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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000




My dear why marry sumone who u positively know u dont love but HATE ? This makes no sense ........I mean u can marry a man ur rather indiffrerent to in the case of an arranged marraige coz ur parents arranged the marraige but why wud a woman willingly marry a man she Hates ?


In the indifference scenario..........love comes later , physical intimacy comes first [ sad but true fact of life]


In the Hate scenario ........one dies a living death [ via divorce or the life Pratigya is living right now.....unhappy on all accounts with no positive goal] or a REAL one if the hubby u hate backlashes at u and decides to teach u a lesson .


kools i hafta ask..in your religion..is it the duty of the married couple to please each other intimately ...love and hate aside..we are talking religion here...
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Posted: 15 years ago
Yes Fifi it is . Hindu religion demands that once married your husband is your soulmate for seven lives and it is the duty of the wife to give him happiness on all accounts .It sounds backward perhaps to intellectuals reading this debate who r Pratigya supporters but I am stating a fact .
Once u step in marraige it is no joke and if u dont give it ur hundred percent u incur a sin on religious level . Especially if u dont give happiness VOLUNTARILY .
And we see Pratigya telling him on first night I will voluntarily give u NAFRAT for life.........that was NOT what she promised before the holy fire'.
So she hates him so fine ...Dont marry him . U had a choice of telling SS when he came second time also that Make ur son understand I hate him .
The truth is he got mixed signals and was confused by her and took her silence for consent . We clearly see how confused he was on his first night . Hell he didnt know the first thing about women . He was a virgin like her .
But promising HATE in a holy institution like marraige and then doing big big talks of sanskaars is 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Yes Fifi it is . Hindu religion demands that once married your husband is your soulmate for seven lives and it is the duty of the wife to give him happiness on all accounts .It sounds backward perhaps to intellectuals reading this debate who r Pratigya supporters but I am stating a fact .

Once u step in marraige it is no joke and if u dont give it ur hundred percent u incur a sin on religious level . Especially if u dont give happiness VOLUNTARILY .


And we see Pratigya telling him on first night I will voluntarily give u NAFRAT for life.........that was NOT what she promised before the holy fire'.


So she hates him so fine ...Dont marry him . U had a choice of telling SS when he came second time also that Make ur son understand I hate him .


The truth is he got mixed signals and was confused by her and took her silence for consent . We clearly see how confused he was on his first night . Hell he didnt know the first thing about women . He was a virgin like her .


But promising HATE in a holy institution like marraige and then doing big big talks of sanskaars is 😆


that is what i thought..actually i googled it too 😆 but in islam it is a sin also to deny your spouse their rights cuz as i stated it leads to adultery and fornication which is a bigger sin...i also googled the seven promises hindus make around the sacred fire, none of which prats is honouring...which again is a sin...she made vows before god..
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Posted: 15 years ago
Edited by limits - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
He that never changes his opinion, never corrects his mistakes, will never be wiser on the morrow that he is today.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Kool:

Pratigya has taken a small step towards addressing the social evil of eve-teasing.

She had a small win today.

her behaviour and Krishna's response has convinced that poor tunna and chandu never to eve-tease or stalk a girl like Princess Pea for the rest of their lives because other wise their fates will be miserably similar to Krishna - ba mushakad kaid. marriage to their prey.

Wah Wah Wah. Ms. tutti Frutti I applaud you and I bow down too you and the CV.s A small community of loafers and roadside Romeos in Illahabad (atlest the tv one) are having griping nightmares of the consequences of eve-teasing. Sadly the big bad buffoon Krishna is still oblivious to his plight.😆😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago

So nice to see Fifi making long posts😃

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

So nice to see Fifi making long posts😃


not anymore...kools challenged me today....i am done 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
Kool shud challenge u often then....😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: loveanime

can someone please explain to me one thing. i am not married so i don't know. when is sleeping with your husband part of wife duties. and if it is just done out of duty then what exactly are women. there is a disgusting word for women like that and i hope and pray that is not what being a wife is all about. there are a lot of young people on this forum i wonder what they really think a wife's responsibility in the bedroom is. please lets not talk about woman body as a commodity. i hope we have more respect for what happens in the bedroom as more of a means to produce a baby, or please your husband, or some sick source of amusement.



i agree, pratigya must have known the meaning of marriage....she cannot expect tht krishna will not touch her the whole life or till she desires...but i dun think she had any control over whatever was happening in her life...she HAD to marry krishna bec. krishna baba WANTED pratigya...as far as i remember, on their wedding day when prats father refused to get prats married to paachvi fail krishna, he again threatened her family and married her on gunpoint (this time the target was adarsh right?)...

as far as wifey duties go, if sex is happening without ur consent , then it's termed as "marital rape" ....tht goes for any normal couple...and ur life is sure to become a living hell...i dun think any woman comes up with it in open to save her married life, and few think that it's their duty to keep their husbands happy so their choice doesn't matter....since this is a tv serial, they can show all this ridiculous stuff tht pratigya is succesful in her attempts to stop krishna everytime...tht might not be a reality...specially if u have a husband like krishna who thinks that it's okay for a woman to be beaten up and abused coz they r tamed for it...men have all the "rights" on his wife and women have none ! they must keep their mouth shut and listen to her husband !

reading some views here, i feel that everybody wants pratigya to become like kesar...as a part of wifey duty and selfless devotion , she silently takes all abuses from her in laws and husband, ready to be raped each night by a monster who treats u like an object.. if pratigya agrees to sleep with krishna , will tht make krishna happy? if he truely loves her then his victory lies in making her fall in love with him

i was thinking of a same situation wherein the girl is forced to marry a guy (just by putting sindoor n taking phere means the man and woman r married? tht happens in our hindu religion..what a pity) ..the same thing happened in this serial behenein..a gunda kidnapped a girl from her shadi ka mandap, forced her to marry him, threatening to put acid on her face..now tht they're married, is the girl obliged to keep her "husband" happy by sleeping with him?

the last 2 episodes where krishna brought prats home and then left and yest. scene in the tabela was hilarious 😃

@stillhopeful , loved reading ur comments dear... 👏 made my day..i'll also be laughing throughout the weekend ...
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