Why was the Slap NECESSARY ??

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I have been going thru many threads wherein I have come across many members saying that the slap was necessary and for the life of me, I can't understand why the slap was necessary.

What is a slap ?

Dictionary says it is a sharp insult ..

Angad had the benefit of this sharp insult in the beginning of the show itself and what was the consequence ....did the slap act as an deterrent to Angad ,No it provoked him enough to destroy her life ,make her family miserable, Pratigya's placid, well ordered life was thrown into turmoil , she had to marry a guy who was totally incompatible to her ,had to bear many abuses ...In short she lost her happiness,contentment ..

And still she has not learned her lesson,

She goes and gives a second Slap and now she has been promised that her sister will be destroyed ....So what was the point in slapping,has it stopped Angad from his destructive acts, No it has goaded him further in his heinous acts...When Pratigya knows that Slap does not inhibit but provokes this animal,why indulge in it ..would not a threat of Krishna taking a hand in this be more effective ..what does she want ? for the disaster to stop or to be completely annihilated ...

And don't give me the BS that any Human would do the same ....there were 4 other Humans in that room and they were controlling themselves ...and also it has been tom tom'ed that Pratigya is a educated , thinking and intelligent girl ...and for a thinking , intelligent girl, she has shown a remarkable absence of both the virtues so far...,for neither has she thought out the fact that her Slap in the train initiated this consequences ,,,nor has she realized that Angad has got nothing to lose whereas she and her family have got everything to lose and she has no god given right to plunge both the houses into a calamity of her doing ...and so a more circumspect action was needed and not this hasty, Impulsive act [ which is more in line with Krishna's way of thinking ]

I personally think she should have gone on in her controlled and calm way [the way the scene was started] and given him a dressing down of his life ...and made it clear to him ..she is letting him go this time..but any more hanky-panky...then he will be dealing with Krishna Singh and not her !!...That would have given him a food for thought ?

What are your thoughts ?


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Is ur problem that she slapped him or is it that Krishna didn't.
I luv that pratigya doesn't need Krishna 2 teach angad a lesson.

Well 2 me she didn't plan 2 slap angad it happen cuz he was chatting bull about her litle Sis.
If it was about her then pratigya woudnt slap him.

But slap or no slap angad will still be after her family & her slap made no diffrents.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I have been going thru many threads wherein I have come across many members saying that the slap was necessary and for the life of me, I can't understand why the slap was necessary.

What is a slap ?

Dictionary says it is a sharp insult ..

I think everything that Angad had done and said till now was much worse than the 'sharp insult' Prats gave him...so it was well deserved IMO 👍🏼

Angad had the benefit of this sharp insult in the beginning of the show itself and what was the consequence ....did the slap act as an deterrent to Angad ,No it provoked him enough to destroy her life ,make her family miserable, Pratigya's placid, well ordered life was thrown into turmoil , she had to marry a guy who was totally incompatible to her ,had to bear many abuses ...In short she lost her happiness,contentment ..

As far as I remember Angad had physically abused her in the train....What should she have done in that situation? Okay so she could have kept quiet and get abused? No!! She could have verbally insulted him and complained against him? But wouldn't that be an insult to a guy like Angad too? Guys like Angad just need any bahana to harass a girl....If she hadn't said or done anything he could have taken it as a silent approval and would have continued stalking her the way Krishna felt Prats loved him since she didn't deny it ..


And still she has not learned her lesson,

She goes and gives a second Slap and now she has been promised that her sister will be destroyed ....So what was the point in slapping,has it stopped Angad from his destructive acts, No it has goaded him further in his heinous acts...When Pratigya knows that Slap does not inhibit but provokes this animal,why indulge in it ..would not a threat of Krishna taking a hand in this be more effective ..what does she want ? for the disaster to stop or to be completely annihilated ...

Had she not slapped him would that have changed anything? Would Angad suddenly become saint like and fall on her feet and beg for forgiveness? Just the fact that his plan had failed would've been enough for him to take some more revenge.. he is made like that ....he's a sick and disgusting human being who has no work and no life and hence enjoys himself by ruining oher ppl's life.. nothing would have stopped him from that 🤢

And don't give me the BS that any Human would do the same ....there were 4 other Humans in that room and they were controlling themselves ...and also it has been tom tom'ed that Pratigya is a educated , thinking and intelligent girl ...and for a thinking , intelligent girl, she has shown a remarkable absence of both the virtues so far...,for neither has she thought out the fact that her Slap in the train initiated this consequences ,,,nor has she realized that Angad has got nothing to lose whereas she and her family have got everything to lose and she has no god given right to plunge both the houses into a calamity of her doing ...and so a more circumspect action was needed and not this hasty, Impulsive act [ which is more in line with Krishna's way of thinking ]

LOL I am gonna say just that!! Any human being would have reacted that way!! 😆😛 I know I would have done the same and I am educated and I come from a peace loving family too. Those 4 other humans are the biggest losers ever!! Mr Professor couldn't stop his son and daughter getting married to a gundas family .... couldn't protect his daughters from goons what do u expect from them?? Adarsh is the worst brother ever!😡 They are losers with a capital L .. I doubt they would have said or done anything even if Angad had kidnapped Arushi right under their noses 🤪

I didn't know that educated ppl weren't allowed to get angry and lose control? 😕 So its okay for an uneducated guy like Krishna to beat up Angad and Komal to slap her maid and insult ppl around her but not okay for Prats coz she is educated? Why did Krishna have to beat up Angad after he insulted ARushi? Why couldn't he behave coolly and let it go? I think Krishna is responsible too for making Angad take his badla .... Angad hates Krishna more than he hates Prats coz he stole his girl! 😆

I personally think she should have gone on in her controlled and calm way [the way the scene was started] and given him a dressing down of his life ...and made it clear to him ..she is letting him go this time..but any more hanky-panky...then he will be dealing with Krishna Singh and not her !!...That would have given him a food for thought ?

What are your thoughts ?

Why should she hide behind Krishna and SS's name and power??? God forbid had she done that there would have been hundreds of posts abt how manipulative and cheap Prats is for using poor Krishna's name when she never gave him wife ka sukh and love. 😆 I would have hated it if she would have used Krishna's name. Why does she even need to remind him that she's Krishan's wife?? .. doesn't he already know?? I remember when the whole saving KEsar track was on and Krishna helped her everyone was like Prtas cant do anything without Krishna etc... I don't wana see a repeat of that... this is the Saxenas problem and let them deal with it themselves.

The bottom line is that Angad is a pervert!! Prats ne slap nahi bhi kiya hota to bhi he would have continued his battle against them... Slap is just a bahana.. 🤪



Edited by AlmostHonest - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree 100% with Almost honest.

Why is it that when Komal slaps and abuses eveteasers on the streets, she gets praises galore. People actually even praised Prats (surprise, surprise) for supporting Komal at that time. If Komal is SS's daughter, Prats is also SS's bahu.. so the same rule should apply to both.

Krishna too didn't need to make such a spectacle of clobbering Angad after he insulted Arushi. I could say that Krishna is as much responsible as Prats, if not more, for making Angad so mad as to come after the Saxsena's with renewed vengeance. Why didn't he just warn Angad at that time? That should also have worked, right?

Why is it that there are two sets of rules for two families?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanthya



I have been going thru many threads wherein I have come across many members saying that the slap was necessary and for the life of me, I can't understand why the slap was necessary.

What is a slap ?

Dictionary says it is a sharp insult ..

Angad had the benefit of this sharp insult in the beginning of the show itself and what was the consequence ....did the slap act as an deterrent to Angad ,No it provoked him enough to destroy her life ,make her family miserable, Pratigya's placid, well ordered life was thrown into turmoil , she had to marry a guy who was totally incompatible to her ,had to bear many abuses ...In short she lost her happiness,contentment ..

And still she has not learned her lesson,

She goes and gives a second Slap and now she has been promised that her sister will be destroyed ....So what was the point in slapping,has it stopped Angad from his destructive acts, No it has goaded him further in his heinous acts...When Pratigya knows that Slap does not inhibit but provokes this animal,why indulge in it ..would not a threat of Krishna taking a hand in this be more effective ..what does she want ? for the disaster to stop or to be completely annihilated ...

And don't give me the BS that any Human would do the same ....there were 4 other Humans in that room and they were controlling themselves ...and also it has been tom tom'ed that Pratigya is a educated , thinking and intelligent girl ...and for a thinking , intelligent girl, she has shown a remarkable absence of both the virtues so far...,for neither has she thought out the fact that her Slap in the train initiated this consequences ,,,nor has she realized that Angad has got nothing to lose whereas she and her family have got everything to lose and she has no god given right to plunge both the houses into a calamity of her doing ...and so a more circumspect action was needed and not this hasty, Impulsive act [ which is more in line with Krishna's way of thinking ]

I personally think she should have gone on in her controlled and calm way [the way the scene was started] and given him a dressing down of his life ...and made it clear to him ..she is letting him go this time..but any more hanky-panky...then he will be dealing with Krishna Singh and not her !!...That would have given him a food for thought ?

What are your thoughts ?


Tanthya i too was thinking the same thing after reading other members post who were against the slap, as we know her father and brother are not lions and are mice who really dont have a clue what to do in this situation.
After being calm and controlled hearing what he was going to do to her little sister (now i know that alot of people hate aarushi on this forum) who would not have slapped him. Being the youngest of anyones family they are spoilt and dearly loved by everyone ( i know i was and still is) come on be realistic at that given moment she did not think she got angry. Ok some members are saying that she has left Aarushi a sitting duck but if she thinks straight after the slap and tells him he forgets who she is because of him she is krishna singhs wife and the bahu of sajan singh and tells him sajan singh is already after his blood for stabbin her husband and he knows what krishna would do to him if anything happens to her family. i would also like now professor to lodge that police report so that gets angad of the streets.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't understnd y does pratigya need krish?

I think that's y ppl don't like pratigya that much cuz she doesn't need Krish

& wot the about just cuz u study u should not answer back
I didn't relize that having education make u accept everything that goin wrong
& the saxsena r just the most idotic family I have see.
U wonder y aroshi runed away.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: AlmostHonest

I have been going thru many threads wherein I have come across many members saying that the slap was necessary and for the life of me, I can't understand why the slap was necessary.

What is a slap ?

Dictionary says it is a sharp insult ..

I think everything that Angad had done and said till now was much worse than the 'sharp insult' Prats gave him...so it was well deserved IMO 👍🏼

Angad had the benefit of this sharp insult in the beginning of the show itself and what was the consequence ....did the slap act as an deterrent to Angad ,No it provoked him enough to destroy her life ,make her family miserable, Pratigya's placid, well ordered life was thrown into turmoil , she had to marry a guy who was totally incompatible to her ,had to bear many abuses ...In short she lost her happiness,contentment ..

As far as I remember Angad had physically abused her in the train....What should she have done in that situation? Okay so she could have kept quiet and get abused? No!! She could have verbally insulted him and complained against him? But wouldn't that be an insult to a guy like Angad too? Guys like Angad just need any bahana to harass a girl....If she hadn't said or done anything he could have taken it as a silent approval and would have continued stalking her the way Krishna felt Prats loved him since she didn't deny it ..


And still she has not learned her lesson,

She goes and gives a second Slap and now she has been promised that her sister will be destroyed ....So what was the point in slapping,has it stopped Angad from his destructive acts, No it has goaded him further in his heinous acts...When Pratigya knows that Slap does not inhibit but provokes this animal,why indulge in it ..would not a threat of Krishna taking a hand in this be more effective ..what does she want ? for the disaster to stop or to be completely annihilated ...

Had she not slapped him would that have changed anything? Would Angad suddenly become saint like and fall on her feet and beg for forgiveness? Just the fact that his plan had failed would've been enough for him to take some more revenge.. he is made like that ....he's a sick and disgusting human being who has no work and no life and hence enjoys himself by ruining oher ppl's life.. nothing would have stopped him from that 🤢

And don't give me the BS that any Human would do the same ....there were 4 other Humans in that room and they were controlling themselves ...and also it has been tom tom'ed that Pratigya is a educated , thinking and intelligent girl ...and for a thinking , intelligent girl, she has shown a remarkable absence of both the virtues so far...,for neither has she thought out the fact that her Slap in the train initiated this consequences ,,,nor has she realized that Angad has got nothing to lose whereas she and her family have got everything to lose and she has no god given right to plunge both the houses into a calamity of her doing ...and so a more circumspect action was needed and not this hasty, Impulsive act [ which is more in line with Krishna's way of thinking ]

LOL I am gonna say just that!! Any human being would have reacted that way!! 😆😛 I know I would have done the same and I am educated and I come from a peace loving family too. Those 4 other humans are the biggest losers ever!! Mr Professor couldn't stop his son and daughter getting married to a gundas family .... couldn't protect his daughters from goons what do u expect from them?? Adarsh is the worst brother ever!😡 They are losers with a capital L .. I doubt they would have said or done anything even if Angad had kidnapped Arushi right under their noses 🤪

I didn't know that educated ppl weren't allowed to get angry and lose control? 😕 So its okay for an uneducated guy like Krishna to beat up Angad and Komal to slap her maid and insult ppl around her but not okay for Prats coz she is educated? Why did Krishna have to beat up Angad after he insulted ARushi? Why couldn't he behave coolly and let it go? I think Krishna is responsible too for making Angad take his badla .... Angad hates Krishna more than he hates Prats coz he stole his girl! 😆

I personally think she should have gone on in her controlled and calm way [the way the scene was started] and given him a dressing down of his life ...and made it clear to him ..she is letting him go this time..but any more hanky-panky...then he will be dealing with Krishna Singh and not her !!...That would have given him a food for thought ?

What are your thoughts ?

Why should she hide behind Krishna and SS's name and power??? God forbid had she done that there would have been hundreds of posts abt how manipulative and cheap Prats is for using poor Krishna's name when she never gave him wife ka sukh and love. 😆 I would have hated it if she would have used Krishna's name. Why does she even need to remind him that she's Krishan's wife?? .. doesn't he already know?? I remember when the whole saving KEsar track was on and Krishna helped her everyone was like Prtas cant do anything without Krishna etc... I don't wana see a repeat of that... this is the Saxenas problem and let them deal with it themselves.

The bottom line is that Angad is a pervert!! Prats ne slap nahi bhi kiya hota to bhi he would have continued his battle against them... Slap is just a bahana.. 🤪



Angad hates Krishna more than he hates Prats coz he stole his girl! 😆
When i watched the scene in the train where prats was talking about family and not wearing western clothes etc angad was admiring her probably thinking that this is the girl i would like to marry. Thats why he could not rape her, just make out that krishna had done all those bad things to her and her family.
So when krishna got the girl he wanted revenge hence he decided to go after Aarushi. But that is not going to happen.
She did not use krishna and ss in this situation but after the slap she will need to, to protect her family.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: juhi20

I don't understnd y does pratigya need krish?

I think that's y ppl don't like pratigya that much cuz she doesn't need Krish

& wot the about just cuz u study u should not answer back
I didn't relize that having education make u accept everything that goin wrong
& the saxsena r just the most idotic family I have see.
U wonder y aroshi runed away.

she did not need krishna before the slap, she has left aarushi in a vunerable sitting duck stage, angad is a idiot and to get his revenge he will try and kidnap arushi. which will destroy the whole family.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: juhi20

Is ur problem that she slapped him or is it that Krishna didn't.
I luv that pratigya doesn't need Krishna 2 teach angad a lesson.

Well 2 me she didn't plan 2 slap angad it happen cuz he was chatting bull about her litle Sis.
If it was about her then pratigya woudnt slap him.

But slap or no slap angad will still be after her family & her slap made no diffrents.




Neither, My problem is what purpose did the SLAP serve ??

Has Angad began to repent his deeds, has he decided to withdraw from Pratigya's orbit ....on the contrary the slap has infuriarated to such an extent ,that he has promised vengence on Arushi ...


So If she slaps him ,The BS will stop is it ?....then what about the Lesson that Angad has promised to teach Aarushi ...Will two more slaps take care of it ?...Giving in to emotions with out analyzing the consequences is not the metier of educated people ,I will concede hot headed educated people perhaps someone like Aarushi might do, But Pratigya is shown to be a calm and Analytical character who never hurries...So this was an aberrant in her makeup ?

Agreed, Slap or no slap..Angad will be there ..but he would have focussed on Pratigya ,but now even the Innocent bystander Aarushi is pulled in for no fault of her's and after the slap his resolve to wreck their life will be all the more Stronger and is a slap worth it ??
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: AlmostHonest

I have been going thru many threads wherein I have come across many members saying that the slap was necessary and for the life of me, I can't understand why the slap was necessary.

What is a slap ?

Dictionary says it is a sharp insult ..

I think everything that Angad had done and said till now was much worse than the 'sharp insult' Prats gave him...so it was well deserved IMO 👍🏼


I am not asking whether Angad deserved it or not [IMO, Angad has got off lightly with this slap] ..my q is whether Pratigya and her family are strong enough to withstand the onslaught of Angad's vengence ,now that he has assured them so ....after receiving his SHARP INSULT ..what if she had not slapped him, he would still have been gunning for Kriya,now he has included the whole of Saxena's and Saxena's are ill equipped to deal with Angad ...did she factor this in when she slapped him ?

After the slap, Pratigya will return to her Sasural..,where she will be secure..how about her sister..who still has to go to school ,,we already have a first hand evidence their ineptitude ..

Angad had the benefit of this sharp insult in the beginning of the show itself and what was the consequence ....did the slap act as an deterrent to Angad ,No it provoked him enough to destroy her life ,make her family miserable, Pratigya's placid, well ordered life was thrown into turmoil , she had to marry a guy who was totally incompatible to her ,had to bear many abuses ...In short she lost her happiness,contentment ..

As far as I remember Angad had physically abused her in the train....What should she have done in that situation? Okay so she could have kept quiet and get abused? No!! She could have verbally insulted him and complained against him? But wouldn't that be an insult to a guy like Angad too? Guys like Angad just need any bahana to harass a girl....If she hadn't said or done anything he could have taken it as a silent approval and would have continued stalking her the way Krishna felt Prats loved him since she didn't deny it ..

What would you have done in that Situation , AH ....had she kept her nerve and complained to the TT.would not the TT have thrown them out,out of the train, out of her life ...Trust me , The TT's Know how to handle such PPL...I have used their help many a times😊



And still she has not learned her lesson,

She goes and gives a second Slap and now she has been promised that her sister will be destroyed ....So what was the point in slapping,has it stopped Angad from his destructive acts, No it has goaded him further in his heinous acts...When Pratigya knows that Slap does not inhibit but provokes this animal,why indulge in it ..would not a threat of Krishna taking a hand in this be more effective ..what does she want ? for the disaster to stop or to be completely annihilated ...

Had she not slapped him would that have changed anything? Would Angad suddenly become saint like and fall on her feet and beg for forgiveness? Just the fact that his plan had failed would've been enough for him to take some more revenge.. he is made like that ....he's a sick and disgusting human being who has no work and no life and hence enjoys himself by ruining oher ppl's life.. nothing would have stopped him from that 🤢


He is a sick and disgusting creature ! No doubt ....had she not slapped him and roused his ire...I am sure ,he would have left her pretty much alone ...Hard though this may sound,,it is the truth ...PPl like Angaddon't hang around, they are always looking for other fishes to fry ,few verbal spats and they will be gone...instead her slap is like an invitation for more trouble...

And don't give me the BS that any Human would do the same ....there were 4 other Humans in that room and they were controlling themselves ...and also it has been tom tom'ed that Pratigya is a educated , thinking and intelligent girl ...and for a thinking , intelligent girl, she has shown a remarkable absence of both the virtues so far...,for neither has she thought out the fact that her Slap in the train initiated this consequences ,,,nor has she realized that Angad has got nothing to lose whereas she and her family have got everything to lose and she has no god given right to plunge both the houses into a calamity of her doing ...and so a more circumspect action was needed and not this hasty, Impulsive act [ which is more in line with Krishna's way of thinking ]

LOL I am gonna say just that!! Any human being would have reacted that way!! 😆😛 I know I would have done the same and I am educated and I come from a peace loving family too. Those 4 other humans are the biggest losers ever!! Mr Professor couldn't stop his son and daughter getting married to a gundas family .... couldn't protect his daughters from goons what do u expect from them?? Adarsh is the worst brother ever!😡 They are losers with a capital L .. I doubt they would have said or done anything even if Angad had kidnapped Arushi right under their noses 🤪...


No, I disagree with you, Your father would not have ...he is more experienced in life than you honey ...he would have handled it rather differently...This was the time to act with tact not do the the bull in the chine shop thing



I didn't know that educated ppl weren't allowed to get angry and lose control? 😕 So its okay for an uneducated guy like Krishna to beat up Angad and Komal to slap her maid and insult ppl around her but not okay for Prats coz she is educated? Why did Krishna have to beat up Angad after he insulted ARushi? Why couldn't he behave coolly and let it go? I think Krishna is responsible too for making Angad take his badla .... Angad hates Krishna more than he hates Prats coz he stole his girl! 😆


Read Again , I said it is expected from a character like Aarushi , not from the character sketch of Pratigya !!


HIS Girl ....AH when was Pratigya HIS girl ...This is a shocker to me [ I am sorry but I did not watch it from beginning ..but Angad and Pratigya ...U r Pulling my leg aren't you ..😃
I personally think she should have gone on in her controlled and calm way [the way the scene was started] and given him a dressing down of his life ...and made it clear to him ..she is letting him go this time..but any more hanky-panky...then he will be dealing with Krishna Singh and not her !!...That would have given him a food for thought ?

What are your thoughts ?

Why should she hide behind Krishna and SS's name and power??? God forbid had she done that there would have been hundreds of posts abt how manipulative and cheap Prats is for using poor Krishna's name when she never gave him wife ka sukh and love. 😆 I would have hated it if she would have used Krishna's name. Why does she even need to remind him that she's Krishan's wife?? .. doesn't he already know?? I remember when the whole saving KEsar track was on and Krishna helped her everyone was like Prtas cant do anything without Krishna etc... I don't wana see a repeat of that... this is the Saxenas problem and let them deal with it themselves.

because she by herself is ill equipped to deal with Angad , neither does she have a strong brother and father ...neither are the police fair and strict ...Honey ...if this was saxena's problem what was Pratigya doing there ..she is a Singh Now...ad since this has effects on Krishna and his family too...Krishna should have been in the loop ...I feel she erred her ..She applied caution in telling Krishna and was quite hasty in Slapping Angad ..quite a contradiction !!😊

The bottom line is that Angad is a pervert!! Prats ne slap nahi bhi kiya hota to bhi he would have continued his battle against them... Slap is just a bahana.. 🤪



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