Originally posted by: loveanime
can someone please explain to me one thing. i am not married so i don't know. when is sleeping with your husband part of wife duties. and if it is just done out of duty then what exactly are women. there is a disgusting word for women like that and i hope and pray that is not what being a wife is all about. there are a lot of young people on this forum i wonder what they really think a wife's responsibility in the bedroom is. please lets not talk about woman body as a commodity. i hope we have more respect for what happens in the bedroom as more of a means to produce a baby, or please your husband, or some sick source of amusement.
i agree, pratigya must have known the meaning of marriage....she cannot expect tht krishna will not touch her the whole life or till she desires...but i dun think she had any control over whatever was happening in her life...she HAD to marry krishna bec. krishna baba WANTED pratigya...as far as i remember, on their wedding day when prats father refused to get prats married to paachvi fail krishna, he again threatened her family and married her on gunpoint (this time the target was adarsh right?)...
as far as wifey duties go, if sex is happening without ur consent , then it's termed as "marital rape" ....tht goes for any normal couple...and ur life is sure to become a living hell...i dun think any woman comes up with it in open to save her married life, and few think that it's their duty to keep their husbands happy so their choice doesn't matter....since this is a tv serial, they can show all this ridiculous stuff tht pratigya is succesful in her attempts to stop krishna everytime...tht might not be a reality...specially if u have a husband like krishna who thinks that it's okay for a woman to be beaten up and abused coz they r tamed for it...men have all the "rights" on his wife and women have none ! they must keep their mouth shut and listen to her husband !
reading some views here, i feel that everybody wants pratigya to become like kesar...as a part of wifey duty and selfless devotion , she silently takes all abuses from her in laws and husband, ready to be raped each night by a monster who treats u like an object.. if pratigya agrees to sleep with krishna , will tht make krishna happy? if he truely loves her then his victory lies in making her fall in love with him
i was thinking of a same situation wherein the girl is forced to marry a guy (just by putting sindoor n taking phere means the man and woman r married? tht happens in our hindu religion..what a pity) ..the same thing happened in this serial behenein..a gunda kidnapped a girl from her shadi ka mandap, forced her to marry him, threatening to put acid on her face..now tht they're married, is the girl obliged to keep her "husband" happy by sleeping with him?
the last 2 episodes where krishna brought prats home and then left and yest. scene in the tabela was hilarious 😃
@stillhopeful , loved reading ur comments dear... 👏 made my day..i'll also be laughing throughout the weekend ...
Edited by _charu_ - 15 years ago