slapping someone when it became necessary, then, dont u think Krishna would have been slapped infinite times by now???😉🤣
Now, if u want to think that a person slaps because it becomes necessary, then, yes, it was really necessary to slap coz that is the ONLY difference between the Frozen Wax Models and Pratigya!!! 😆 If u want Pratigya to stand their like a Wax Model and let Angad sprout his nonsense, then wat would be the difference between the Frozen Models and her? 😉
Even during the second time, Pratigya tolerated when Angad said that he had made a mistake by letting her go untouched and he should have done the job more properly - ie. r*** her!!! She didnt do nything to him when he was sprouting nonsense about her BUT how can one tolerate and plan a strategy when someone is expressing their thoughts of r**ing one's sister, right in front of her??? So she slapped the monkey, NOT bcoz it was necessary but BCOZ she had had enough of his nonsense and she wanted him to shut up, right then!!! And I think, words wont humiliate Angad as much as a slap did and after humiliating the Saxenas on a daily routine, I think it was necessary that he was given a chance to taste his own medicine!!!
Now, if the medicine does not have its effect on someone like Angad, and he comes back to take revenge on Pratigya - it is definitely NOT Pratigya's fault but a HUGE flaw in the characteristic of Angad as a dirty human!!!
COZ, slapped or not, someone like Angad can never learn or accept his mistakes or humiliations... So, just like Pratigya said, its better to take action against Angad and die than just let him take the advantage of their silence and die out of frustration and humiiation!!!👍🏼
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